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Board: Relationship Health 07-25-2012, 09:04 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 664
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: need help fixing things with my gf

You've let her know how you feel. I don't know if there's anything more you can do than that. Perhaps you need to back off and give her some time now to process it all and think about it. Tell her...
Board: Relationship Health 07-24-2012, 07:38 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,212
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: He Lied to Me!

Wow. This guy sounds like a total nutcase. I'm glad you're finally rid of him. Now that you have found your power, no one will ever be able to take it from you. Congratulations! You'll be a much...
Board: Relationship Health 06-08-2012, 01:50 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,044
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Should I apologize to him?

I agree, you dont need to apologize for being honest. If he was making you feel neglected or that you were doing all the work or that you were more a nuisance than a joy to him, then that's his fault...
Board: Relationship Health 05-24-2012, 08:42 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,040
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Curious to know what he's after

There are always exceptions, but it seems to me that in general, when a man says I'm not looking for a serious relationship" he means just that. You will never be serious relationship material. He...
Board: Relationship Health 05-23-2012, 06:47 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,342
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Deep regret--unexpressed love for best friend who married someone else.

You clearly still have feelings for him. I think it would b a mistake contacting him as long as you have regrets about letting him go. Work on that on your own first. Don't use him to get closure...
Board: Relationship Health 05-19-2012, 06:02 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,254
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Help... is there something wrong with us or is it just me?

You've gotten some excellent advice, Confufled. What you do with it is up to you, but like they say, only you know what you want, and only YOU will be unhappy if you don't get it. "I can't leave him...
Board: Relationship Health 05-14-2012, 07:56 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 810
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: not sure what hes thinking?

People really have to stop being scared of asking "by the way, just so I know where we stand, are you sleeping with anyone else?" In this day and age where it's pretty common for people who don't...
Board: Relationship Health 05-11-2012, 08:06 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,148
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: How Can I Fix Things With Him?

Of course he doesn't do it "all the time." What kind of lunatic would play a slot machine that NEVER paid off? No one would. That's why he gives you a little bit, just enough to keep your hopes up,...
Board: Relationship Health 04-19-2012, 12:27 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,470
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Boyfriend's adult children

I'm going to be blunt here, and please don't take this the wrong way, and I of course could be wrong, but this sort of sounds like there may be some kind of sexual abuse at some point in her past....
Board: Relationship Health 04-14-2012, 07:10 AM
Replies: 75
Views: 13,114
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Girlfriend of 4 years lied & cheated, wants me back

The thing is, an emotionally healthy, emotionally mature grown up takes responsibility for their actions and doesn't make their issues someone else's problem. This girl lost you because she screwed...
Board: Relationship Health 04-10-2012, 09:59 AM
Replies: 75
Views: 13,114
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Girlfriend of 4years lied & cheated, wants me back

You said in one of your earlier posts that nice guys finish last. No they don't. Doormats do. There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy. Your problem is NOT that you're a nice guy. Your problem is...
Board: Relationship Health 03-17-2012, 05:05 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 3,377
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: No one is good enough for me. Something has to be wrong with me. Help?

I agree with Rose, trust your gut. If this guy feels creepy, chances are he probably is. At the very least, he sounds clingy to me.

I don't think there's anything wrong with you, for what it's...
Board: Relationship Health 03-17-2012, 04:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 832
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Not sure what to do with this "friend"

Next time she emails or calls, just tell her straight up that you won't lie for her. You'll tell prospective employers about your experiences with her at the tanning salon, but you won't lie about...
Board: Relationship Health 01-25-2012, 01:49 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 913
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: did i do whats right? should i stay away from him

I think you were absolutely right in what you did. There is no reason for you to hang around him if all he's going to do is punish you. You can't start again or build anything new as long as he won't...
Board: Relationship Health 01-17-2012, 09:42 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,763
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Jealousy: My partner has had more sexual partners than I have.

