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Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-13-2015, 07:24 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 350
Posted By Thisby
Re: A little advice please? Mature answers appreciated....

Then I'm stumped :(

Have you used the vibrator with him at the same time?
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 04-13-2015, 07:20 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 260
Posted By Thisby
Re: Had to call the cops on my bipolar girlfriend

Bi-polar is a pretty brutal mental problem. I mean, if none of her 8 siblings can handle it, it's pretty amazing that you have been able to for all these years.

Has she ever gone for psych help?...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-11-2015, 09:36 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 350
Posted By Thisby
Re: A little advice please? Mature answers appreciated....

Are you saying that you can't even orgasm when you masturbate by yourself?

Are you on any other medications?
Board: Hysterectomy 04-06-2015, 12:20 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 513
Posted By Thisby
Re: uterine fibroids leading to hysterectomy

Hi veselym,
I know you said you have already decided on a hysterectomy but I thought would suggest you look into Uterine Arterial Embolization (UAE, sometimes called Uterine Fibroid Embolization)....
Board: Sexual Health - Men 04-01-2015, 08:44 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 235
Posted By Thisby
Re: Scared of pregnancy

You don't need to be worried about semen outside her vagina. If you were wearing a condom and it didn't break or come off inside her, you have nothing to worry about.
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 03-16-2015, 10:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 491
Posted By Thisby
Re: Concerned, should I worry?

People don't get pregnant getting sperm on underwear. Are you sure you know how babies are made? Do you know what the sperm actually has to do?
Board: Sexual Health - Men 03-16-2015, 10:31 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 590
Posted By Thisby
Re: What does refusal of sex by a man's wife do to his sexual health?

What does refusal of sex by a man's wife do to his sexual health?

Nothing. It does nothing. You still remember how to masturbate, don't you? ;)



p.s. Good to see sexism and gender...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 03-12-2015, 11:39 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 438
Posted By Thisby
Re: no title

I don't think what your body odor smells like has anything to do with whether he ejaculated in you or not.

If anything, you might have been able to tell if he had if there had been any semen...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 03-09-2015, 11:40 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 320
Posted By Thisby
Re: Maybe my ex is bipolar

I'm so glad to read that!

People who've been victims of abuse at the hands of a bipolar or borderline person often suffer depression and long-term damage to their self esteem and I was concerned...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 03-08-2015, 11:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 320
Posted By Thisby
Re: Maybe my ex is bipolar

You're welcome. I hope you have the strength to stand up to her and stay away. You invested a lot of time into the relationship so it's always hard to just end it, but in time you'll know you've done...
Board: Relationship Health 03-07-2015, 10:27 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 386
Posted By Thisby
Re: I'm not sure what to do with my relationship.

Read all these things you wrote:


You have given WAY more than enough reasons to stop loving her. At the very least, reasons you should break up with her as soon as possible. And while you don't...
Board: Women's Health 03-02-2015, 10:35 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 330
Posted By Thisby
Re: Tips on helping to relax during anal examination?

I too am going to question why you need one with a speculum. I have only ever had one rectal exam in my life and it was digital.

If there's isn't a good reason, I would refuse the test. Like,...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 03-01-2015, 10:40 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 204
Posted By Thisby
Re: Missed pills and unprotected sex

It's possible you've either totally messed up your cycle missing all those pills, or you're pregnant. And yup, you definitely have something to be worried about, but all you can do at this point is...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 02-27-2015, 06:27 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 320
Posted By Thisby
Re: Maybe my ex is bipolar

I'm really sorry you ever got involved with her in the first place. She sounds totally abusive and it definitely sounds like she has a mental problem.

I would also research Borderline Personality...
Board: Foot & Ankle Problems 01-31-2015, 10:04 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 623
Posted By Thisby
Re: Numb big toe on my right foot been a week

Hi Manny13840,

If you're lucky, the feeling should come back slowly. You were on it for only 3 days.

Me, I had a job standing - for only about 6 weeks - and both my big toes slowly went numb...
Board: Women's Health 01-30-2015, 06:58 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 167
Posted By Thisby
Re: Hymenectomy

Fascinating! And I'm glad to hear everything turned out okay.
Thanks for sharing.
Board: Sexual Health - Men 01-29-2015, 11:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 239
Posted By Thisby
Re: Can I get herpes from a sore throat?

Herpes is only caused by the herpes virus, it can't be created from another source, like a sore throat. You are right to question his logic.

