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Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 05-27-2015, 10:22 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 160
Posted By Thisby
Re: Dating someone with dysthymia

I don't think it's a matter of 'throwing him aside' because he's 'broken' but rather of determining if you two are compatible for the long term and I'm not sure it sounds like you are. This...
Board: Relationship Health 05-25-2015, 05:26 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 307
Posted By Thisby
Re: I resent my boyfriend

Staying with someone because you've already invested so much into them is not a good reason to stay. It's like that saying 'throwing good money after bad'.

Cut your losses and move on. You'll...
Board: Relationship Health 05-25-2015, 05:13 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 327
Posted By Thisby
Re: Boyfriend "needs" to have sex with other women

He does know how to masturbate, doesn't he? Why does he think he has to use other women for release when he has perfectly good hands?

I'm glad to hear he's going to try to be faithful, but I get...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 05-25-2015, 05:04 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 210
Posted By Thisby
Re: Skin Growths on Vagina

If they are even and regular in size and distribution, then they are probably normal bumps. Could they Fordyce spots? Warts are hard and sit on top of the skin.

As for the skin, could it be a...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 05-20-2015, 10:54 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 229
Posted By Thisby
Re: Masturbation anxiety

I would say yes, you are over reacting. Of course, if the dish towel was filthy, then it's possible, but I wouldn't be too worried about it.

I would be more worried that you're using something...
Board: Sexually Transmitted Diseases 05-17-2015, 11:19 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 262
Posted By Thisby
Re: Penis bumps

Are they just under the skin and pop-able? If they are, then they are most likely whiteheads. But if they are on top of the skin, and more like little cauliflower heads and not at all pop-able, then...
Board: Relationship Health 05-17-2015, 11:09 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 301
Posted By Thisby
Re: I don't know how to deal with my extremely moody boyfriend

I imagine you were hoping people would suggest ways to deal with your boyfriend that would top is bad behavior, not just tell you to leave him.

The trouble is, when you're dealing with someone...
Board: Pregnancy 05-13-2015, 11:00 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 282
Posted By Thisby
Re: 5 hrs air travel during 9 week pregnancy stage

Hi Joosaf,

There are no doctors posting on these boards, just other members.

The best thing would be for your wife to see a doctor who can examine her and make sure she is safe for travel. No...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 05-01-2015, 12:56 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 240
Posted By Thisby
Re: I Get An Erection From Everything 20+ Daily?

HI Daniel4489,

I know nothing from personal experience, but I have read a lot and you actually sound pretty normal!

Bob's advice is good. The only other thing I can think of is that you didn't...
Board: Pregnancy 04-27-2015, 03:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 323
Posted By Thisby
Re: When did I conceive?

Ah. Based on the fact that you only said you had intercourse on Feb 21, the logical conclusion is that that's when you got pregnant. You never said you had intercourse since then. (We only know what...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-27-2015, 07:26 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 454
Posted By Thisby
Re: partner cant orgasm with me PLEASE HELP.

I agree that the issue is more likely hers than yours. I dug up your old thread it does sound like she has issues. A successful sex life depends on both partners being able to be honest with each...
Board: Pregnancy 04-27-2015, 07:16 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 323
Posted By Thisby
Re: When did I conceive?

If your most recent intercourse was Feb 21, then no, you could not have conceived after March 18.

You would have conceived within a few days after Feb 21 and just had a series of false negatives.
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-13-2015, 07:24 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 692
Posted By Thisby
Re: A little advice please? Mature answers appreciated....

Then I'm stumped :(

Have you used the vibrator with him at the same time?
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 04-13-2015, 07:20 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 329
Posted By Thisby
Re: Had to call the cops on my bipolar girlfriend

Bi-polar is a pretty brutal mental problem. I mean, if none of her 8 siblings can handle it, it's pretty amazing that you have been able to for all these years.

Has she ever gone for psych help?...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-11-2015, 09:36 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 692
Posted By Thisby
Re: A little advice please? Mature answers appreciated....

Are you saying that you can't even orgasm when you masturbate by yourself?

Are you on any other medications?
Board: Hysterectomy 04-06-2015, 12:20 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 615
Posted By Thisby
Re: uterine fibroids leading to hysterectomy

Hi veselym,
I know you said you have already decided on a hysterectomy but I thought would suggest you look into Uterine Arterial Embolization (UAE, sometimes called Uterine Fibroid Embolization)....
Board: Sexual Health - Men 04-01-2015, 08:44 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 297
Posted By Thisby
Re: Scared of pregnancy

You don't need to be worried about semen outside her vagina. If you were wearing a condom and it didn't break or come off inside her, you have nothing to worry about.
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 03-16-2015, 10:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 544
Posted By Thisby
Re: Concerned, should I worry?

