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Old 01-08-2011, 07:25 AM   #1
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Ok, here goes. I just joined a networking site a few days ago. I recently messaged Andy, a long time friend from school, but we aren't actually friended so our spouces won't get mad, even though we are ONLY friends.

I have also friend who I haven't spoken to in many years Amy, that I messaged also. When I typed in her name, her account looked different and I thought she blocked me! I thought she might be mad that I edited my comment on her photo. So I sent an apology message.

ONLY today I logged in and could not find my messages in my sent folder! My son's little friend was using my computer yesterday and says she was logged in to her account! I think my messages went from her account. I sent a message to Andy letting him know what might have happened. No big deal.

The only thing----I don't want to send a message to Amy, and I'm feeling really dumb right now sending her an apology thinking I was blocked from her account!

Do I do nothing since she'll probably realize I accidently was logged into someone else's account and laugh it off?

Do I try and send another message? I really don't want to at this point, it might be overkill! lol

What will my friend think of this and what should I do?

(It doesn't display the account name when sending a message!)

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Old 01-08-2011, 12:30 PM   #2
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You kids and your networking sites. Why not just call her up like normal?

 
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If it was another account, the messages will say that. No need to let them know, they can see it.

I can't see that this is a big deal, except I do agree that young people place an inordinate amount of importance on these sites, and they use them as a primary means of communication. I personally hate this, along with the whole texting obsession.

I don't feel an apology is necessary, what exactly do you feel you did that warrants an apology?

 
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If it was another account, the messages will say that. No need to let them know, they can see it.
I agree with this. I wouldn't worry about it. You're making too big of a deal out of nothing, to be honest.

 
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Well, didn't you sign your name?

Every "networking" site I've ever been on displays the name of the sender, if not their profile photo. I've never heard of one that sends blind messages.

Do you really think "Amy" is going to be mad about this? If so, why?

 
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