Maybe your doctor didn't want to get into a blaming...
Board: Women's Health 01-27-2015, 11:50 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 372
Posted By Thisby
Re: Terrified......

It would be more helpful if you told us when the first day of your last period was, not the last day, and how long your cycle normally is.

But either way, we'd still be guessing. You can't know...
Board: Sexually Transmitted Diseases 01-24-2015, 10:37 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 320
Posted By Thisby
Re: HPV Saga

I would say it sounds very strange. He is also not your doctor and has no right to your medical information. Maybe it's different there in Italy, but I'm pretty sure that would never happen here....
Board: Sexually Transmitted Diseases 01-24-2015, 10:28 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 326
Posted By Thisby
Re: Can you get STDs or aids from a used sex toy?

So you're not talking about a used sex toy (as in, used for sex) but a touched sex toy, right? Like, someone might maybe possibly have simply touched it during manufacture, packaging or shipping?
...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 01-19-2015, 12:22 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 289
Posted By Thisby
Re: Friend with Depression ... when to walk away?

You should feel zero guilt! He's a grown man, you aren't his mother and you've only known him 5 weeks. If he's already got you feeling guilty, he must be one heck of a manipulator!

Just try to...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 01-17-2015, 09:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 289
Posted By Thisby
Re: Friend with Depression ... when to walk away?

You sound like a very nice and caring person, and I'm sorry you're going through this.

I think it's already time to walk away. You met him on a dating site but he doesn't want to date you. He...
Board: Teen Health 01-15-2015, 11:03 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 832
Posted By Thisby
re: worry about my height

Wow, you've grown an inch in a month? This is definitely a growth spurt and they tend to last longer than a month. Keep up with the vitamins and exercising, and keep us posted on how it progresses,...
Board: Women's Health 01-13-2015, 10:29 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,206
Posted By Thisby
Re: Stopping heavy bleeding -- decisions to make

Go with the least invasive options first, if you can.

As for the IUD, I've never had one, so I can't comment from experience, but I have had heavy bleeding (fibroids) and had a ridiculously hard...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 01-13-2015, 10:09 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 692
Posted By Thisby
Re: Girlfriend isn't interested in sex... Help/Advice??

Anyone with a normal sex drive would be bothered by this, so I hope she isn't making you feel bad for feeling the way you do about it.

Anyway, the fact that she masturbates means that it's not...
Board: Sexual Dysfunction Treatment 01-13-2015, 09:59 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 536
Posted By Thisby
Re: afraid of taking viagra

We aren't doctors here, so there is NO WAY any of us can tell you you 'you will be fine'.

There are some medical conditions that make it very risky to take, so see your doctor and make sure it is...
Board: Relationship Health 12-22-2014, 11:43 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 329
Posted By Thisby
Re: My future MIL wants us to change our wedding date.

I totally agree with the others who've said you shouldn't change your date for a 'what if'.

Here's a "what if": What if you change your wedding date to keep them happy, but your SIL doesn't get...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 12-22-2014, 11:29 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 384
Posted By Thisby
Re: Forgiving Depressed Partner

I think you have to decide how committed you are to her. True, depression is an illness but comparing it to an non-mental illness is an oversimplification. People with mental illnesses can often be...
Board: Teen Health 12-20-2014, 11:28 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 832
Posted By Thisby
re: worry about my height

Genetics play a huge role in your height potential, but so does nutrition and your general health so make sure you eat a very healthy diet, take vitamins, get exercise, etc etc.

You're already...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-20-2014, 11:07 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 473
Posted By Thisby
Re: Delayed Ejaculation - any ideas?

Hi bryanab,

From what you wrote, I would agree that it's probably in your head and my guess is that it's rooted somewhere in your comfort level with her and with the pressure on you now to reach...
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 12-20-2014, 10:34 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 309
Posted By Thisby
Re: Very small red dots on my foreskin!

Could they be little blood blisters? Those take a bit longer to disappear.
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 12-20-2014, 10:32 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 520
Posted By Thisby
Re: bleeding without sex?

Since the hymen is on the OUTSIDE of the vagina, Titchou's comments make no sense. It is totally possible to break the hymen without intercourse, and that's what it sounds like happened to you.
...
Board: Relationship Health 12-16-2014, 11:25 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 2,182
Posted By Thisby
Re: Feeling like this borders on emotional abuse

That's some scary stuff right there! I'm really really glad you were able to do it.

btw, that behaviour reminds me less of bi-polar than it does Borderline Personality Disorder. You should...
Board: Women's Health 12-09-2014, 09:56 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 311
Posted By Thisby
Re: uterine fibroids on ultrasound

As far as I know, the terms "submucosal, subserosal, and intramural" don't actually describe what kind of fibroid it is, just where it is.

