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Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 05-01-2013, 10:57 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 65
Posted By Thisby
Re: Is it possible to be depressed and not know it

Yes, it's definitely possible to be suffering from depression and not recognize it especially at that age. She's 73, there could be many things going wrong with her, depression among them. I wouldn't...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 05-01-2013, 10:50 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 222
Posted By Thisby
Re: Accidental wetting when turned on

Are you actually peeing or just creating natural vaginal lubricant?

And if it's actually pee, does this happen at other times, like when you laugh or sneeze or jump?
Board: Sexual Health - Men 05-01-2013, 10:48 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 246
Posted By Thisby
Re: Penis problems (x2)

What do you consider too much? Is it interfering with your day-to-day life?

As for the different colors, you didn't really give much info so it's hard to say if it's abnormal.

As for the...
Board: Sexual Health - General 05-01-2013, 10:46 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 159
Posted By Thisby
Re: Sore anal bump

lol. This board is for sexual matters, it seemed a logical assumption. :)
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 05-01-2013, 10:45 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 299
Posted By Thisby
Re: Please help!!!!!!

There are different opinions on that one and you can find a bunch of them on these boards. My feeling is that if you don't want to get pregnant, take other precautions so that that isn't an issue.
...
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 04-30-2013, 08:31 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 173
Posted By Thisby
Re: Masturbation

There is nothing wrong with masturbation. It is perfectly normal and healthy and keeps kids from having irresponsible sex. You shouldn't feel guilty at all. You should probably be thinking about how...
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 04-30-2013, 08:28 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 299
Posted By Thisby
Re: Please help!!!!!!

You may have misunderstood what they said, because urinating is only helpful AFTER a guy has ejaculated (and if he's washed the outside thoroughly) and he wants to resume the activities.
Board: Sexual Health - General 04-30-2013, 08:19 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 159
Posted By Thisby
Re: Sore anal bump

Are you receiving anal sex or anal play? I would suggest you stop until you find out what the problem is and it heals. You could have injured yourself.
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-30-2013, 06:42 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 274
Posted By Thisby
Re: vestibular papillomatosis or genital warts

I'm pretty sure they gave you the right diagnosis at the gum clinic.

The fact that you said they were symmetrical indicated to me that they were most likely just part of your natural anatomy....
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 04-30-2013, 06:36 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 299
Posted By Thisby
Re: Please help!!!!!!

A guy urinating beforehand would do nothing to get rid of pre-ejaculatory fluid. I'm not sure why you'd think so.

The only time urinating is a factor is if the guy has ejaculated, and then...
Board: Relationship Health 04-30-2013, 06:33 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 364
Posted By Thisby
Re: sister

At first I thought you were speaking about your mom's behaviour in the past tense, but now it sounds like it's ongoing which is a little different. Your mom shouldn't have continued to favour you...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-30-2013, 06:18 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 338
Posted By Thisby
Re: Need help about my girlfriend. ANY would help!

Just the intercourse??? yikes! No wonder she goes dry. That is way too long to go without lube. You aren't running a marathon! :D

So she's upset if she goes dry, you're upset if you go soft......
Board: Sexual Health - General 04-30-2013, 06:02 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 132
Posted By Thisby
Re: Do i have vaginismus?

I really can't answer any of your question but I am wondering: has your gyno ever had any problem with giving you an exam?
Board: Sexual Health - General 04-30-2013, 05:58 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 100
Posted By Thisby
Re: Abdominal pains! Help :(

Sounds like you might have a urinary tract infection (UTI) and should go to the doctor. If so, you will need antibiotics.
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-29-2013, 12:58 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 338
Posted By Thisby
Re: Need help about my girlfriend. ANY would help!

When you say you 'have sex' for 30-35 minutes, is that the whole thing, including foreplay, or just the intercourse? I'm hoping it's the whole thing because that's a super long time to be having...
Board: Relationship Health 04-29-2013, 12:52 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 650
Posted By Thisby
Re: Need help! Relationship issue

Wow! I'll bet you're glad you're out now, aren't you??? Better late than never, I say.

Meanwhile, I would definitely save the messages. But don't answer her or engage her in any way. If you think...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 04-29-2013, 12:40 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 284
Posted By Thisby
Re: Painful to retract foreskin

Hi WhileTrue, welcome to the boards!

