Re: Boyfriend stopped making effort
I love John U's post! I think this is exactly how a guys mind work sometimes, I think the main point here is:
1) He isn't responsible for your feelings/making you feel better. In general, no one wants to take on this role.
2) the problem isn't really him not wanting to spend time with you, You're the one that doesn't like his behavior so thus YOU have the issue, and YOU need to do something about if it he is unwilling to have an actual conversation or even care.
I'm not saying your relationship is doomed, but if YOU don't like something it's pretty much YOU who needs to do something about it.
and I quote "The only person you can change is yourself"
"tell me, what was your face before your mother and father were born?"
Last edited by 00lady00; 06-14-2011 at 05:38 PM.