Of course, the location is good to know when having it...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 12-09-2014, 09:35 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 472
Posted By Thisby
Re: Concerning scenario

Actually, sperm does NOT die as soon as it is exposed to the air, it has to dry out first and how long that takes depends on how much there is, how it's exposed, and environmental considerations.
...
Board: Relationship Health 12-09-2014, 03:27 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 2,182
Posted By Thisby
Re: Feeling like this borders on emotional abuse

Abuse only continues if you let it. It happens because he's an abuser. The only way to stop it is to leave.

I'm only going to be repeating what you've already been told but: you can't fix him. And...
Board: Relationship Health 11-25-2014, 02:21 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 469
Posted By Thisby
Re: Fiance doesn't care for engagement rings

You have to see what you did there, right? Playing games and expecting him to be psychic? You know exactly why you're mad but you're not telling him :(

btw, what were you doing to let him know you...
Board: Sexual Health - General 10-10-2014, 12:20 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,551
Posted By Thisby
Re: unsatisfied

Up until you tried talking about it, did he think he'd been satisfying you? Or has he never cared and doesn't want to even hear about it?
Board: Sexual Health - General 10-10-2014, 12:10 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,848
Posted By Thisby
Re: I'm not interested in sex, ever, with anyone.

Forgetting everything else you wrote up to then, I would have to say that for a heterosexual woman of child-bearing age, your last 2 points on their own are abnormal.

Have you tried to figure out...
Board: Teen Health 07-14-2014, 09:08 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 4,298
Posted By Thisby
Re: My boyfriend's mother is difficult

I think some of the advice, while good, is a bit premature. You two are both still kids in high school. Your boyfriend is still a ways off from being out from under his mother's rules. If their...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 06-02-2014, 09:47 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 665
Posted By Thisby
Re: erection problem...

If you can get an erection when you're by yourself and everything works fine, then it's definitely mental. I really can't offer you any definite way to fix it, but I'm pretty sure stressing about it...
Board: Sexual Health - General 06-02-2014, 09:35 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 503
Posted By Thisby
Re: having orgasms way too easily.

Actually, it's extremely rare for a woman to be able to orgasm from just thinking about it.

So I would say what you are experiencing is very unusual. This doesn't mean you are "just horny" just...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 06-02-2014, 07:25 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 497
Posted By Thisby
Re: The Medicine Talk For A Loved One

(This isn't the answer you're hoping for, because I'm more concerned with why you want to stick it out with him when it's basically a losing battle.)

I find that quote "he is NOT the disorder" is...
Board: Relationship Health 06-02-2014, 07:08 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 533
Posted By Thisby
Re: cheating husband

That's quite the insult! While it may be true that the women didn't share his fantasy, it's hurtful that all this time he's been thinking there might be something better than what he has at home.
...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 06-02-2014, 06:59 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 532
Posted By Thisby
Re: Used a condom and my period is 5 days late! Please help

Was the test negative? (you didn't say, lol).

Assuming it was negative, then yeah, you can rule out pregnancy.
Board: Relationship Health 06-02-2014, 06:29 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 367
Posted By Thisby
Re: Ugh. Did I marry a chauvinist?

I'm not sure he'd qualify as a raving chauvinist, he sounds more like a typical one, lol.

He's definitely insensitive if he's said those things to you, and humiliated you in public (although doing...
Board: Relationship Health 04-28-2014, 09:22 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 520
Posted By Thisby
Re: How do I explain this to my husband?

I found this interesting. First, because it almost sounds like you don't want to know (you'd rather find out some other way?) Second, because since he has already offered to let you look, he's sure...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-28-2014, 06:53 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 465
Posted By Thisby
Re: question

Sorry you didn't get any quicker replies. I'm wondering how it went.

I'm going to reply anyway, because I think you need to have a talk with that guy. It was totally irresponsible of him to not...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-28-2014, 06:46 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,452
Posted By Thisby
Re: Sensitive Clitoris while being fingered?

The clitoris normally become extremely sensitive after orgasm. As Titchou asked, could you be having one? How experienced are you?
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-28-2014, 06:42 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 661
Posted By Thisby
Re: ED - new relationship

I'm generally hesitant to suggest leaving a relationship over sexual issues - assuming the compatibility was once fine and the problem is new. But this isn't the case. You're starting off with one...
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