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Board: Relationship Health 04-26-2011, 12:00 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,452
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: We're broke, he wants a divorce

I'm surprised divorcing will mean a better financial situation for you guys. Divorces are way down in this economy in my corner of the world. It's actually affecting my bottom line in my house...
Board: Smoking Cessation 03-02-2011, 06:54 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 5,066
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Starting Chantix Today

Gosh, I really don't know, Randy. I believe we all get cranky when we quit, no matter how we do it. I don't even know if docs prescribe Chantix with another mind-altering medication to be taken...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 03-02-2011, 06:40 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 60,665
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Traumatic Virgin PAP Smear

I agree 100 percent with Digmusic. What happened was a medical thing, not a sexual experience. Same with tampons -- violating yourself by using a tampon???

Annual exams aren't fun, but they...
Board: Relationship Health 02-28-2011, 10:47 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 5,625
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: I love my cheating boyfriend

Wow. You picked a winner, didn't you?

Seeing that you're not inclined to throw this bad fish back into the sea and catch one that's worthy of your love and respect, you're just going to have to...
Board: Smoking Cessation 01-26-2011, 11:19 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 5,066
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Starting Chantix Today

Hi, Bigfish :wave:

I quit with Chantix. I did not reduce the amount I smoked before starting the med. I was smoking almost three packs per day.

I also had the anxiety surrounded with...
Board: Smoking Cessation 01-19-2011, 05:46 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,962
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: More Chantix Side Effects

Hi there. Congratulations on your quit :)

First, don't do anything crazy!!!! Your family would be devastated. You must know deep down you can't hurt them this way.

Regarding the way you...
Board: Relationship Health 12-22-2010, 01:01 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,550
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: i think i may be over reacting

Wow, $14 through cable? The stuff available through my cable/dish company is T&A fluff ... garbage.

I'd just reiterate what everyone else has said, that there's no reason to lie to you. Not a...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 12-01-2010, 11:16 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 6,099
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: husband orgasms too quickly

Ooooh, yeah, you guys need to talk about that. Some of the terms you used like "put out" and "have to lay there" make me think that sex isn't too great for either of you.

Why doesn't he take care...
Board: Relationship Health 12-01-2010, 11:10 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 7,937
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Husband said I love you to another woman!

Extremely inappropriate. I'd flip if I saw that on my DH's networking pages!

"To the moon!!!"
Board: Relationship Health 12-01-2010, 11:03 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 5,348
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Is this girl flaking out on me?

She sounded like a flake to begin with. Sleeping with you after only two dates? I'd cut my losses and see her for what she saw you as: A quick romp in the hay.

Sorry if this sounds harsh. I've...
Board: Relationship Health 11-29-2010, 04:19 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,226
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Girlfriends boss and photoshoot - Is this normal?

I think you need to move away from things like, "Do I let her? Do I say yes? Do I say no?"

You're not her father. She's an adult and can make her decisions.

Now, that being said, if she's...
Board: Sexual Health - General 11-11-2010, 06:07 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 8,066
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Wife selfish in bed

I believe Soodle's problems are his wife never initiates; and Soodle takes his time doing various things to pleasure his wife, but when it's "his turn," she just takes the quickest/easiest route to...
Board: Relationship Health 11-05-2010, 05:13 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,047
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: am I fooling myself?

But the wife isn't even an ex yet. He's still married, won't divorce, still loves and takes care of his family ... and has you to add a little spark and excitement to his life.

Yes, you are...
Board: Sexual Health - General 11-03-2010, 02:21 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 8,439
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: is there any lubricant that does not burn the anus

Try any of the Jo products. They're synthetic, so they don't absorb. I think the sensation you're describing could be from lube that's absorbed and in need of being reapplied. This happens...
Board: Relationship Health 11-02-2010, 05:22 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 6,144
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: My man viewing porn

I don't think your husband watching some porn is going to progress to him cheating. I mean, are there other issues in your relationship? Do y'all fight a lot? Is your relationship in the bedroom...
Board: Relationship Health 11-01-2010, 06:58 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 11,479
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Mother forced me into grad school

I notice a very recurring theme with all of your posts, whether it's your school, weight loss, your beliefs about marriage/children and your BF (the one who doesn't work, go to school, lives in his...
Board: Sexual Health - General 10-22-2010, 02:02 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 4,082
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: No desire to even take the Viagra, but wife needs sex!

First, I'm so glad for the both of you he survived.

