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Board: Relationship Health 03-12-2004, 07:27 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

I feel less and less like an idiot every day. I guess with time it will pass and I will have a lesson learned. It's just really hard looking back in hindsight because now everything is VERY...
Board: Relationship Health 03-11-2004, 07:08 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

Thanks for all the replies. I guess it happens to the best of us! I've been "out there" for awhile and I thought I was a good judge of character and I can honestly say I have never been played...
Board: Relationship Health 03-09-2004, 04:52 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

eightball, no worries I realized that! But I am always attracted to the girls with "attitude". Can't help it!

Bambola, I think you are right. I guess its "easier" to lie than to deal with it. ...
Board: Relationship Health 03-09-2004, 07:50 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

eightball there is no doubt that I like a woman with a little attitude. Always have, always will. But I usually don't fall for them!!!

And MadSkillz you are 100% right! That is actually what I...
Board: Relationship Health 03-09-2004, 07:43 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

I agree, I guess I what I meant was even if she had a hard time leaving her ex, I still would have stuck it out as long as she was honest. Obviously I knew there were major risks jumping into this...
Board: Relationship Health 03-09-2004, 07:12 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

MadSkillzGal, I totally agree. She has a VERY serious problem with lying. There were definite true(and strong) feelings between us but she also felt it necessary to keep her ex stringing along in...
Board: Divorce & Separation 03-08-2004, 07:34 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,894
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Dating someone who is going through a divorce?

Yep, keep your distance and see what happens. I agree with newlywedgurl, this one could spell disaster. Take it from somebody that went through something similar but not as many "factors", keep...
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 07:24 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,502
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Should I have got her number?

jhart, don't worry about trying to get a girlfriend right away. Just have some fun and see what happens. And to a certain extent don't worry about what type of girl she is. She helped take your...
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 07:10 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

No hopes for me, just feel like "she got me" and I should have known better! After it was finally over looking back the signs were MUCH easier to see! Hindsight is always 20/20!!! It also helped...
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 03:14 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,502
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Should I have got her number?

Well, how about you head back to the same bar and maybe you will meet up with her again?
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 03:07 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

Yeah, I am too smart to let this happen to me, or so I thought!

A similar situation happened a few years ago but we were both kinda on the rebound and this girl was 100% honest and upfront with...
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 02:41 PM
Replies: 77
Views: 30,467
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Age Difference - How Much Is Too Much?

I agree with the maturity level being more important. I always date younger girls because they are at my maturity level. I am still into going out and partying and having fun and most women my age...
Board: Sexual Health - General 03-08-2004, 01:44 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 12,956
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Giving oral sex to a guy!

Some girls just have a hard time swallowing. I have been with girls that gagged and choked and just couldn't do it and I've been with girls that don't make a sound and take it without a problem. I...
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 01:35 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,860
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Scared to lose him

I agree, don't worry about what "could" happen. You'll make yourself sick worrying about it!
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 01:29 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

And eightball is right, I have already learned a lot from this!
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 01:28 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

newlywedgurl, I ignored my gut feelings because I knew she was confused. I was in a very similar situation a few years ago and I did not handle it well because I was trying not to hurt anyone, and...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 03-08-2004, 12:59 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 717
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Thinking about sex?

3-10 times? I don't know exactly how often I do but I'd probably say around 100. Maybe i am a perv! ;)
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 12:18 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

eightball I guess I am angry at myself because Gemi is right. I knew in my gut something was wrong but I ignored it hoping everything would be alright in the end. I just thought she was a confused...
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 11:46 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

And yes, I am obviously a glutten for punishment! It seems that I'm always attracted to girls that have issues! I just usually don't get attached like I did. ;)
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 11:39 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

Gemi, everything you said makes complete sense! And yes I am a little angry, but mostly at myself!

But the "hiding" did not go on for a year. I guess a major part I left out was I knew this...
Board: Relationship Health 03-08-2004, 11:08 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Re: Why do people lie?

Yeah, I knew there was a very good chance I could be the rebound guy, and I took my chances. I even expected her to go back with him at least once, which she did. But what I don't get is even when...
Board: Relationship Health 03-07-2004, 08:48 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,834
Posted By alwaystan
Why do people lie?

Okay, this is the first thread I have started and I'm gonna try and keep it short. I started "seeing" a girl about a year ago. Problem is, she had a bf of 5 years she was trying to end. Well,...
Board: Relationship Health 11-13-2003, 05:39 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,501
Posted By alwaystan
I'm not saying that my maturity level matches a...

I'm not saying that my maturity level matches a 19 year old girl, I'm just saying that I always date younger girls because they have the same "social maturity". I'm not going to get into it too deep...
Board: Relationship Health 11-13-2003, 01:26 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,149
Posted By alwaystan
Bottom line, human beings want challenges, even...

Bottom line, human beings want challenges, even in relationships. Not all, but MOST women (and men) do not want someone that is so nice that there is no challenge at all.

Now, as for the girls...
Board: Relationship Health 11-13-2003, 01:07 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,501
Posted By alwaystan
Stolie, I am with you! That's why I told you to...

Stolie, I am with you! That's why I told you to loosen up and have some fun in your other post. I could never date a girl my age, she'd be WAY too mature for me. :D
Board: Relationship Health 11-12-2003, 01:43 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,501
Posted By alwaystan
It depends on her personality and how mature she...

It depends on her personality and how mature she is. I know 19 year old women that act like they are 24 and some that act like they're 14. Obviously, you met her and are attracted to her so I would...
Board: Relationship Health 11-12-2003, 12:25 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,149
Posted By alwaystan
I don't think women necessarily want a "jerk". ...

