Hi all" I am a new member need some advice
Last night my bf visited me and he opened his ** in my computer and he forgot to sign off.
And I looked at the messages (I know it was wrong but I did it anyway )
Apparently he went to Gold Coast couple weeks ago to meet this girl which also happened to be her ex. But what he told me is that he went to Gold Coast for some reunion with his high school friends which was not true. They slept together there, and I saw their pics kissing etc..
We been together for almost 1 year, so our relationship is kinda new
Also i found another ugly truth . He talked to one of his friend about me saying that he doesn't see any future with me because I am young and stupid, and I don't know what I want in life. And he also mentioned that I am not the girl that he can hurry and settle down with.
I was shocked and really sad finding this because tbh I was hoping to marry him one day. Because even I am young I take relationship seriously
I guess its true when ppl say what u don't know won't hurt you
Now I don't really know what to do
My mind told me to break up with him but my heart says different
I love him
I still am
I asked my friend and she suggested me to just break up without telling him anything but I want to tell him that I saw the messages on ******** and I hurt, we'll I just want to get some closure
But m y friend told me that it is so childish to confront him that way
She told me to just say like this "now I realise that I was so stupid that I didn't know what I want but now I do. And that is I don't want u."
What do u guys think? I really need some opinions here
I am still hoping if I tell him the truth he would say sorry and tell me the reasons or something
thanks for listening to me
Your advices, opinions, or your two cents is really appreciated