To be honest (and this might not be want you want to hear), I think he obviously needs some time. He's only gotten back to work last week. ...
Board: Sexual Health - General 10-06-2010, 09:12 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 9,721
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Failing Sex life in marriage

I'm also with Kat. I suppose it could be something hormonal or diet-related, but I would think you'd be seeing deficiencies in other areas of her health if that were the case.

IMHO, you've got...
Board: Diet & Nutrition 09-03-2010, 05:33 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,173
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: breakfast smoothies

Cooking Light featured a smoothie section a couple months ago. <edited>

This is the favorite of DH & me. It serves two.

One handful of ice
One frozen banana (we cut up bananas into small...
Board: Exercise & Fitness 09-03-2010, 05:25 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,914
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Running - Does it Get Better?

BDRunner, at this time, no, I'm not planning on running in any 5k's. I'd just wanted to up the intensity of my cardio routine, which is usually walking on my treadmill or bike riding. While I found...
Board: Relationship Health 09-03-2010, 05:21 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 8,289
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Losing attraction to beautiful girlfriend

I hate to say it, but my first thought would be the age difference. The "honeymoon" phase is nearing its end. This is the point where couples really have to stimulate each other intellectually,...
Board: Relationship Health 09-02-2010, 06:11 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,592
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Friend wants to go on vacation, but I don't

Maybe try writing a note/email? I find delicate situations like this are best handled in written form.

Bring up compatibility of your exclusive girlfriend trips. People grow and change, and...
Board: Relationship Health 08-26-2010, 05:32 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 4,600
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: More trouble with my teen and boyfriend- HELP

I'm sooo happy you two spoke and seem to be on the same page. That's really, really cool. :cool:

I also agree with a prior poster ... you sound like a good mom :angel:

Best of luck to all of...
Board: Exercise & Fitness 08-26-2010, 05:30 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,914
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Running - Does it Get Better?

I just wanted to thank everyone for their responses! Y'all are absolutely right: I'm going too fast in speed. I'm completely spent by the third or fourth interval of run vs. walk.

I also can't...
Board: Exercise & Fitness 08-25-2010, 10:50 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,914
Posted By StenoLady1
Running - Does it Get Better?

Okay. I'm nearly 40. Quit smoking a few years back, cleaned up my diet greatly, love cooking fresh foods, try and stay active.

Just walking on the treadmill bores me to tears. I'm in Florida,...
Board: Relationship Health 08-25-2010, 10:33 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 4,600
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: More trouble with my teen and boyfriend- HELP

I'd get the apartment if I were you.

Why, why, why would a grown man (who's got grown children and must have gone through this to some degree) make plans "to view the sunset" with you alone...
Board: Smoking Cessation 08-16-2010, 01:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 3,124
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Irritability on Chantix

Only really you can decide whether to forge ahead or quit the med now.

My hubby and I both took Chantix, and he refers to the time he was on Chantix as his "dark place in hell." Chantix made him...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 08-11-2010, 12:04 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,962
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: I have no sex drive and Im young. I cant explain it

Nah, I doubt it, then.

Any other medical issues going on in your life? Stress?

I know you said you're young. Unfortunately a woman's drive usually doesn't hit its peak until her mid/late...
Board: Relationship Health 08-11-2010, 12:00 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 12,166
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Please help..I fell in love with another woman..

I agree with the others. I don't see how you can hope to rekindle your feelings for your wife -- which I'm assuming you want your marriage to work if you're going to counseling tomorrow -- if this...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 08-11-2010, 07:08 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,962
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: I have no sex drive and Im young. I cant explain it

Hormonal contraceptives can and do affect libido. So do some medications. Could any of this apply to you?
Board: Sexual Health - General 08-11-2010, 07:06 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 7,107
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: IS this normal and healtyy, a porn related issue

I don't really know what's "normal" or "healthy," but I know I wouldn't be comfortable with what you described. FWIW, I don't have a problem watching porn with my husband or even on my own...
Board: Women's Health 08-11-2010, 07:03 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,204
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: stopping the pill after 17 years

I'd been on the pill nearly 20 years and went off three years ago. Wish I'd gone off much earlier, but all the things the pill did to me were very subtle.

I do notice more bumps on my skin, but...
Board: Relationship Health 08-08-2010, 07:41 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 7,300
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: is it me or my man

I don't think you should wait until he's in a rage to discuss his rage. You both need to talk about this when you're not in the heat of the moment fight.

