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Board: Relationship Health 12-17-2009, 08:41 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 4,172
Posted By besafe20
Re: Husbands parents "holiday schedule" is making me stressed and mad at my husband

Thanks for thinking of me. I am still stressed since we are flying out this weekend and that it is also my husband and son's birthdays. House a mess, Christmas shopping to do, and packing. Makes...
Board: Relationship Health 11-30-2009, 11:36 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 4,172
Posted By besafe20
Husbands parents "holiday schedule" is making me stressed and mad at my husband

I have been married for 6 years. Since I have been married my husbands parents (who live out of state) have this schedule for the holidays. They want all of their kids (who are all married and have...
Board: Pregnancy 08-24-2009, 07:38 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,083
Posted By besafe20
8 weeks along and worried....

I am pregnant with number 3 and feeling paranoid. I had morning sickness with my other two (the last pregnancy less severe) but still got very nauseated. This time around I have fleeting moments of...
Board: Relationship Health 04-18-2009, 09:08 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 5,420
Posted By besafe20
Re: Sometimes i hate my Husband

I would want the puppy to be part of the family like you do. Your husband sounds like the husband my friend is married to. The funny thing is he takes medication for his "issues" but she tells me...
Board: Relationship Health 03-23-2009, 02:57 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 895
Posted By besafe20
Re: good friends really are hard to find?

I am right there with you... I have always had issues with flakiness and maybe that is why I let these incidences bother me so much. Whenever I can't do something or I am just running late for...
Board: Relationship Health 03-22-2009, 01:00 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 895
Posted By besafe20
good friends really are hard to find?

This may be more of a vent, but why are some people such crappy friends. I had one friend who's husband went out of town and she suggested one night we get together and have a girl's pizza night. ...
Board: Relationship Health 04-15-2008, 09:36 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 685
Posted By besafe20
my husband has problems with not enough intimacy

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Board: Infant Care (up to 18 months old) 04-09-2008, 08:59 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,102
Posted By besafe20
Re: breast-feeding - make baby stay awake!

You need to do breast compressions. If you look it up on the net it will show you how to do it. Basically when you do the compressions it will make the baby swallow and begin sucking again since...
Board: Breastfeeding 03-12-2008, 07:19 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,098
Posted By besafe20
Re: weaning 18 mos son off breastfeeding, need help!

Moms do continue through pregnancy and nurse both kids. I think the milk is pretty much gone but the child continues for comfort. Then when the new baby comes mom nurses both. I personally...
Board: Pregnancy 02-09-2008, 07:54 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 8,007
Posted By besafe20
Re: c-section blood loss question

I have bled with this cesarean which was planned worse than the one that I went through labor with. I bled heavy the first 4 days which is normal then it turned into brown light bleeding but then at...
Board: Breastfeeding 02-09-2008, 07:43 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 921
Posted By besafe20
Re: Question, breastfeeding after planned c-section

I was in recovery for a while after my c-section. After I got to my room I asked for the baby but he was asleep for a while. When he woke up I nursed him so it was definately a few hours. The...
Board: Infant Care (up to 18 months old) 02-08-2008, 06:23 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 924
Posted By besafe20
7 week old seems sick very worried...

Hi I have a 7 week old baby boy. This week he hasn't been nursing well at all. He would just do a little snack here and there and has been sleeping a lot. I have been getting engorged off and on...
Board: Infant Care (up to 18 months old) 01-23-2008, 02:20 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,520
Posted By besafe20
Re: question for those who have had mastitis

update.. I just got a call about my blood test which indicates there is an infection going on. He almost put me on 2 weeks of antibiotics before I told him my symptoms are so much better after...
Board: Infant Care (up to 18 months old) 01-22-2008, 07:29 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,520
Posted By besafe20
question for those who have had mastitis

Hi there. I had a mild case of mastitis (very painful although "mild") and I was treated with antibiotics. The pain went away in about 2 days and I remained fine until 3 days after I finished the...
Board: Infant Care (up to 18 months old) 01-17-2008, 06:50 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,171
Posted By besafe20
Re: why is this so hard. Nursing isn't supposed to be this problematic is it?

wow you all have made me feel better just knowing I am not the only one. I just realized today my mastitis is back again. Same side and just four days after stopping the antibiotic. So called the...
Board: Infant Care (up to 18 months old) 01-17-2008, 09:20 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,171
Posted By besafe20
Unhappy why is this so hard. Nursing isn't supposed to be this problematic is it?

