I just got this girls number that I liked for over a year now. The only thing is she is 17 and am 18 I graduated but she hasn't yet therefor, she is still in school so she has a curfew. Also we work together! So when do i find the time to hang out with her outside of work and what are some things we can do? I mean I know the obvious but this girl is special so I really want to keep her interested in me. I have her number but i haven't called or text her yet.
Can i get some advice please from people have more experience then i do thanks in advance.
The problem is that she's so young and that you work with her; this could complicate the deal. You don't want to jeopardize your work environment or hers. But I need a little more info: Most importantly, how does she act towards you? Does she seem flirtatious, overly friendly? Or just kind of blah?
You have her number, so that's possibly a good sign. I'm not a huge fan of texting because everyone does it -- and it's easy to misinterpret one's tone and mood through text messages. Answer those questions and I'll let you know where to go from there.
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Well, for a start, get a conversation going. Call, text, let her know you are interested. Go for a coffee after work, walk her to her car, bus, whatever. Pay nice attention to her, and go from there. Sera
To betterbod,
She often refers to me as her boyfriend at work to other co-workers but it seems like a joke to me but i'm not sure, maybe it's a signal. Also, she does touch me sometimes, and we do flirt. But the thing is there is another guy that we work with and him and her seem to share some of the same moments that we share. I'm wondering why she calls me her boyfriend if we never hung outside of the work place, or have shared any intimate conversations with each other.
Well she is younger then me, and still in school so there are time limits to when we can hang out. Also, she doesn't drive or take the bus her mom picks her up from work. I drive i was thinking i should offer her a ride but i don't know how the parents would take it since I'm 18.
You should totally offer her a ride to work! Are you kidding? Make it a regular thing, I guarantee she will get to know you and then you can figure out if it's worth pursuing. As for her parents, I don't know why a years age difference would make any difference especially since you'd be driving her to work not taking her out on a date. Not yet anyway. If they get to know you cause you're driving her to work all the time I'm sure it won't be a problem if you do end up going on a date!