Well, I'm hardly an expert at all, but it seems to me the number of partners wouldn't matter at all if the relationship is healthy, happy, mutually respectful and fulfilling. If you really loved this...
Board: Relationship Health 01-16-2012, 12:35 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,122
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Tried of waiting

May I ask how you know he's been talking about you and making fun of you? Did a mutual friend tell you? Just gossip from someone? I assume the three other people he's sleeping with are women, since...
Board: Relationship Health 01-14-2012, 05:43 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 798
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: we never met before

Take a breath and calm down, first of all! I know these feelings can be pretty overwhelming, but I think what you're feeling is not love, it's infatuation. I mean, look at it logically. Can you...
Board: Relationship Health 01-10-2012, 07:06 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 654
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: My dreams and my fiance

I would say these dreams are definitely not nothing. If you are not a violent person and have never hit her or harmed her in your waking life, and I'm going to assume you have not, then you might...
Board: Relationship Health 01-03-2012, 11:34 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,073
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Insensitive Boyfriend

From your post, I can only gather that you want help with one of two things: 1) how to make him become someone he's not, someone he has no interest at all in becoming or 2) how you can better accept...
Board: Relationship Health 01-02-2012, 09:16 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,708
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Husband uncomfy with my new life.

Aiki, I certainly am not one to judge, and I hope I don't come off as "judgy" here, but I gotta say, if I were your husband, I wouldn't trust you either. I don't know how many months is "several,"...
Board: Relationship Health 12-30-2011, 07:35 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,022
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: breakup help

Keep up with the working out, that will do you good. Right now your brain is saturated with oxytocin, a hormone that has made you feel bonded to your boyfriend, and now he's suddenly not there...
Board: Relationship Health 12-12-2011, 12:34 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,171
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: He cheated, now what

I think you need to ask your husband, calmly and without anger, if he meant it when he said he loves you but is not IN love with you. I don't know if he'll lie or tell the truth, but it seems this is...
Board: Relationship Health 12-09-2011, 07:36 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 780
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: I feel so guilty and frustrated

What would I do? Well, first, I'd be thankful that the crazy, controlling, violent ex never wants to see me again. Then I'd wrap my brain around the fact that just because I have feelings of love for...
Board: Relationship Health 12-08-2011, 09:12 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,458
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Confusing

I think you do know what your gut is telling you, you just don't really want to listen to it. You've done a lot of wonderful, tremendous work on your issues and have come a long way. You are right to...
Board: Relationship Health 12-03-2011, 03:03 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,574
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Severe anger issues in relationship

I think the fact that you're even asking the question is a good indicator. We all have ups and downs and we all lose our tempers, but generally speaking, I think anytime someone's "moods" affect your...
Board: Relationship Health 11-28-2011, 08:29 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 743
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Old Letters

It seems your gut instinct about her today is correct. She just doesn't think that much of you. No sense in bringing up the letters and trying to convince her to think more of you. It's a horrible...
Board: Relationship Health 11-08-2011, 07:32 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 771
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: should i stay or should i go???

Well, if you're not having sex, then yes, it's absolutely just a comfortable friendship, since sex is pretty much the one thing that differentiates between a friendship and a romantic relationship....
Board: Relationship Health 11-02-2011, 07:39 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 600
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Is it more...

This is the sucky part about dating. At this point, it's really impossible to tell what his real intentions are. If you like him, he seems to be a nice guy, and he really has broken up with his...
Board: Relationship Health 10-31-2011, 10:46 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 5,118
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: My boyfriend acts like he's my dad

This was by far the most significant, important part of your post. You say that other than the fact that he's a maniacally controlling task master, he's wonderful. That's kind of like saying "when...
Board: Relationship Health 10-28-2011, 01:27 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,324
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Feeling like i can't go on

But this "friend" of yours DOES think there IS a way you would go home with a virtual stranger and cheat on your boyfriend? She is obviously this guy's friend much more than she is yours.

I would...
Board: Relationship Health 10-21-2011, 08:43 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 864
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: In love with someone other than my girlfriend...

Well, you're already hurting your current girlfriend. You're letting her carry on about the future, letting her think she actually has one with you when you know she doesn't. No matter what you do...
Board: Relationship Health 10-07-2011, 05:33 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,582
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: He doesn't trust me...

First you said he was diagnosed as a paranoid schizophrenic, now you are saying he diagnosed himself. So we're not getting straight facts, it seems, which makes it harder to give advice. But I don't...
Board: Relationship Health 10-02-2011, 10:36 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 8,575
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Anxiety after break up

Continuing to have sex with someone who has rejected you will only make you feel worse in the long run. It will destroy your self esteem and your confidence. As painful as it will be, you must break...
Board: Relationship Health 09-30-2011, 08:56 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,998
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: What should I do?

