Re: why cant i move on when he has
Are you still communicating with your ex? Do you talk on the phone, text, IM or email? Do you check his F-Book page? Or, God forbid, are you still intimate with him?
Everywhere, you will read that "no contact" is the only sure way to begin to get over a relationship that ended when you didn't want it to. Staying in contact, even if it's just texting to "say hi", keeps you stuck and in the mindset that you two are still together, even though you aren't. Never mind if he said you two could stay friends, you can't be "just a friend" to someone you're still in love with but who doesn't want to be with you.
To move on and get over the hurt feelings and the pain, you need to be consistent with "no contact".