| Re: my 3 and a half year relationship is slipping away :(
Don't let what I said give you more anxiety! I'm the same way, if someone says something to me about this subject of losing interest, I freak out too. If you're like me, and you still want the relationship, want to be with him, then you must remind yourself of why you fell in love with him in the first place. What I did, was eben though I couldn't Ignore how weird I felt towards him, I still tried to act how I usually did with him when I was feeling like myself. And eve tuslly those feelings slowly disappeared. You have to remind yourself of the good times with each other as well. I have OCD as well, which is part of the feelings. Your OCD is leading to compulsive thoughts and I have been there before. Tell yourself those thoughts aren't true. Be yourself, it took a month for me when I posted this for them to go away, but doing what I said really helped! And I'm sorry if I made you upset :/
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