IF sex is indeed ALL you're looking for. But you sound like the kind of girl who can't have sex with someone without developing feelings for him and wanting him to be a boyfriend and a potential...
Board: Relationship Health 09-25-2011, 07:35 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,432
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Wanting to date someone in rehab

I could be wrong, I only mostly know what I've seen in movies and on tv and such, but I think in most recovery rehab programs, they are not supposed to get involved in serious personal relationshps...
Board: Relationship Health 09-23-2011, 03:17 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,540
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: To move or not to move.. Unsure about relationship.

I second everything AntonEmpath said. He's right on the money. This guy will make you miserable. You've already bent yourself into enough of a pretzel to please this man, and has it helped at all?...
Board: Relationship Health 09-10-2011, 02:51 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,148
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Dumped by email

It's sort of become socially fashionable to just shrug your shoulders and say "oh well, onward" when someone dumps you, even if they dump you in the most betraying, disrespectful way. Getting upset,...
Board: Relationship Health 09-07-2011, 07:11 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,761
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: I love her and she loves me but.........

It will totally scare her off if you telll her you love her when you haven't even taken her out on a date, or when you don't even know for sure how old she is. Wouldn't someone who's really friends...
Board: Relationship Health 09-05-2011, 03:00 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,687
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Promise Ring... Yes... NO... ????

I agree, his reason was pretty lame. Now, is it possible for people to mature, to change, to grow up? Sure it is. But it's only been a year. I don't know. I hesitate to tell you to kick the guy to...
Board: Relationship Health 08-28-2011, 07:43 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 3,621
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Do I Love her or Has She just Become a Great Friend?

I can only speak for myself, but when I say it, it's not to manipulate someone into feeling jealous. It's because it's true. A man in his 40s, or even in his 50s, can marry a 29 year old chippie and...
Board: Relationship Health 08-22-2011, 08:39 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,014
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Brokenheart

I'm sorry this happened, but are you absolutely sure he sent it? Maybe it was her, or it could be some weird person who was just wanting to play games? Have you tried to contact him since? Have you...
Board: Relationship Health 08-18-2011, 09:31 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,324
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Spouse vs children

Just my personal opinion, but I don't think a mother should ever put anything or anyone above her kids. After all, you're the one who took it upon yourself to bring them into the world, and accept...
Board: Relationship Health 08-15-2011, 12:42 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 17,989
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: I suspect my wife is cheating / or thinking about it

I think if you really want to try to save this marriage, then you need to start really listening to her. She says you argue all the time, that's all you two ever do anymore. You say that's not true,...
Board: Relationship Health 08-14-2011, 04:13 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 858
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: How do i move on?

I personally feel the only time ex lovers should stay friends is when the ending of the relationship was on both sides, and both people wanted out, and there are no romantic feelings left over at...
Board: Relationship Health 08-11-2011, 08:36 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,855
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: going insane, and need help please!

Only you can know for sure if this incident is enough for you to decide to commit to your girlfriend. If yolu find wanting other women again, perhaps therapy might help. I mean, the "big girl" factor...
Board: Relationship Health 08-09-2011, 06:51 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,227
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Where to go from here...

(((hugs))) to you xena. I'm so sorry your mom has made the choices she's made. The hardest thing is to have only your family to rely on and they are not there for you. These are a lot of big issues...
Board: Relationship Health 08-06-2011, 02:13 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 509
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Confused

mb, welcome to the boards, and congrats on finding a nice guy that you want to date and who wants to date you! Not so easy at our age (I'm 46 and have not been anywhere NEAR so lucky!). But I do...
Board: Relationship Health 08-05-2011, 01:15 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,130
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: SO confused about this relationship!! HELP!

Yes, I agree, I think you could benefit greatly from counseling. If you have insurance, call them and ask them what they can do for you. If you don't, check out the white pages and see if the...
Board: Relationship Health 08-04-2011, 11:55 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,599
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Dinner Date With Ex?

You have the right to feel whatever you feel. It's what you do ABOUT those feelings that matters. If you feel angry, you feel angry. Now, what to do about it? You have agreed to give this girl all...
Board: Relationship Health 08-02-2011, 07:44 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,913
Posted By Larrylou'smom
Re: Do you ever feel like divorcing a friend?

Oh, this stinks. I hate when things like this have to happen. But it sounds like you handled the whole thing in a mature, fair manner. She attacked your character and made comments about "what kind...
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