Re: torn between two women
You have to be careful in the fact that you have never met the person you have been chatting to, have never lived with them and you may already have difficulty realizing how people change once they are in a married 'living together' relationship. I think the reality right now is that you might be 'in love' with the perception of who this other person is. This doesn't mean that this person has a different internet persona than they would in real life, it just means that right now there aren't any expectations between each other. Once two people meet in person that's when the expectations begin, whether we realize it or not. As far as your wife, I would really look online at what women need in married relationships down to the tee and then ask yourself, have I been attentive to that? After that point if you realize that you have been not just committed to your wife, but fully attentive to her needs and still it is not working out then it may be time for things to change. But be careful not to be swayed by the 'feeling' that you have been a great husband or swayed towards the perception that there's something better waiting in the wings for you.