There's a sticky at the top of the Men's Health board about just this issue.
...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 04-29-2013, 12:36 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 360
Posted By Thisby
Re: Having problems maintaining erection

Why is she just lying there???? I can totally see why you don't like masturbating to get your erection back while she appears to be waiting (impatiently?).

It's up to BOTH of you to participate in...
Board: Relationship Health 04-28-2013, 08:40 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 650
Posted By Thisby
Re: Need help! Relationship issue

I'm going to say what pretty much everyone else has said: RUN.

It often takes about 6 months for someone's real personality to show through - especially if they have a personality disorder - so...
Board: Relationship Health 04-28-2013, 08:32 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 364
Posted By Thisby
Re: sister

I'm figuring your sister was 12 when you were diagnosed with cancer, so she was also very young and she's obviously not gotten over it. It's a shame your parents weren't able to deal with the...
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 04-28-2013, 08:18 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 253
Posted By Thisby
Re: Help us teens.

I'm curious as to what kind of rumours you've heard. Are you talking about STDs?

STDs can be transferred via skin to skin contact - IF either partner already has an STD - so you should keep that...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-28-2013, 08:14 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 14,024
Posted By Thisby
Re: Can't reach orgasm during sex, but can alone

Most women don't orgasm through intercourse alone, they need some kind of clitoral stimulation along with it. If your partner is expecting you to orgasm w/o that extra stimulation, he needs a lesson...
Board: Sexual Health - General 04-28-2013, 08:04 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 164
Posted By Thisby
Re: Tear at the bottom

You are right to not 'push through'. Your girlfriend has a wound and it needs to heal, plain and simple. If she had a cut elsewhere on her body, would she want to keep ripping at it? I doubt it, so...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 04-28-2013, 06:01 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 156
Posted By Thisby
Re: Safe on BC? Bleeding? Surgery?

I'm only seeing your post now, so you probably already have your answer.

I'm pretty sure though, that you were just fine relying on your birth control pills and that Plan B would have been...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 04-13-2013, 08:04 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 155
Posted By Thisby
Re: My mentally ill Mother.

I'm not in your situation but I can totally sympathize!

Is it possible for you to get counselling? You've basically grown up in an somewhat abusive situation and you might benefit from having...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 04-13-2013, 07:51 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 149
Posted By Thisby
Re: bipolar or a pervert?

Does it even make a difference? Either way, I think you're lucky to be rid of this guy.

And you don't need to keep repeating the same pattern with guys. Learn to spot the signs of people who are...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 04-13-2013, 07:38 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 251
Posted By Thisby
Re: Condom slipped up during sex?

Since it's already been a week, there is not point in suggesting the morning after pill. You're just going to have to wait and see if your period is late.

As for him ejaculating twice in the same...
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 04-10-2013, 04:17 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 401
Posted By Thisby
Re: when do teens usually outgrow masturbation?

I don't think teens grow out of masturbation. They grow out of being teens first :)

There is no way your masturbation stunted your growth. In fact, having a healthy sex drive would indicate that...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-10-2013, 03:56 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 401
Posted By Thisby
Re: Being Horny

There are all kinds of reasons. Medications, age (menopause), depression, stress, boredom with your partner...

Do any of these sound possible?
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-10-2013, 03:50 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 402
Posted By Thisby
Re: Physically unable to lose virginity?

Do you use tampons? Masturbate internally? Is your bf able to get his fingers in there? If you so, then I would say keep trying, just make sure you're super relaxed. If not, doctor time...

But...
Board: Sexual Health - General 04-10-2013, 03:37 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 309
Posted By Thisby
Re: First time sex

Every one of your questions involves something so personal and intimate, no one can answer you properly. The only person who's going to be able to help you figure out how it should go is your...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 04-10-2013, 03:30 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 295
Posted By Thisby
Re: advice on sex?

Women ovulate about 14 days before the first day of their next period, so if you're irregular, it's pretty much impossible to say what days to avoid in addition to using condoms. You could try paying...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 04-10-2013, 03:24 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 231
Posted By Thisby
Re: Possible to get pregnant during your period?

This reply is definitely too late regarding the morning after pill, but I just wanted to say something about the risk. Basing the 'safeness' of sex on some pre-period spotting is too risky if you're...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 04-10-2013, 03:19 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 402
Posted By Thisby
Re: Need help am i pregnant !!!!!!!

