I fully agree with Ely- try and get your mail delivered somewhere else. To add to that, is it possible that you switch to email for corresponding, at least with a few of your contacts? (I understand that not everyone can email). as for diaries, can you get a diary with a lock, or keep it in a lock box? Or if you have a computer, there are free online diaries that require a password that you can use. Hopefully that helps.