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Old 10-06-2012, 03:29 PM   #1
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Hi so my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and for the past year we have lived together - well ever since we moved out he has been super lazy doesn't help clean anything. About 5 months ago he got laid off and since then he has applied to maybe 4 jobs he just doesn't even care even though he has gone through most of his savings. So the time is coming up to renew our lease and I'm on the fence when I have the option to move back home with my dad(I'm only 22) or stay in our apartment. I feel like I know the proper thing to do is move out but his family and my own are giving me all kinds of advice which is confusing me. I don't know if this is a healthy relationship when I am giving a lot more into this then he his. And every time I have tried to talk to him about it he pretends like he doesn't understand or hear it. Need some advice

 
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Go with your gut and move out. Your boyfriend is a dead beat and you know you deserve better.

 
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Old 10-06-2012, 06:32 PM   #3
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I don't see this relationship lasting as long as a new lease. Don't trap yourself. Imagine this guy 20 years on....<shudders>..Sera

 
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