People don't get pregnant getting sperm on underwear. Are you sure you know how babies are made? Do you know what the sperm actually has to do?
Board: Sexual Health - Men 03-16-2015, 10:31 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 673
Posted By Thisby
Re: What does refusal of sex by a man's wife do to his sexual health?

What does refusal of sex by a man's wife do to his sexual health?

Nothing. It does nothing. You still remember how to masturbate, don't you? ;)



p.s. Good to see sexism and gender...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 03-12-2015, 11:39 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 478
Posted By Thisby
Re: no title

I don't think what your body odor smells like has anything to do with whether he ejaculated in you or not.

If anything, you might have been able to tell if he had if there had been any semen...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 03-09-2015, 11:40 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 341
Posted By Thisby
Re: Maybe my ex is bipolar

I'm so glad to read that!

People who've been victims of abuse at the hands of a bipolar or borderline person often suffer depression and long-term damage to their self esteem and I was concerned...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 03-08-2015, 11:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 341
Posted By Thisby
Re: Maybe my ex is bipolar

You're welcome. I hope you have the strength to stand up to her and stay away. You invested a lot of time into the relationship so it's always hard to just end it, but in time you'll know you've done...
Board: Relationship Health 03-07-2015, 10:27 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 422
Posted By Thisby
Re: I'm not sure what to do with my relationship.

Read all these things you wrote:


You have given WAY more than enough reasons to stop loving her. At the very least, reasons you should break up with her as soon as possible. And while you don't...
Board: Women's Health 03-02-2015, 10:35 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 359
Posted By Thisby
Re: Tips on helping to relax during anal examination?

I too am going to question why you need one with a speculum. I have only ever had one rectal exam in my life and it was digital.

If there's isn't a good reason, I would refuse the test. Like,...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 03-01-2015, 10:40 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 262
Posted By Thisby
Re: Missed pills and unprotected sex

It's possible you've either totally messed up your cycle missing all those pills, or you're pregnant. And yup, you definitely have something to be worried about, but all you can do at this point is...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 02-27-2015, 06:27 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 341
Posted By Thisby
Re: Maybe my ex is bipolar

I'm really sorry you ever got involved with her in the first place. She sounds totally abusive and it definitely sounds like she has a mental problem.

I would also research Borderline Personality...
Board: Foot & Ankle Problems 01-31-2015, 10:04 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 656
Posted By Thisby
Re: Numb big toe on my right foot been a week

Hi Manny13840,

If you're lucky, the feeling should come back slowly. You were on it for only 3 days.

Me, I had a job standing - for only about 6 weeks - and both my big toes slowly went numb...
Board: Women's Health 01-30-2015, 06:58 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 180
Posted By Thisby
Re: Hymenectomy

Fascinating! And I'm glad to hear everything turned out okay.
Thanks for sharing.
Board: Sexual Health - Men 01-29-2015, 11:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 264
Posted By Thisby
Re: Can I get herpes from a sore throat?

Herpes is only caused by the herpes virus, it can't be created from another source, like a sore throat. You are right to question his logic.

Maybe your doctor didn't want to get into a blaming...
Board: Women's Health 01-27-2015, 11:50 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 392
Posted By Thisby
Re: Terrified......

It would be more helpful if you told us when the first day of your last period was, not the last day, and how long your cycle normally is.

But either way, we'd still be guessing. You can't know...
Board: Sexually Transmitted Diseases 01-24-2015, 10:37 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 347
Posted By Thisby
Re: HPV Saga

I would say it sounds very strange. He is also not your doctor and has no right to your medical information. Maybe it's different there in Italy, but I'm pretty sure that would never happen here....
Board: Sexually Transmitted Diseases 01-24-2015, 10:28 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 382
Posted By Thisby
Re: Can you get STDs or aids from a used sex toy?

So you're not talking about a used sex toy (as in, used for sex) but a touched sex toy, right? Like, someone might maybe possibly have simply touched it during manufacture, packaging or shipping?
...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 01-19-2015, 12:22 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 334
Posted By Thisby
Re: Friend with Depression ... when to walk away?

You should feel zero guilt! He's a grown man, you aren't his mother and you've only known him 5 weeks. If he's already got you feeling guilty, he must be one heck of a manipulator!

Just try to...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 01-17-2015, 09:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 334
Posted By Thisby
Re: Friend with Depression ... when to walk away?

