Need help with gf.
So I have to repost this because this is something I need help dealing with and I AM trying to understand. My gf gets like this on her period and I get that it is hormonal, but how much is hormonal and how much is just her? She is a very bright woman, but she can get absent minded on her period. Case in point:
She gets invited to a wedding months ago tonight... I'm not invited (its her coworker's daughters wedding)... Understandable.
We had plans to go to my buddy's shore house this weekend and she was excited to go... I knew she wouldn't get back from the wedding till late.
to rewind for a second, I asked her in the beginning of the week (when she started her period coincidentally) if we could take her car since I had to get work done on mine. She said yes.
She meets her coworker at my house (half way point) and they go to the wedding... I asked her again BEFORE she left if we could still use her car since I had to drop mine off. She again says yes and its no problem, she just needs to do a few things at her house after she gets back from the wedding. Alright fine no worries.
I drop my car off, I'm home all night rebuilding my PC with a new motherboard and studying for my Security+ Exam. i fall asleep at 11:30PM, she doesn't get back here till 1AM...
you would think she would LOOK in my room for me, but she automatically assumes that I am upset with her for being late (which hasn't happened more than once in our 7 months of dating, I'm used to her always being late for everything) and as a result left without telling her.... she leaves my house, goes home, calls me, and because I'm sleeping I don't answer...
I just talked to her a few mins ago, and she doesn't even recall me saying i had to drop my car off at the mechanic... presumably I knew she was "mad" because she obviously thinks I just ditched out on her... Meanwhile i made no other plans because she orignally told me she would be back by 10:30PM... and had i hung out with a long time female friend of mine that I still talk with often (no feelings regarding the situation, just been friends for 4 years now) she would have gotten upset even more.
I just dont understand... and it's all when she's on her period. she's never like this otherwise.
Last edited by MattNotz; 08-05-2012 at 01:36 AM.