i am 51 years and starting to menapause i was looking forward to it. two month ago i exprience something very nasty. i over heard my husband and his friend talking about menapause and his friend advice him something very stupid that went i start to menapause i should wear tight ski pants and walk through a mall and see if i have any sexual feelings for other man or woman.
i asked him about it but he does not want to say anything. i found this very disgusting. and it stress me. did any 1 out there exprience something like this.
Yes, that was rather disrespectful, but perhaps in their minds they were just making a joke, what do I know?
It has really made a bad impression on you, however, for two months are gone and you are sort of still dwelling on this. Can't you let it go, or are there any other signs that your relationship with your husband is going sour?
And why were you looking forward to your menopause?
I'm also sure it was a person trying to be funny. It's too bad you didn't step right in and tell him your husband was planning his mid-life crisis to include a sports car and that the two of you would ride in it to the mall together and strut your stuff.
I think the idea of being freed from accidental pregnancy leads some men to get the wrong idea of what a woman is interested in. Heck, maybe it was this guy's experience. But one stupid, weak joke should not change the way you feel about yourself. You can't help it your husband has a tacky friend. And that's really the only impact on you. Otherwise, you're fine.