Friend claims level of trust is changing with me.
I need some insight on a situation I recently became aware with a friend. In general, I just feel weird about it. My gut is telling me that things won't be the same again and I'm really bothered.
So a friend of mine came to me today to discuss some grievances she had with me. She told that I had really hurt her feelings when I tweeted something about her. The tweet was pretty non-specific, to the extent that there was no way that anyone could have possibly known who it was about, unless this person read it directly. Which she did. I apologized for it. But honestly, I didn't feel bad about what I said or that I tweeted it.
My account is public and anyone can read it. The kicker is, this friend does not have a Twitter account. She informed me that she looks at my account, quite frequently. I found this...weird. And I asked her why, and she simply said, it's just something she does. Okay.
She proceeds to ask me if any of my other tweets in the past week had been about her. I said no, which they honestly were not. Then she pushes that she knows one is particular was about her (which it wasn't) because I tweeted it the same night that we were texting. This REALLY threw me for a loop.
Here's the thing: I'll admit that I lurk on my ex's Twitter page. I do. But I wouldn't dare confront him about something he tweeted that I "thought" was about me because that just makes me look psycho and obsessed. Which is how I feel about this situation. Why tell on yourself when you've been doing waaaay too much?
My question is, is it crazy of me to feel weird about the fact she silently lurks and scans my Twitter account? And what's more, I'm bothered by the fact that she could quite possibly continue to do so and bring up another instance where she thinks I am talking about her. She already mentioned in the convo that she is questioning her level of trust with me because of this incident. But I, on the other hand, am questioning why she feels the need to lurk on my profile. I don't do that to her Facebook account.
This is really all so stupid. Really.