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Old 01-19-2012, 12:47 PM   #1
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My relationship with someone the suffers from anxiety/depression:(

I met my boyfriend 5months ago and when I met him I finally said this is the man for me after being single for 5 years I was just dating. I started seeing things that he was doing that didnt look good little did I know that he had anxiety after 2 months when he confessed. The sad thing that when I met him he was the greatest man with me but always under the influence of alcohol! and later on I find out that when he was sober he would transform to a totally different man, grouchy,quite, not lovable,and having mood swings. We have broken up like 10 times in 5months to the point that I dont know what to do ! yea I love him alot because hes a man that likes to hang out with me daily, go out and eat and be out and about with me but I dont get no love affection at all is like if Im with a robot he does tell me he loves me and all he wants to do is be with me but Im miserable, unhappy, and about to let him go . He does seek for help and takes his meds but all this moods swings are driving crazy. He stop drinking !for me because he would really go crazy when he was drunk but again he was outgoing and lovable and wanted to be with me intimately but now he's sober and miserable. I know I can just walk out of this relationship but again I love him alot! Im desperate!and going crazy myself. If he goes back to drinking Ill have a happy affectionate man but an alcoholic or if he stays sober I have to deal with his personality.

 
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Old 01-20-2012, 03:36 AM   #2
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Re: My relationship with someone the suffers from anxiety/depression:(

It sounds like staying with him would be a big mistake. He's an addict, but his problems aren't yours nor are they your fault! He's mistreating you and not showing you the love and respect you deserve. Ask yourself if you want to constantly feel bad for the rest of your life because of someone else's problems. I say move on. You haven't spent that much time in the relationship, so it's easier to walk away. If he becomes abusive when you try to leave, then it's a sign that you should DEFINITELY leave. Remember that abuse can be as little as disrespecting you, not showing you affection, or yelling/fighting with you constantly. If he's insulting you and putting you down, that's also abuse and that kind can stay with you for life if you don't put a stop to it right away.

I wish you the best, I hope that you can get into a better situation, because you deserve it.

 
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