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Board: Relationship Health 06-27-2011, 07:42 AM
Replies: 67
Views: 16,959
Posted By resolution09
Re: Really depressed.need advice contemplating asking for divorce/separation today (l

You don't deserve this.

I understand it's hard to get out of a situation you're into this deep. But the previous poster was right. He's had everything he wanted his way for a very long time. ...
Board: Relationship Health 06-20-2011, 05:25 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 8,724
Posted By resolution09
Re: I had an affair and fell in love

If you decide to talk to him, keep it as kind as you can. Remember that you will be catching him off guard so it might not be a one conversation and done situation. After he has time to process the...
Board: Relationship Health 06-19-2011, 04:21 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 8,724
Posted By resolution09
Re: I had an affair and fell in love

It isn't fair of you to take your husband's time this way. He also has a life to get on with and the longer you take to tell him, the less time he has to get over any hurt (if he experiences any)...
Board: Relationship Health 06-11-2011, 05:39 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 855
Posted By resolution09
Re: is this a sign?

This isn't good. Trust me.

I'm sorry to say this but at the core of the issue is the fact that being away from you 5 days a week doesn't register with him as an important issue. If you stay...
Board: Addiction & Recovery 05-14-2011, 02:33 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 7,012
Posted By resolution09
Re: Xanax loves me!

Just playing the devil's advocate here.

.5 mg of xanax per day is not a significant dosage. I understand you don't like the dependence but would you feel the same way if you were taking insulin...
Board: Relationship Health 04-15-2011, 07:02 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 12,294
Posted By resolution09
Re: Should I break off our engagement, or continue with our relationship?

This thread is long and I've not read it all. So if I missed pertinent points, just forgive and ignore me. But I wanted to say a couple of things.

You sound like a very thoughtful person. And...
Board: Relationship Health 04-10-2011, 06:19 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 4,869
Posted By resolution09
Re: When to have "The Talk"?

writeleft: Ditto. Not 8 years but otherwise ditto.

It's funny because in the first 6 months I was excited that this relationship would follow "normal" patterns and maybe be the one. The fact...
Board: Obesity 04-02-2011, 05:56 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 3,589
Posted By resolution09
Re: why can I not stick to my diet

It would be very hard to stick to a diet if someone was eating foods you found more appealing right in front of you.

Food is a very tricky thing. We have to have it and for most of us, we have...
Board: Addiction & Recovery 03-22-2011, 07:04 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 4,391
Posted By resolution09
Re: Losing track of time

I think your dealer saw in you what I see when reading your words. You don't belong in this life. My guess is that he's used to dealing with people who, in his opinion, if they left this world...
Board: Cancer: Pancreatic & Liver 03-21-2011, 02:58 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,674
Posted By resolution09
Re: When to seek hospice care

That's great. Peace of mind is so important at a time like this and having the experts there to help you keep an eye on things will make it all a smoother transition. I don't think "easier" is at...
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2011, 06:01 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,832
Posted By resolution09
Re: wife always has something more important

Sorry if I missed this in the thread, but is the daughter and her coming baby going to be permanent in your home? Or is this a short window of time and they will move back out?

I think how I...
Board: Relationship Health 03-05-2011, 09:41 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 794
Posted By resolution09
Re: My mom's addiction *HELP*

My guess is that you hate that it will take you 3 more years to finish school and get on with your life? If that's the case, I understand. I remember wishing my youth away because it meant getting...
Board: Addiction & Recovery 02-24-2011, 07:37 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 6,597
Posted By resolution09
Re: Can't Get Rid of Sleep Meds, esp. Ambien

With the extreme vertigo of Ambien ( and it does give me mild vertigo, but nothing like you have ), have you considered trying any other "brand". I'm not meaning to encourage any pill use but...
Board: Addiction & Recovery 02-24-2011, 04:28 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 6,597
Posted By resolution09
Re: Can't Get Rid of Sleep Meds, esp. Ambien

First, I completely understand your story.

I have been an insomniac my entire life. Literally. My family told stories of hearing me singing in my bed all night long as a little kid instead of...
Board: Alzheimer's Disease & Dementia 02-10-2011, 03:32 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,266
Posted By resolution09
Re: update on Les

So happy he is in a safe place and being so well taken care of. It's very wise to look out after yourself too. It is amazing how fast life can change, isn't it.
Board: Relationship Health 02-06-2011, 08:06 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,563
Posted By resolution09
Re: Having a hard time explaining to him what I really feel

I suspect this won't be a popular post but here goes anyway.

I understand your feeling cheated. The marriage ceremony you got was pretty weak. However, our lives lead us to where we are and how...
Board: Alzheimer's Disease & Dementia 01-31-2011, 03:32 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 9,432
Posted By resolution09
Re: Confronting a Family Member about their symptoms

Gogo:

It takes the patience of a saint. And I'm not a saint.

I have gained so much weight in the years since this all started that it's humiliating. But I think I ate to stay sane so it's...
Board: Relationship Health 01-27-2011, 04:28 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 7,143
Posted By resolution09
Re: What can I do to help my mom?

I'm also very touched by your story. I don't mean this to demean myself but you are a much better person than I am. I don't think I would have stuck with your Mom as long or as understandingly as...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 01-21-2011, 05:34 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 5,091
Posted By resolution09
Re: husband orgasms too quickly

I've been dating a man since October now. Same issue. 5 minutes would be grand. But for me the issue is, as stated in this thread, HE HAS TO KNOW. Have I talked to him about it? NO. He's 50...
Board: Relationship Health 01-15-2011, 01:32 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,326
Posted By resolution09
Re: Out Of Hand

It sounds like the two of you are just growing apart. You met young, dated young. You were kids who are now becoming adults. The odds that the two of you would have ever been together forever were...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 01-06-2011, 09:38 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 4,589
Posted By resolution09
Re: Hardened Smegma in a circumcised male

I think the question is are you uncomfortable with this issue? Physically or just the fact that it's there.

Obviously men and woman are very different but I had a calcium deposit removed a few...
Board: Addiction & Recovery 12-31-2010, 06:29 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,151
Posted By resolution09
Re: The downward spiral...

I actually think he's telling you what to do. Sure, he doesn't want his family to know. No one wants to have to be embarrassed with a public outing regarding any of their personal issues. But he's...
Board: Addiction & Recovery 12-26-2010, 02:20 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,673
Posted By resolution09
Re: Question regarding heroin addiction

Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. But anger is like fire. It burns it all clean.
- Maya Angelou


We live in a rush to forgive society. I'm always amazed when someone does some...
Board: Relationship Health 10-05-2010, 05:08 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,541
Posted By resolution09
Re: sister is depressed

I read your post yesterday. If you had added that she smokes pot every day you would have been describing my ex sister in law.

I was wondering how old your sister is. I haven't seen my ex sis...
Board: It's Life - Off Topic Discussions 04-03-2010, 06:28 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 23,015
Posted By resolution09
Re: The Purpose of life?

I understand your post. Here in the U.S. it seems every TV show I see is talking about living your real life, being who and what you are meant to be. I'm in my 50's now and I don't think I know...
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