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Old 08-08-2012, 11:19 AM   #1
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need help with ex gf

i will explain short

we broke up cuz she had another bf
but now she wants to come back
cuz the *** hits her
she realised she made a big misstake
and promised not to let me down again
but i don't trust her anymore

i do still care about her but also was
so relieved i didn't had to worry bout her

i dunno what to do
i love her but don't trust her

like always honest answers are appreciated

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Old 08-08-2012, 11:27 AM   #2
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Re: need help with ex gf

Would she have come back if the new bf didn't hit her? I wouldn't trust her either, it sounds like she just wants a boyfriend and anyone will do. You can be supportive and caring without entering into a relationship with her. Good luck, Sera

Old 08-08-2012, 11:34 AM   #3
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Re: need help with ex gf

Hi Paddymax, I would give yourself time and space away from this girlfriend. I read your other thread, and it sounds like she enjoys getting reactions from you by hurting you. I think either she is being dishonest about being abused, or she is trying to take advantage of your good nature. I would be wary of trusting anything she says or does since she sounds like a manipulative, dishonest person. Are both of you teens? How long have you two been a couple? Something doesn't seem quite right with her. She doesn't seem to know what she wants, and is in fear of commitment.

Old 08-08-2012, 11:59 AM   #4
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Re: need help with ex gf

we were together for 2 years 5 months and 6 days
ik silly to keep count but still
she didn't lied about the abuse
when i went to give her some of her stuff
he almost smacked her for talking to me
and no were not teens anymore
she is younger then me and thats a first
cuz never connected with any1 younger then me

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