I do agree it sounds like he needs some...
Board: Relationship Health 07-29-2010, 05:16 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 6,179
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Boyfriend and Father HATE each other... HELP!!

This thread is five years old.

:confused::confused:
Board: Relationship Health 07-26-2010, 05:31 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,565
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Bad habit, Need advice

See, I don't view eating with your mouth open as a bad habit. I think it's more poor manners. Eating with your mouth open is in the same category as using your phone or reading during dinner,...
Board: Relationship Health 07-21-2010, 04:01 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,629
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: boyfriend responds to personal ads...

You said you've only got two choices, and whatever you choose, you need to feel good about, right?

Let's look at trying to make a go of the relationship once again. He's already gone back to his...
Board: Relationship Health 07-20-2010, 02:12 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 8,777
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: I need advice on how to ask this girl out

I think you're moving way too fast. She just started this job yesterday. Give her a week or so to get settled. I'm sure she's frazzled starting a new job and learning the ropes. To be hit...
Board: Smoking Cessation 07-19-2010, 01:47 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 29,405
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: why do I still want a cigarette after 4 months quit

Because you're an addict. I am, too. I still want a smoke after three years being quit. The urges are more seldom and they diminish in strength, but they are still there and likely will be there...
Board: Relationship Health 07-01-2010, 03:27 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 6,398
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Husband caught videotapping little sister

I also wouldn't mess around with confrontations and making copies. Your husband wasn't shown some random photo of a pretty 15-year-old stranger. He set up a hidden video to tape his SIL, your baby...
Board: Relationship Health 06-30-2010, 08:33 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 6,398
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Husband caught videotapping little sister

I'm so sorry you're going through this.

You have to call the police. You are the only one who can put a stop to this. No one else knows what he did, right? You have access to the proof on his...
Board: Relationship Health 06-30-2010, 08:29 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,560
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: My Wonderwall

I completely agree with Rose. A grown man his age still living with his mother and unemployed for so long ... yuk.

Get your stuff back and move on. Sounds like pretty rough book, anyway. Sure,...
Board: Exercise & Fitness 06-25-2010, 01:52 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,988
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Knee Pain with Aerobics

Thanks for the response, bdrunner79. I eliminated the jumping jacks, as well as side lunges (substituted running in place and a side squat move I've done in the past without trouble), and my knees...
Board: Relationship Health 06-24-2010, 01:28 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,532
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Viagra in his day bag...is he using it away from home?

It sounds plausible to me. My DH has to take his rather early in the day. It has something to do with a meal -- something about it works best (no headache/flushing) an hour or two after a large...
Board: Smoking Cessation 06-18-2010, 02:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,247
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Dr. Put Me on Chantix

Absolutely, Gram!
Board: Smoking Cessation 06-17-2010, 05:43 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,621
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: one more day until I quit, i'm scared but have to do this

Oh, don't be scared! Just believe all those other attempts at quitting were leading up to this one.

I quit just like you. Let my quit day sort of pick me, and when my pack was finished, I didn't...
Board: Exercise & Fitness 06-16-2010, 06:40 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,988
Posted By StenoLady1
Knee Pain with Aerobics

Hi :wave:

I've recently started the 30-Day Shred from Jillian Michaels, and overall, it's an outstanding workout. But my knees are positively killing me.

Anyone familiar with this workout that...
Board: Smoking Cessation 06-15-2010, 03:16 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,247
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Dr. Put Me on Chantix

The "fog" stayed with me the entire time I took Chantix. Please don't let this discourage you, tho, if that's really the only trouble you're having with the drug! Chantix absolutely worked for me...
Board: Relationship Health 06-12-2010, 04:40 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 6,985
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Pets cause arguments

Lots of good points have been made! I agree that sometimes pets need to go, either to a home or shelter, due to aggressive behavior. But this sounds like your husband teased/egged the cat on,...
Board: Relationship Health 05-26-2010, 09:36 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,427
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: relationship in trouble (sort of long, sorry)

Wishful, one of my questions might have been missed.

You said in your original post that one of these women was trying to help your BF get a job. Is your BF unemployed with you supporting him?
...
Board: Relationship Health 05-26-2010, 08:18 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,708
Posted By StenoLady1
Re: Did I Blow It?

Like almost everyone else, I also believe the relationship was already "blown." If it made you feel better to send that letter, great. My experience with men has shown me that guys usually don't...
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