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Board: Relationship Health 09-02-2012, 12:14 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,155
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: My boyfriend makes me cry but he cares?

While he might have some anger issues, you have to also face the fact that crying over every little argument or when he looks at you the wrong way is also your flaw. To me, the two of you don't sound...
Board: Relationship Health 08-10-2012, 06:44 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 335
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Hi I need someone to talk to...

It's obvious you are in an abusive relationship. Do you live by yourself or with someone? You need to ask your friends and family for help and let them know the situation you are in. Please do...
Board: Relationship Health 08-10-2012, 05:28 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 2,384
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: How could this happen?

Please delete him from your life. I would bet this friend of his is crazier and also has major mental issues. Remove him from your FB and block him. I would bet my savings that he will contact you in...
Board: Relationship Health 04-30-2012, 04:58 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,860
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: You Were ALL Right

YOu ask why he does these things?

It's simple - because you allow him! You give him permission to treat you this way. Many women would have been long gone!

Delete him from Facebook, change your...
Board: Relationship Health 04-25-2012, 09:53 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,031
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: My boyfriend is the "creepy uncle"

yep, trust your gut on this one, it is totally creepy and out of line! I feel he is being manipulative toward a young girl. NO relative or adult should ever talk that way to a younger child.
Board: Relationship Health 04-24-2012, 06:07 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,805
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: someone i barely know hates me so much... why?

Oh honey, you have to stop focusing on this guy who hates you so much! This guy obviously has a low self-esteem himself, that he needs to bully a girl he barely knows in order to feel better about...
Board: Relationship Health 04-12-2012, 01:19 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,066
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: a question im scared to ask new partner!

I think you need to just ask him if he would like more children if the right person came along. You don't even have to bring up his vasectomy. You may find out he doesn't want more children and then...
Board: Relationship Health 04-07-2012, 05:53 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,580
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Am i overreacting????

Agreed, it is very important to talk about. But you are also smart in being cautious. I noticed the one thing that wasn't mentioned was the expense associated with a bulldog. My brother and SIL have...
Board: Relationship Health 03-24-2012, 06:05 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,936
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: in a mess

Honestly, I think it all depends on your standards. For me, I would run. I don't see any of it as a "good thing" or healthy.
Board: Relationship Health 03-14-2012, 11:26 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,313
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Boyfriends Parents "Borrowed" $20,000 - Need More

Well, keep in mind that your boyfriend could become your husband, and then it isn't HIS money they are borrowing, but YOUR money as well.

He is enabling their behavior. There was another post on...
Board: Relationship Health 03-03-2012, 07:39 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 816
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Concerned for her lack of concern

Are you trying to make your wife jealous? Is there a reason she shouldn't trust you? I think out of love and respect for your wife, you should not see this lady friend.
Board: Relationship Health 03-02-2012, 04:35 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,114
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Anger

Well, a regular doctor would not just diagnose him over night. It would take a psychologist or something to work with him and diagnose him. They don't diagnose after ONE appointment.

Also,...
Board: Relationship Health 02-29-2012, 04:43 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,114
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Anger

Is he taking meds for his problems? I don't understand the last part, that he won't be himself. Is that because he is getting help for this?
Board: Relationship Health 02-23-2012, 04:52 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 738
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Hello Everyone

This girl that you love just isn't into you like you are with her. It seems like she knows you are her "fallback guy", her "rebound." If she liked you, the feelings would be mutual and there wouldn't...
Board: Relationship Health 02-20-2012, 05:19 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,408
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Need your advice, please...

Your first priority when you become a mother should be to protect your child. I think you know that your partner is emotionally and verbally abusive. You even mention that he is not "yet" physically...
Board: Children - Special Needs 02-03-2012, 04:44 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,678
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: My nephew is special needs

Another update - my nephew was formally diagnosed with cerebral palsy as well. My BIL and SIL and going to start looking into his birth records. He had surgery this past week for a feeding tube...
Board: Sexual Health - General 01-04-2012, 05:13 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 4,897
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: sexless relationship looking for someone to speak to in same situation

Wow! I have been married for 8 years, been together for 12, and my husband can't keep his hands off of me! I have even gained weight from babies and not nearly as in shape when we met.

