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cryingforever 01-19-2011 07:37 AM

porn?
 
so i stayed out last night and came back and discovered he was looking at porn on the net. in some ways im not bothered by it but all i want to know is does porn mean he wants another woman? does he find me unattractive? am i not good enough? i know ALOT of men and women look and masturbate at porn but does it mean anything? should i feel threatened or not? its like 50/50 half bothered and half not bothered about it. just questions going through my mind.

Kszan 01-19-2011 08:12 AM

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Does it matter? Really? This thing is already broken, I don't think anything else he does should surprise you or make you wonder about anything. He wants you to move out, so he is going to do whatever he wants and he doesn't care about your feelings. If I were you, I wouldn't be wasting my time overanalyzing why he is looking at porn because that's the least of your problems with this relationship. In your case, I'd spend more time figuring out how to move out and stay moved out so I could have a shot at being happy for a change.

Buckeye1030 01-19-2011 08:21 AM

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I'm sorry I don't know your whole story. Generally speaking, I'm a firm believer in masturbation and it has nothing to do with being happy or unhappy with your partner. I do think, however, that there is something wrong if the masturbator isn't taking care of business with their partner.

Ely4 01-19-2011 08:48 AM

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I agree, his use of porn is the least of your problems. Everything he says and does is quite obviously showing you that he doesn't want you around. You need to open your eyes and see that. Why are you still letting him get away with treating you so badly? :(

cryingforever 01-19-2011 09:42 AM

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I am weak :-(

rosequartz 01-19-2011 10:39 AM

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well it's time to get stronger......
being a victim won't get you anywhere.......
it's up to you....you have to make the choice


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