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Old 01-02-2011, 07:27 AM   #1
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Should I worry?

My girl goes quiet on me n says little or nothing to me for days on end but then says that things are ok and im being silly when i ask if things ok. shes been in touch with exs in the past and txt them and stuff. am i being parinoid?

Old 01-02-2011, 07:56 AM   #2
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Re: Should I worry?

I know when I'm upset, I will go quiet and not talk, which is the most ineffective way of handling things. She might not be great with communication. I know with my boyfriend, when I ask him if he is alright he will either say yes or no and actually mean the answer. However, when I'm upset I will always say I'm fine. Eventually I will come around and admit that I am upset, but everyone is different.

I would try talking to her, bring up the fact that you feel she's been distant and ask if there is anything you can do.

Communication is really important in a relationship. I understand that this can be easier said than done though.

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Old 01-02-2011, 08:07 AM   #3
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Re: Should I worry?

she neva wants to talk though

Old 01-02-2011, 08:15 AM   #4
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Re: Should I worry?

I wouldn't be happy if my husband didn't talk to me either. Are you simply bothered that she seems to be more communicative with her ex's? What do you get out of this relationsip?

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