Your...
Board: Relationship Health 01-01-2012, 05:39 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,429
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: dealing with a judgmental friend?

I can relate on both sides of this. I know that I am a person who has high expectations of people and friends. I easily get hurt and let down because of my expectations. But someone once said to me,...
Board: Parenting Issues 11-20-2011, 06:50 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 921
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Losing my mind!!

YES! Cyber Charter school is the way to go. It is completely FREE! Take her out of school, get her the help she needs, and work with her. Maybe get her involved in a class or activity she likes. What...
Board: Trying to Conceive (TTC) 11-09-2011, 06:07 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 714
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Ovulation Tests

Yes, it is very possible. However, how often are you testing? If you are only testing on days 12-14 of your cycle, it could be that you are just not ovulating on those days. You could be ovulating on...
Board: Relationship Health 10-14-2011, 05:13 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,705
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Was I wrong? (ultimatum to my bf)

You absolutely did the right thing! My good friend has been with her boyfriend for 15 years and he won't marry her because she isn't Asian. It would kill (get this) his MOTHER! They live together, he...
Board: Relationship Health 10-12-2011, 12:48 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 766
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: boyfriend has job opportunity :(

It is right of him to move and for you to stay behind until you are done with school. This is a real test of your love and relationship. I commend the guy for wanting to make a better life for...
Board: Relationship Health 09-21-2011, 06:00 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,050
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Absolutely sick and tired of it

Your title says that you are sick of it. You have been going through this for years with two different partners.

My advice. You allow people to treat you a certain way. So, stop allowing men to...
Board: Parenting Issues 09-17-2011, 11:02 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,094
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: My son is bullied by Second graders

I would give a note to both the teacher and the bus driver. Additionally, tell your son to sit up front, as close to the bus driver, as possible. Chances are, those 2nd grade boys won't bully your...
Board: Parenting Issues 09-10-2011, 08:05 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,839
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Defiant 4 year old

Oh Laura, I was actually coming on this board to post something similar. Maybe it is something in the PA water? (I am near Lancaster).

My 4 1/2 year old son has been awful lately. Ornery is how I...
Board: Relationship Health 09-10-2011, 04:44 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,148
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Dumped by email

I am sorry you are going through this. I will say that anyone who sends an email instead of talking on the phone or face to face is a coward. Plain and simple. Chalk this up to another thing you have...
Board: Relationship Health 09-09-2011, 06:46 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 633
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: He’s driving me crazy - Vent here!

Depression is anger turned inward. It seems his anger is still alive and well, just taking on a new form. He needs help.
Board: Relationship Health 07-26-2011, 05:12 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,385
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Relationship With woman

It is hard to say what she is thinking because the messages are so mixed. Perhaps she is just scared, given all that she has been through?

My honest advice is to really back off for a couple...
Board: Children's Health 07-16-2011, 06:37 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,712
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Diapers at bedtime - how long?

I don't think you can really compare ages when it comes to this. Luckily, my son stopped with the pulls up at 3 1/2 (he refused to even wear them) and he has only had 2 accidents in a year.

With...
Board: Relationship Health 06-01-2011, 05:54 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 3,065
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Advice please. Did she get too close?

This is a hard one. If the tables were reversed and it were a guy saying all those things, then I would say that she, "just isn't into you.." I am not sure if it is the same way with a woman. I would...
Board: Relationship Health 05-24-2011, 04:27 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,755
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Justified in being fed up?

Well, I think you are feeling lost because you are making it your problem. It isn't your problem, it is hers. Granted, her talking about it all the time makes it feel like it is your problem, too....
Board: Sexual Health - General 05-19-2011, 05:03 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 6,200
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: my boyfriend's fetish doesn't turn me on and I can't tell him please please help!

My dear, this isn't love. A partner or someone who loves you would never have you do something that makes you feel upset or bad about yourself.

Have you told your boyfriend your feelings? I mean,...
Board: Relationship Health 05-05-2011, 04:50 PM
Replies: 161
Views: 16,987
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: How much control should I have?

