all the single ladies...
Well, this is my first really positive post on here, and I haven't made a new thread in forever! I posted last year all the time about my boyfriend that said things all the time to hurt my feelings without knowing it, I was worried because he had a girl friend that he seemed to still have feelings for, etc. Well we broke up many months ago and since then I had another boyfriend with whom I had no jealousy or obsessive thoughts whatsoever for some reason, but we broke up because he lied a lot about stupid stuff and would say things like "a bunch of really hot girls have 'offered' to have sex with me recently, but I have said no because I just want to be with you." Needless to say, I broke that off and for a couple months now I have actually really enjoyed being single!!! I like not having to answer to anybody and to just do what I want and hang out with my friends. I used to hole up with some guy and when we broke up, I had no one to hang out with cause I'd ditched all my friends while we were together. I so don't want to be like that anymore. I do get lonely sometimes and think it'd be nice to have a guy over here to cuddle or watch a movie with, but I'm not looking for anybody or keeping anybody on the backburner like I usually do.
I feel like now it's going to be hard to get back into a relationship because I would have trust issues and I just don't want the burden of having to deal with feelings of jealousy and always wondering what someone is up to, dealing with heartbreak and abandonment, etc. Has anyone else that used to have bad relationships gotten used to being single, started to enjoy it and then gone to the other extreme, avoiding relationships at all costs? I think it'll be great for me to be single for a year or so, but eventually I'll get in another relationship and really don't want to go back to being like how I was. Anyone relate?
Last edited by digmusic; 03-01-2011 at 06:27 PM.