You sound like a very nice and caring person, and I'm sorry you're going through this.

I think it's already time to walk away. You met him on a dating site but he doesn't want to date you. He...
Board: Teen Health 01-15-2015, 11:03 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 871
Posted By Thisby
re: worry about my height

Wow, you've grown an inch in a month? This is definitely a growth spurt and they tend to last longer than a month. Keep up with the vitamins and exercising, and keep us posted on how it progresses,...
Board: Women's Health 01-13-2015, 10:29 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,279
Posted By Thisby
Re: Stopping heavy bleeding -- decisions to make

Go with the least invasive options first, if you can.

As for the IUD, I've never had one, so I can't comment from experience, but I have had heavy bleeding (fibroids) and had a ridiculously hard...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 01-13-2015, 10:09 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 719
Posted By Thisby
Re: Girlfriend isn't interested in sex... Help/Advice??

Anyone with a normal sex drive would be bothered by this, so I hope she isn't making you feel bad for feeling the way you do about it.

Anyway, the fact that she masturbates means that it's not...
Board: Sexual Dysfunction Treatment 01-13-2015, 09:59 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 644
Posted By Thisby
Re: afraid of taking viagra

We aren't doctors here, so there is NO WAY any of us can tell you you 'you will be fine'.

There are some medical conditions that make it very risky to take, so see your doctor and make sure it is...
Board: Relationship Health 12-22-2014, 11:43 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 338
Posted By Thisby
Re: My future MIL wants us to change our wedding date.

I totally agree with the others who've said you shouldn't change your date for a 'what if'.

Here's a "what if": What if you change your wedding date to keep them happy, but your SIL doesn't get...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 12-22-2014, 11:29 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 404
Posted By Thisby
Re: Forgiving Depressed Partner

I think you have to decide how committed you are to her. True, depression is an illness but comparing it to an non-mental illness is an oversimplification. People with mental illnesses can often be...
Board: Teen Health 12-20-2014, 11:28 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 871
Posted By Thisby
re: worry about my height

Genetics play a huge role in your height potential, but so does nutrition and your general health so make sure you eat a very healthy diet, take vitamins, get exercise, etc etc.

You're already...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-20-2014, 11:07 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 529
Posted By Thisby
Re: Delayed Ejaculation - any ideas?

Hi bryanab,

From what you wrote, I would agree that it's probably in your head and my guess is that it's rooted somewhere in your comfort level with her and with the pressure on you now to reach...
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 12-20-2014, 10:34 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 337
Posted By Thisby
Re: Very small red dots on my foreskin!

Could they be little blood blisters? Those take a bit longer to disappear.
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 12-20-2014, 10:32 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 651
Posted By Thisby
Re: bleeding without sex?

Since the hymen is on the OUTSIDE of the vagina, Titchou's comments make no sense. It is totally possible to break the hymen without intercourse, and that's what it sounds like happened to you.
...
Board: Relationship Health 12-16-2014, 11:25 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 2,278
Posted By Thisby
Re: Feeling like this borders on emotional abuse

That's some scary stuff right there! I'm really really glad you were able to do it.

btw, that behaviour reminds me less of bi-polar than it does Borderline Personality Disorder. You should...
Board: Women's Health 12-09-2014, 09:56 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 328
Posted By Thisby
Re: uterine fibroids on ultrasound

As far as I know, the terms "submucosal, subserosal, and intramural" don't actually describe what kind of fibroid it is, just where it is.

Of course, the location is good to know when having it...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 12-09-2014, 09:35 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 514
Posted By Thisby
Re: Concerning scenario

Actually, sperm does NOT die as soon as it is exposed to the air, it has to dry out first and how long that takes depends on how much there is, how it's exposed, and environmental considerations.
...
Board: Relationship Health 12-09-2014, 03:27 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 2,278
Posted By Thisby
Re: Feeling like this borders on emotional abuse

Abuse only continues if you let it. It happens because he's an abuser. The only way to stop it is to leave.

I'm only going to be repeating what you've already been told but: you can't fix him. And...
Board: Relationship Health 11-25-2014, 02:21 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 505
Posted By Thisby
Re: Fiance doesn't care for engagement rings

You have to see what you did there, right? Playing games and expecting him to be psychic? You know exactly why you're mad but you're not telling him :(

btw, what were you doing to let him know you...
Board: Sexual Health - General 10-10-2014, 12:20 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,613
Posted By Thisby
Re: unsatisfied

Up until you tried talking about it, did he think he'd been satisfying you? Or has he never cared and doesn't want to even hear about it?
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