Well my son is 4 weeks old. We have been through severe engorgement, sore blistered nipples, mastitis, and now my son isn't nursing well. Since birth he was a great nurser and now he hates my left...
Board: Infant Care (up to 18 months old) 01-03-2008, 11:01 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,741
Posted By besafe20
Re: night time newborn issues

wow guys thanks for the great advice. I have researched online and a lot of your ideas were mentioned like keeping nights boring and low key plus dark. Also about being very social with the baby...
Board: Infant Care (up to 18 months old) 01-01-2008, 09:32 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,741
Posted By besafe20
night time newborn issues

my son is 12 days old and seems to have his days and nights mixed up. At night he is ready to be awake. any suggestions on how to break this habit? the most difficult issue is that when he is...
Board: Breastfeeding 12-30-2007, 08:55 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 927
Posted By besafe20
breastfeeding and engorgement help!

I had my son 10 days ago. From day one he has been an excellent nurser. So he is not the problem. My breasts produce so much milk and seem to be unwilling to slow down. As soon as my milk came in...
Board: Pregnancy 12-29-2007, 05:56 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 992
Posted By besafe20
Re: Postpartum December Moms

I would love to pump out all that milk and save it but I don't want to keep relying on the pump to keep from getting engorged. I have always been told when you pump you are telling your body to keep...
Board: Pregnancy 12-28-2007, 09:03 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 992
Posted By besafe20
Re: Postpartum December Moms

I am glad this thread has been started. I had my son jaxson on december 20th scheduled cesarean. Things went very well and I am recovering very quickly. Jaxson is a great breast feeder but I have...
Board: Pregnancy 12-11-2007, 11:41 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,622
Posted By besafe20
Re: how to deal with a pregnant woman

all I can say is imagine not being turned on at all to the thought of sex, having no desire, having your penis swollen and sore, and knowing that if you do have sex it will be uncomforable and you...
Board: Relationship Health 12-03-2007, 11:19 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,619
Posted By besafe20
Re: Mother Dissaproves of Girlfriend

It doesn't sound to me like your in love with this woman especially since you don't want to be burdened with her mother's lack of money to support herself in old age. You also seem to kind of agree...
Board: Pregnancy 12-03-2007, 09:35 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 4,539
Posted By besafe20
Re: DECEMBER MOMS December Thread

Hi there me due date is december 28th and I have scheduled a c-section for the 21st. My son was a cesarean and decided to go ahead with another one since my son was too big for me (only 7 lb 13oz)...
Board: Infant Care (up to 18 months old) 12-03-2007, 01:54 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,972
Posted By besafe20
Re: Excema

My son developed terrible eczema at 2 months old. His cheeks were a mess as well as the rest of him. My pediatrician wasn't much help and I took him to a dermatologist. He was placed on a steriod...
Board: Divorce & Separation 11-26-2007, 07:12 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,055
Posted By besafe20
Re: Divorced friend influencing DH

I am having my c-section the 20th and I am due the 28th seems like we are in the same boat. I had a c-section last time, and my mom stayed for 3 weeks and i really needed the help. Like seriously,...
Board: Divorce & Separation 11-25-2007, 09:16 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,055
Posted By besafe20
Re: Divorced friend influencing DH

HI I am entering my last month of pregnancy and have a 3 year old. I was complaining in a previous post my husband still doesn't pick up the slack when it comes to house work. As annoying as that...
Board: Relationship Health 11-24-2007, 11:11 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,445
Posted By besafe20
Re: men and housework

Ok I HAD to respond to this post. I have been married for 4 years and the housework issue has been a big annoyance for me. My husband won't do ANYTHING around the house unless I get on him forever...
Board: Pregnancy 11-23-2007, 07:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 656
Posted By besafe20
Re: feeling like a downer lately

Good to know some others are in the same boat. I am pregnant with a boy so maybe it isn't a girl thing. I guess since it is really off and on that is good. I definately get irritated with DH more...
Board: Pregnancy 11-19-2007, 04:53 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 656
Posted By besafe20
feeling like a downer lately

Hi I am going to hit 35 weeks on thanksgiving so I am getting to the end. I was just wondering if anyone has experienced mood swings. I have kind of felt depressed off and on lately. I don't know...
Board: Pregnancy 11-01-2007, 09:16 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 3,229
Posted By besafe20
Re: Terrified of upcoming C-section

ok when I was in labor for 20 hours they told me I needed a c-section. I freaked out, never having gone under the knife ever. Honestly I was so scared of the surgery I wanted to be put under...
Board: Pregnancy 10-30-2007, 07:34 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 608
Posted By besafe20
Re: overbearing inlaws!

I have a very overbearing mother in law.. She can't stay out of our business and our personal decisions we make as a family. She still tries to be a parent to my husband and I. When she has had any...
Board: Pregnancy 10-17-2007, 09:39 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,304
Posted By besafe20
Re: 2 questions for people who have had babies before

With my son I gained 32 lb total (went a week over due!) and honestly didn't get the stretch marks until that week I went over due. I just got really itchy all the sudden and bam they were all...
Board: Pregnancy 10-12-2007, 03:48 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,760
Posted By besafe20
preventing stretch marks is it possible?

