I just don't understand why the guys think the way they do!!!!!!!!! to keep from playing with their partners feelings! they have to hide/lie about things.. I have to say It freakin hurts when we find out our guy lied and tried to hide things.
Sorry! I have to get this off my chest. I have noone to talk to about it cause i don't want to get other involved who knows me. I can truely say I love this man with my whole heart and soul but it's obviouse he doesn't feel the same way about me
.... we have been together for 3 1/2 years and we worked together not against eachother in alot of ways. He has his space and i have mine.we live together also..I thought we both was doing great untill one day i went to get a few things out of the car and found condoms. I know for fact he didn't have them when he was single cause we cleaned his car inside and out last yr. and those wasnt in there but he claims he had them when he was single..and then i noticed he got another phone that is prepaid that we had before we went on contract well he got it activated so i let him lie again. another situation is when we go to bed together he acts like hes asleep then when he thinks im asleep he sneaks out of bed real easy then goes down stairs on his cell phone texting. but once he relizes im coming down the stairs he automatically says hes keepin woodburner going. I have to say It hurts so bad that i just wish he would have cut my heart out of me and shredded it to pieces. why bother to lie............ just tell the truth. I just hate the thought of losing him I want him to be happy but i don't want him to think its ok to keep playing with my heart strings.. I do know this for sure if he decides to move on...... I do know I will not be going to work anymore and will not be in the same town and my children and family will not know where i go but will know im ok. at least till i can handle not have him to hold and love and spoil.and there will be no more relationships ever again. I'm too honest i do know that..
