Re: When to have "The Talk"?
Tried to ask him about NC. Didn't go well. He changed the subject. Well, he changed the subject after he said NC was pretty awesome, then he suggested where we should sit in the library. It wasn't a complete brush off and I have a hard time talking about things seriously. People think I'm either joking or they don't know how serious what I'm talking about is to me. Can't talk about relationship stuff until after finals. Today was going so well too. He seemed so into me. What is going on? I think I just take a 'no' very seriously. He didn't say no though. I hate talking.
Now I'm stuck sitting next to him at the library and all I want to do is cry.
Edit and update: A couple hours later...I think I noticed something. Because he didn't automatically say yes my first though is always the worst. I first wrote this post after it had just happened so I was in a bad place, thinking wise. Within a hour I felt better. I just think with the combination of finals and this I am stressed out! Because of this my emotions are crazy and I'm not thinking straight. Me and him had a good time today, we went to a restaurant, studied, hung out with his family, and went back to studying. We were together 12 hours today and it honestly felt like 2. It went so fast. I just need to take a deep breathe, get over my fear of rejection, and probably increase my self-confidence while I'm at it. Hopefully, this clear thinking won't go away.
Last edited by MsConfused; 05-01-2011 at 11:31 PM.