So.. this woman and i are in the early stages of our relationship and i want to make this one last. She says she is happy but i tend to over think situations.
She is very sweet to me and brings me treats and goodies a lot! The trouble is she lives 20ish minutes away and i do not have a car right now. I feel bad that she travels such a distance to see me i told her i felt bad and she said she didn't mind but i don't know what to believe. I am working on getting a car not just for that but for convenience...so i am prioritizing.
any ideas? is this selfish of me/am i doing the right things?
If your friend is saying she doesn't mind traveling to you, I think you should believe her.
It would be sweet, if you haven't already told her, to mention that you do feel badly that you don't have a car yet, and you can't wait until you are able to come and see her! I agree with you, you're probably overthinking. Just enjoy your new relationship. You sound like a very nice guy. Oh, and giving her flowers NEVER HURTS!
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