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Old 09-26-2012, 03:34 PM   #1
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Help!

I am currently dating my boyfriend of three years now, but still have feelings for my ex. I do love my boyfriend, but thinking about my ex makes me so happy and I wish I could be with him. We talk like once a month roughly via text messages. I don't know what to do! Any ideas?

 
Old 09-26-2012, 04:56 PM   #2
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Re: Help!

If you are still wanting to be with your ex and think about him all the time and talk with him and a currently with someone, you need to really decide what you want.. Otherwise somebody is going to get hurt.. Your bf is with you and im guessing wants to be with you since you have been together so long, but I dont think he would be very happy knowing you would rather be with your ex.. Your waisting both of your guys's time being in a relationship that ur not full heartedly in..
Im not trying to be harsh about it or be mean, I just dont want someone thinking that there partner loves them and wants to be with them when it isnt true..

 
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Old 09-26-2012, 05:28 PM   #3
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Re: Help!

Thanks! I know what you mean. The thing is my ex boyfriend has a girlfriend of two months and he loves her. I am happy for him. So I obviously do not know what he is feeling about me and us. The thing is I do still love my boyfriend now. So difficult.

 
Old 09-26-2012, 09:11 PM   #4
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Well I would say then since he has moved on as well and is happy that you should let him go.. Otherwise he wouldnt have found some one else and would still be trying to be with you.. But even with that being said, if you are not happy were you are then you should not be with the guy your with now.. And if you are happy which im guessing your not miserable or you wouldnt have stayed in the relationship for 3yrs then you need to start being full hearted in the relationship and stop wishing that you were some were else and with some one else..
I know relationships are hard.. BELIEVE me I know!! But you really just need to dig deep into your heart and decide what you want..

 
Old 09-27-2012, 07:46 AM   #5
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Yeah, absolutely. I am happy with my current boyfriend. I just need time to realize that. Thanks!!!

 
Old 09-27-2012, 07:51 AM   #6
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Your welcome, and I hope everything works out for you and your boyfriend.. Sometimes you just really need to let go of the past to truely see what you have in front of you and be happy were you are and to be able to move forward..

 
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