I don't think women necessarily want a "jerk". But, they want a challenge and some excitement. I am a very "whatever" type person that shows very little emotion. I like to party and have fun. And...
Board: Relationship Health 11-12-2003, 11:50 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,445
Posted By alwaystan
dsheldon3, everyone has to be serious sometimes. ...

dsheldon3, everyone has to be serious sometimes. But, the majority of girls like guys that are fun. My main point was if he wants to have some drinks and loosen up a little and have fun then go for...
Board: Relationship Health 11-10-2003, 05:24 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,445
Posted By alwaystan
Don't be too serious! Nobody wants to be with...

Don't be too serious! Nobody wants to be with soemone that's always serious and no fun. I don't care how old you are. If you're "out" you should be having fun!!! So, my advice to you is loosen...
Board: Relationship Health 11-09-2003, 05:00 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 681
Posted By alwaystan
If you have no reason to think there is still...

If you have no reason to think there is still something between them then why should it bother you? I am friends with all my ex girlfriends and really good friends with 2 of them. I hang out with...
Board: Relationship Health 10-20-2003, 07:44 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 437
Posted By alwaystan
Post If I remember right you and your ex were in quite...

If I remember right you and your ex were in quite a long term relationship. So the first thing I would tell you is take it SLOW with your new relationship.

Also, I agree that you do not need to...
Board: Relationship Health 10-20-2003, 06:33 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 477
Posted By alwaystan
Post I just went through this! The girl I was dating...

I just went through this! The girl I was dating was trying to get over her ex of almost 5 years. Only problem was, she was trying to be "friends" with him and he was trying like hell to get her...
Board: Sexual Health - General 10-16-2003, 09:17 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 14,986
Posted By alwaystan
Post I had an ex girlfriend that really enjoyed anal...

I had an ex girlfriend that really enjoyed anal sex. We did it about once a week for quite awhile. The important thing is to use plenty of lube and start slow with short penetration. Let her relax...
Board: Relationship Health 10-16-2003, 08:48 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,243
Posted By alwaystan
Post Dr, Like I said earlier your post was very...

Dr,

Like I said earlier your post was very similar to what I am going through. We only dated for about 3 months before it started going downhill. I basically knew she was confused about her ex...
Board: Relationship Health 10-06-2003, 07:26 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,243
Posted By alwaystan
Post Dr. trust me you did the right thing!!! Your...

Dr. trust me you did the right thing!!! Your story is so close to what I just went through it's scary. Not exact circumstances but the girl's mindset. Let me tell you, I didn't get out when I...
Board: Rosacea 10-02-2003, 11:13 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,519
Posted By alwaystan
Post My derm gave me tetracycline and metrocream on...

My derm gave me tetracycline and metrocream on Monday. The metrocream does actually seem to make it worse but I figured it may have to get worse before it gets better. I notice that I am really red...
Board: Relationship Health 10-01-2003, 07:32 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 520
Posted By alwaystan
Post Problem is it is very hard to make a "final"...

Problem is it is very hard to make a "final" decision. If you decide to stay with your boyfriend you will miss flirting, hanging out and having fun with hot guy. If you break up with your boyfriend...
Board: Relationship Health 10-01-2003, 06:31 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,243
Posted By alwaystan
Post Wow, you hit the nail on the head big time! Only...

Wow, you hit the nail on the head big time! Only problem is, those girls that need drama in their life are usually a lot of fun!!!

Dr, I just went through a very similar situation except I was...
Board: Rosacea 10-01-2003, 05:23 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 717
Posted By alwaystan
Post Question for those with rosacea/facial redness

I was recently diagnosed with rosacea. Doc wasn't 100% since there's no sure way to test, but looked like I had the symptoms. I have always thought that I had really sensitive skin(which I do) and my...
Board: Rosacea 10-01-2003, 03:36 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,519
Posted By alwaystan
Post Question for people with rosacea/facial redness

I was recently diagnosed with rosacea. Doc wasn't 100% since there's no sure way to test, but looked like I had the symptoms. I have always thought that I had really sensitive skin(which I do) and...
Board: Rosacea 09-30-2003, 05:44 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 8,843
Posted By alwaystan
Post Nobody?

Nobody?
Board: Rosacea 09-30-2003, 09:23 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 8,843
Posted By alwaystan
Post Anyone with rosacea use metrocream, metrogel or metrolotion?

Finally saw a derm yesterday and he agreed that it looks like I have mild roscea. Prescribed metrocream for redness and tetracyline for the few cyst pimples I get along with something called clinac...
Board: Rosacea 09-29-2003, 09:00 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,582
Posted By alwaystan
Post Well, I went to the derm today and he prescribed...

Well, I went to the derm today and he prescribed metrocream, tetracycline and one other that is suppose to absorb oil but the pharmacy was out of until tomorrow. He listened a lot more that my...
Board: Rosacea 09-19-2003, 07:53 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,582
Posted By alwaystan
Post DeeDee, I scheduled an appt with a derm on...

DeeDee,

I scheduled an appt with a derm on the 29th and I will ask about both of those products. I appreciate the tips!
Board: Rosacea 09-19-2003, 10:47 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,582
Posted By alwaystan
Post Well, I got in to see my doctor today and just as...

Well, I got in to see my doctor today and just as I figured he immediately dismissed rosacea. He said I would have acne which I reallly don't have. He said it could be my allergies and switched my...
Board: Rosacea 09-18-2003, 08:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,582
Posted By alwaystan
Post Is it rosacea?

Okay, I have done a A LOT of research and I think I may have mild rosacea. I am going to the doctor next week but I have a feeling he may dismiss the idea quickly.

I am a 32 year old male and my...
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