I am wondering if the creams out there for preventing stretch marks actually prevents them. My last pregnancy I didn't use anything and lived in a very dry state so my skin dried up terribly. I...
Board: Pregnancy 09-15-2007, 08:48 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,164
Posted By besafe20
how do you tell your mil not to come out when the baby comes

Well I am stressed and kind of upset right now. I have one of those mother in laws that are over bearing. Right now she has been in town visitng my husband's brother since his wife just had a baby....
Board: Pregnancy 09-07-2007, 01:28 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 923
Posted By besafe20
no sexual desire

Well I don't know what is going on. But lately I have had almost an aversion to sex. I have not desire for it ever, and when we do I tend to find it rather uncomfortable. I am 24 weeks pregnant. ...
Board: Parenting Issues 08-29-2007, 09:37 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,502
Posted By besafe20
Re: 2 year old with foot/toe ache

m son is 3 and started doing this at 2. He would cry that his foot hurt and sometimes his leg. It would always be when he is sitting around or at night in the middle of sleep. He acts ike it is...
Board: Pregnancy 08-18-2007, 11:56 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 8,227
Posted By besafe20
Re: C-Section Horror Story, and I'm pregnant again. Please help!

Just wanted to add I am also in the same position. Had a c-section 3 1/2 years ago and I am 5 months pregnant. I was in labor for 20 hours and made it to a 7 but didn't make it to a 10 for some...
Board: Pregnancy 08-02-2007, 11:33 AM
Replies: 82
Views: 27,932
Posted By besafe20
Re: Any pregnant moms on heparin shots.

I actually just discovered I have a clotting disorder 2 weeks ago and I am 19 weeks pregnant. I was tested because my dad has a long history of strokes starting at 40. Turns out I have MTHFR...
Board: Pregnancy 08-01-2007, 08:20 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,245
Posted By besafe20
Re: How much weight have you gained december mommies?

Wow you guys eat really healthy. I can't say I do... I think I would if we didn't eat out so much since I never have junk in the house. I stepped on my scale and I have gained 9 pounds now at 19...
Board: Pregnancy 08-01-2007, 08:08 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 502
Posted By besafe20
Re: I need some advice.

I would definately want to be induced early but since I had a cesarean last time he will not induce. I have to go into labor on my own :(
Board: Pregnancy 07-31-2007, 03:51 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,245
Posted By besafe20
How much weight have you gained december mommies?

I am 19 weeks and at my 16 week appointment I had already gained 8 lb. I don't know about you guys but I feel like I want to eat all the time! I know we only need 300 extra calories a day but I...
Board: Pregnancy 07-30-2007, 05:46 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 502
Posted By besafe20
I need some advice.

I had a cesarean with my son due to failure to progress. I did manage to get to 7 cm and then I stopped. My previous doctor believed that it was because my son was too big (7 lb 13 oz). I am small...
Board: Parenting Issues 07-21-2007, 05:08 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 14,253
Posted By besafe20
Re: Please help 3 year old refusing to poop

My pediatrician told me to give him miralax once a day even though I don't think he was constipated (even though he may be now) he hasn't gone in 4 days and is still complaining off and on his bum...
Board: Parenting Issues 07-20-2007, 09:22 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 14,253
Posted By besafe20
Please help 3 year old refusing to poop

I am really worried and frustrated. My son has been potty trained with peeing since he turned 3 and pooping for the past 5 weeks (no accidents with either). Well now for some reason he is refusing...
Board: Pregnancy 07-13-2007, 09:28 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 14,310
Posted By besafe20
Re: I'm 16 weeks and I feel huge already!!! Anyone else showing?

Well I am 16 weeks and I think to me and people who now me, you could say I am showing, but the reality of it is I just look fatter now :(. Like I have a chubby beer belly waist or something which i...
Board: Relationship Health 07-09-2007, 11:03 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,869
Posted By besafe20
Re: Would this bother you?

I think it is really weird that he would ask you that to begin with. And yeah it is rude and disrespectful to act like that in front of you. Seems like he lacks in the common sense department. You...
Board: Parenting Issues 06-24-2007, 10:04 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 803
Posted By besafe20
Bad influence?

My son is 3 years old and I have stayed home with since he was born. We are very good friends with a couple that have a four year old boy. The four year old has always been sort of advanced for hs...
Board: Pregnancy 06-21-2007, 08:01 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 774
Posted By besafe20
Re: Oh my goodness the nausea!!!

I had really bad nausea and vomtting with my first pregnancy and this time has been cake. I threw up once at 6 weeks and have been mostly fine and I haven't felt too slowed down the rest of the...
Board: Pregnancy 06-13-2007, 01:19 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 608
Posted By besafe20
Re: horribly hormonal

I am 12 weeks and in the same boat. it is really strange since I never had this with my son.
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