He doesn't want a job, he doesn't want a car, he doesn't want his own place. Why? Because you are already providing these things for him.

Although, in your eyes, he acts like a teen, the truth is...
Board: Relationship Health 05-04-2011, 06:16 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,251
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: what should I do?

I am taking a different opinion here-

Divorce, afraid of relationships, putting up walls are all excuses. If a man really loves you and likes you, he is going to want to be with you. I agree that...
Board: Relationship Health 04-21-2011, 05:05 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 3,559
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Does he really want it to be over?

I am wondering why you are allowing him to treat you like this? I don't know what he is thinking in his head about you...but this comes down to what you want in your life.

If you need your...
Board: Children's Health 04-12-2011, 05:15 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,181
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Chronic Vomitting, not CVS, but every Friday night?

Poor guy!

I don't know what it is, but if he is throwing up on Friday night, what does he have going on Saturday mornings? Like, does he have something Sat. morning that is making his nerves a...
Board: Relationship Health 04-11-2011, 12:49 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,452
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: We finally broke up. :(

Ok, I just looked back at some of your old posts, and you have been doubting your relationship with this woman for months! It seems you have the same problems over and over again. It is time to face...
Board: Relationship Health 04-03-2011, 04:18 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 969
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Am I overracting?

I agree, step back from this friendship and see if she still contacts you. She doesnt seem to value you as a friend. Sounds like she really doesn't care to spend time with you. Is she jealous that...
Board: Relationship Health 03-22-2011, 11:05 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,234
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: What do you do when someone doesn't talk about their problems?

I think it depends are what her problems are. I don't blog, but I keep a journal. When something upsets me, then I write about it in my journal and I end up feeling better. However, I am a very...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 03-03-2011, 04:32 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 34,464
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Traumatic Virgin PAP Smear

Paps are not meant to be fun. Men get prostate exams and they are no fun either. However, neither one of these exams are sexual.
I think it is a bit odd that you refer to this exam as a sexual...
Board: Relationship Health 01-23-2011, 07:12 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,653
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Distant newlywed

Trust your gutt, something is up. It is not normal for a young man (assuming he is close to your age) to not want sex. I would start snooping and finding out. The phone thing is fishy.
Board: Relationship Health 01-11-2011, 04:22 AM
Replies: 45
Views: 13,609
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Is he ever going to marry me?

I think you have it here - he said he is just not ready, YET. Maybe you can talk to him more about when he might be ready. He might tell you he doesn't want to marry until he is 30 or something. That...
Board: Relationship Health 01-06-2011, 01:37 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,204
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Should I snoop?

and Shellbelle, each day you spend with this man is a day you could be spending with another man, who wants to actually be with you. Life is too short to be in a relationship like this. You deserve...
Board: Relationship Health 01-03-2011, 10:06 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,204
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Should I snoop?

Good plan Shell. Did you ever think about just not calling him for several days, even a week, and see how he responds? Let him think you are busy meeting other people and not home waiting to hear...
Board: Relationship Health 01-02-2011, 06:13 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,204
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: Should I snoop?

My dear, if he wanted to be with you, then he would make it possible. Even if it meant being at your house every night. Something is definitely up and you have every right to feel uneasy about this...
Board: Relationship Health 12-18-2010, 07:32 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 5,431
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: I called my boyfriend's wife.

Since he had cheating inclinations, you were probably not the only "other woman" in his life. He probably had several other women he was involved with. Given his history, it was only a matter of time...
Board: Relationship Health 11-09-2010, 05:52 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,515
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: My man viewing porn

When my hubby and I break out the porn, it's definitely a "special" night. LOL! I think porn can be used in a healthy way between a couple. I agree that it can become a problem, but only if he would...
Board: Children's Health 10-30-2010, 05:59 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,548
Posted By Belly Kelly
Re: My 5 yr old was recently circumcised for medical reasons...

I would just bathe him and not touch it. Just let the soap from his body cleanse it on its own.

My son had surgery on his penis back in Jan. and he still is "traumatized" from it. He will not let...
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