Originally Posted by Mybfcheatedonme
I asked my friend and she also suggested me not to let him know the reason why. But if i tell him the truth, doesnt it make him feel guilty or somethig? I want him to feel bad
i dont know i feel so bad and i dont know what to do.. I loved him.. I dont really plan to go back with him as it is hard to give second chance to people. I feel like i want to scream in front of him or revenge
oh i am screwed
If you tell him the truth, the first thing he'll do is latch on to the fact that you found out by snooping on his ********, which he can (rightfully) throw back at you. You become the bad guy, the accuser, and he gets to act all indignant despite what a jerk he is.
Anyway, there is no way that telling him what you know will get you the satisfaction you want. If you tell him, he's totally off the hook because - as he's said - he doesn't care and wasn't thinking long-term with you anyway. In fact, it sounds like he was just using you, and probably has been all along.
The only way you could possibly get to him now is by NOT telling him. Just dump him. No reason. At best, it'll get to his ego because he wasn't the one to dump you first.
Seriously, don't tell him. There's no way it will end well for you.