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Old 09-16-2012, 06:18 PM   #1
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Unhappy Really sick of it all, but I love him so much

Hi, I have been with my boyfriend now since February and moved in with him, his mother and his daughter in April. Everything was going good, but always the same, he and his mother battle all the time about stupid stuff, they are like children, and he and his daughter battle all the time as well. I am really sick of the fighting, I tell them all that I am sick of it. I have even went back and moved in with my parents for a couple of days and then I moved back in with them because I truly love him.

He has depression so he can only handle so much work and other things so he breaks mentally and he tells everyone that they are abusive when they are not.

I am trying to deal with ignoring it all but I can't. We work together, me his mom and him, so we are always with each other and we work the third shift so all I do is work and sleep because I am getting broken sleep because I am trying to sleep during the day.

I am all stressed out....

I have told all them that if there is another fight that I am leaving..Is this the right way to go about it.....I can't handle it.

Again, I love him, his mom and his daughter they are awesome people just the fighting is killing me.

Thanks

 
Old 09-16-2012, 07:49 PM   #2
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Re: Really sick of it all, but I love him so much

That's easy, move out. You're right, that's a toxic environment for you to be in and you need your own space. Furthermore, since you work with him and his mom, y'all are spending WAY too much time together and that needs to stop. The only way you can try to make this work is to move out and have your own place so you can do your own thing and have your own life outside of this relationship. It is never a good idea to wrap yourself so completely in a relationship with someone when you're just dating. Its the kiss of death and it will never have a chance if you keep living there.

 
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