Re: confused and alone
Oh, I didn't understand you knew specifically who the woman was.
Well, I hate to say this but I would -- assuming I still loved him -- give him a second chance if he was another wise dependable, good guy. But, having said that, I might be a bad person to listen too. I gave someone way too many chances in my life. So I've learned there needs to be boundaries. So if you do decide to take him back, set the ground rules and be ready to stand by them. After this, he can't make a second mistake of this level and get away with it or he knows he has you.
On the other hand, if you instincts are telling you to let it go, trust them. That's where I messed up. I knew I should have gone much sooner. So if that inner voice is talking to you, please listen.