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Old 10-18-2012, 03:59 AM   #16
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Re: I just found out my bf cheated on me

the thing is i told her i don't want any attachment in the start she was amazing for 8 months then bam after the 1st fight hell was raised and now its to late to get detached been seeing her for 11 months now and the last to months was dreadful but she says everything is fine she doesn't know why she does that to me but i always forgive her the same things bug her and i am going to get the dna tested cuz if that is another mans bby im not going to raise it i want my own

 
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Old 10-18-2012, 04:03 AM   #17
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Re: I just found out my bf cheated on me

Well yeah man definitely check the baby's DNA!! I feel for you. Hope your girl situation gets better

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Old 10-18-2012, 04:31 AM   #18
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me to thank you and hope you make the right choice

 
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Old 10-18-2012, 06:10 AM   #19
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Re: I just found out my bf cheated on me

I personally would not be able to hold it in. But if you don't tell him you saw it in black and white he will just BS you... and he will probably try to BS you either way. Take it from someone older maybe not wiser. It's best to move on. Rarely do these things get better on thier own.

 
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Old 10-18-2012, 04:19 PM   #20
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Re: I just found out my bf cheated on me

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Thanks
I asked my friend and she also suggested me not to let him know the reason why. But if i tell him the truth, doesnt it make him feel guilty or somethig? I want him to feel bad i dont know i feel so bad and i dont know what to do.. I loved him.. I dont really plan to go back with him as it is hard to give second chance to people. I feel like i want to scream in front of him or revenge oh i am screwed
If you tell him the truth, the first thing he'll do is latch on to the fact that you found out by snooping on his facebook, which he can (rightfully) throw back at you. You become the bad guy, the accuser, and he gets to act all indignant despite what a jerk he is.

Anyway, there is no way that telling him what you know will get you the satisfaction you want. If you tell him, he's totally off the hook because - as he's said - he doesn't care and wasn't thinking long-term with you anyway. In fact, it sounds like he was just using you, and probably has been all along.

The only way you could possibly get to him now is by NOT telling him. Just dump him. No reason. At best, it'll get to his ego because he wasn't the one to dump you first.

Seriously, don't tell him. There's no way it will end well for you.

Good luck.

 
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