Re: just not over it or something more?
Whenever you lose interest in any important part of your life, then depression is a very likely cause. Depression can be just a shutting off of emotions to protect yourself from hurt, and it seems as if that is what is going on here. It will pass; it always does. Boost up the other parts of your life, get and keep fit, get a social life going, all this will help. Explore your feelings over the past year. When a relationship breaks down, your emotional part slots it into 'grief and loss' just like a death. Mourning must take place, if you do not go through it then you can get stuck in this grey area. Sera