Re: can't figure out what to do
Well, I think... hmmm, yes, I think you should talk to her. I am hesitating, because there is the real possibility that nothing will change. She might give you a lame excuse or something and will remain distant, or she may try to reapproach you just to please you, just for the sake of appearances, and you will sort of feel she is faking it, because it won't be like she was before. What I mean is, unless she tells you there was a very concrete and pausible reason for her withdrawal (something you said or did, but were not aware of, which I don't think is the case), this relationship is doomed. Like we say here: if rekindled, it will taste like reheated coffee, if you see what I mean. I am sorry about it, but this is how things happen sometimes. The bottomline she was not a real friend, you know. Yes, ask her about what happened to make her ignore you like that, but donot make it sound like like a regret. Do that just as a way to get it off your chest, but don't have expectations and, if anything, express your lack of understanding rather than showing your real pain.
Last edited by pendulum; 05-11-2013 at 12:44 PM.