Re: An awkward situation
I TOTALLY agree with you. And to tell you the truth, from a strangers-eye-view, I don't believe that your wife and this man slept in the same room, in different beds, and that nothing happened. Sorry, not buying it.
Even if I am wrong, and certainly I hope I am, if the choice is between a happy family and this "friend" and your wife is having such a hard time deciding... that indecision IS a decision, you know what I mean? There is definitely something wrong here. Your gut is telling you something. Keep pursuing it. Don't let your wife tell you that you are expecting too much of her.