The chances of getting pregnant on the first day of your period are extremely slight. In fact, that day is the day with the lowest chance of all days in your cycle.

That said though, you mentioned...
Board: Relationship Health 03-13-2013, 11:28 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 268
Posted By Thisby
Re: Boy friend finding me unattractive or am I over exaggerating

You're already ahead of the game by recognizing the problems, and aren't going to stick with a bad relationship. :)
Board: Sexual Health - Women 03-13-2013, 11:24 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 850
Posted By Thisby
Re: Why am I never horny?

It could be a few things: birth control pills, depression/stress/anxiety, medication...

You need to take care of yourself mentally, emotionally. Sometimes a sex drive is a lower priority.

All...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 03-13-2013, 11:07 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 274
Posted By Thisby
Re: What are the chances of pregnancy? URGENT

I really don't think you have much to worry about from that. The odds are really against it.

It wasn't yet her riskiest time; since you'd urinated, your pre-ejaculatory fluid wouldn't have had...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 03-13-2013, 11:01 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 385
Posted By Thisby
Re: is there any chance of pregnancy?? urgent

If your cycle is regular, there is actually only a low chance you could get pregnant from that, but there is still a small chance.

If your period doesn't come in the next few days, take a test.
Board: Sexual Health - General 03-13-2013, 10:55 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 242
Posted By Thisby
Re: Rash/itchy in pubic area

I can't suggest what you should do, but definitely DON'T use bleach on the area. Seriously.
Board: Sexual Health - Men 03-13-2013, 12:08 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 315
Posted By Thisby
Re: Foreskin retraction with erection

There's a sticky near the top of the Men's Health board called "Stretching To Fix Tight Foreskin (Phimosis)" which should give you instructions.

It's important that your foreskin be able to move...
Board: Sexual Health - General 03-13-2013, 11:59 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 286
Posted By Thisby
Re: Freaking out...Plan B. Help please!

It was unlikely you could have gotten pregnant from what happened so taking Plan B after pretty much guarantees you won't get pregnant from this.

Plan B often messes with your cycle. It's a pretty...
Board: Teen Health 02-09-2013, 10:33 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 295
Posted By Thisby
Re: New problem

Since she is looking at you again, why don't you try smiling and trying to say hi to her?
Board: Relationship Health 02-09-2013, 10:18 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 388
Posted By Thisby
Re: Relationship crushing down. Help please.

I'm so sorry for the loss of your father.

Three weeks is hardly long enough for you to have mourned and gotten back to your old self. You didn't actually say how your girlfriend was dealing with...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 02-08-2013, 03:04 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 238
Posted By Thisby
Re: Chance of pregnancy without intercourse....?

Not a chance. Don't worry about it.
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 02-07-2013, 09:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 483
Posted By Thisby
Re: Can you get pregnant the day you are supposed to start your period?

Assuming you took all the rest of your pills perfectly, I would say that the chances of you getting pregnant from that are pretty low (but not impossible) because your pills would have been working...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 02-07-2013, 09:18 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 4,331
Posted By Thisby
Re: Borderline personality disorder: how to talk to someone suffering from BPD

If he really does have BPD, then there isn't enough love and support in the world that you can give him. You will always fail, and it will always be your fault you couldn't give enough. I know it...
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 02-07-2013, 09:08 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 598
Posted By Thisby
Re: Do I have erectile dysfunction, I'm 16?

How's your general health and stress level? That could have something to do with it.

Keep in mind that as you get older things will tone down a bit (it's often pretty crazy when it first starts).
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 02-07-2013, 09:05 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 497
Posted By Thisby
Re: Female

Girls do masturbate. Not 100% of them, but it is normal and typical.

As to how often, it really depends on the girl. Just like with males.
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 02-07-2013, 09:02 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 483
Posted By Thisby
Re: Can you get pregnant the day you are supposed to start your period?

I'm confused. Maybe if you told us which of the 21 pills it was that you missed (and when you took them) and when you had intercourse. (And by 'missed' I assume you mean you didn't miss them...
Board: Relationship Health 02-07-2013, 08:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 356
Posted By Thisby
Re: boyfriend moved in two months ago

Why did he move in with you?

Because it was the natural progression of your relationship, or for economic reasons/he needed a place to stay? (It sounds to me more like he wants to be a roommate...
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