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Board: Smoking Cessation 09-01-2015, 01:35 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 100
Posted By Seraph
Question Re: You guys, I really need help :(

I am wondering why, with all that is going on in your life, you are placing all the cause of your anxiety and stress on the one positive thing going on. Is it maybe because it is easier to focus on...
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 08-28-2015, 10:49 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 186
Posted By Seraph
Re: I haven't had my period in 2-3 years.

Look for a women's clinic or a family planning clinic. Otherwise, where are you getting the BC pills? Get advice from that doctor.
Board: Relationship Health 08-27-2015, 04:33 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 227
Posted By Seraph
Re: Me girlfriend has a guy bestfriend

She may be unaware, but he is not. He is moving in on her and coming between you. A romantic relationship should have only two people in it. His behaviour is unacceptable and you need to tell him to...
Board: Relationship Health 08-26-2015, 10:34 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 182
Posted By Seraph
Re: Toxic friendship?? Please need advice

She is a user. This is not a friendship, it is totally one sided. You do not need someone like this in your life. As Pendulum says, you have nothing to lose (except the hassle). Stop making contact...
Board: Sexual Health - General 08-24-2015, 09:31 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 144
Posted By Seraph
Re: Help!!

Sounds like a urinary tract infection. Sex, especially if prolonged or rough, can cause the area to become inflamed and this can lead to infection. Drink a lot of water and cranberry juice, and take...
Board: Codependency 08-24-2015, 07:16 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 200
Posted By Seraph
Re: Coming to grips with codependency late in life

A useful motto for codependent leanings is
"I am 100% responsible for my own behaviour, and I am 0% responsible for anyone else's behaviour"
From your post, it sounds like you have an attraction to...
Board: Sexual Health - General 08-23-2015, 06:06 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 582
Posted By Seraph
Re: Need soo much help!

I could not be with someone who behaved like this. I would kick him to the kerb and I would also seek legal advice about suing him if he slanders you. See, I don't really believe that he thinks you...
Board: Sexual Health - General 08-22-2015, 06:25 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 582
Posted By Seraph
Re: Need soo much help!

How can you continue to love someone who would do such a horrible thing to you?? He would trash your name because HE is ignorant about the female body? Please do not subject yourself to somebody who...
Board: Relationship Health 08-22-2015, 06:18 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 604
Posted By Seraph
Re: I feel like I'm not a grown-up woman

I would far rather be a whole person on my own than the "inferior" half of a relationship. Look ahead a few years and you can easily see a person who doubts herself even more; whose every move to...
Board: Depression 08-21-2015, 05:30 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 303
Posted By Seraph
Re: anyone ever felt doomed?

Yes, depression never stays the same. Are you on medication? That can help to lift the symptoms. See a doctor or therapist to help you see it through. Sera
Board: Sexual Health - General 08-21-2015, 05:27 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 582
Posted By Seraph
Re: Need soo much help!

A lot of women do not bleed at the first time. I know I didn't and it hurt like the dickens! Stand up for yourself, you are telling the truth and there is nothing you can or need to do to convince...
Board: Relationship Health 08-21-2015, 10:29 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 257
Posted By Seraph
Re: Gay or Straight...Am I a cover up?

I don't think his activities and "turn ons" fall outside the normal heterosexual, but slightly bicurious range. You do not have to allow acts that make you feel uncomfortable and I would hope that he...
Board: Parenting Issues 08-21-2015, 03:53 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 286
Posted By Seraph
Re: Daughter

You need a good break from this daughter. Let her live where she wants. She is an adult, and I bet that there is no other adult in the world you would let live in your house and treat you like dirt...
Board: Relationship Health 08-21-2015, 03:45 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 233
Posted By Seraph
Re: Upset with dad and don't know where to go from here

Msnik has said exactly what I would have said. Painful as it is, you have no place or voice in their issues. I agree that talking it over is good, and I would add that I would not discuss it with...
Board: Children's Health 08-20-2015, 07:26 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 147
Posted By Seraph
Re: Help! 21 month old HUGE tonsils are being ignored!

Try taking him to the childrens hospital emergency room if he is displaying symptoms. They can at least run tests etc on the spot. Good luck, Sera
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 08-19-2015, 06:49 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 231
Posted By Seraph
Re: His penis rubbed against my lower stomach? Chance of pregnancy?

This activity will not make you pregnant. Sperm must be deposited into the vagina to be able to cause pregnancy. It cannot walk, crawl or jump around your body to get there by itself. All sperm can...
Board: Birth Control 08-17-2015, 03:12 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 153
Posted By Seraph
Board: Women's Health 08-17-2015, 03:10 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 189
Posted By Seraph
Re: Not sure where to post but wondering about possible pregnancy symptoms

When/if your period is late, then use a pregnancy test from the drugstore. That is the only to know for sure. There are no surefire symptoms of early pregnancy that are conclusive. Good luck...
Board: Birth Control 08-16-2015, 10:55 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 153
Posted By Seraph
Re: Did the condom work if ive gotten my menstrual cycle??

That is usually a good indication that it has worked and pregnancy has been prevented. Sera
Board: Relationship Health 08-16-2015, 06:52 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 604
Posted By Seraph
Re: I feel like I'm not a grown-up woman

This relationship does not sound nurturing or conducive to growth. He seems to be perfectly content for you to stay in the place you were at when you married (him the parent, you the child)....
Board: Women's Health 08-15-2015, 02:19 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 192
Posted By Seraph
Re: Could I be Pregnant?

Your symptoms are pretty typical hormonal ones. Being new on the pill will certainly make your hormones play up for a bit. Early symptoms of pregnancy are just the same as other hormonal symptoms and...
Board: Women's Health 08-13-2015, 01:55 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 180
Posted By Seraph
Re: Could I be pregnant?

If you used a condom AND he pulled out AND you had your period AND you were on BC, I think you are safe. Most of these things will prevent pregnancy in most cases. There are really no specific early...
Board: Relationship Health 08-12-2015, 05:26 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 232
Posted By Seraph
Re: Is this emotional abuse?

There is nothing you can do to change this person, and he is an abuser. I can see your idea about his being autistic, but a narcissistic bully seems to describe him better. Keep as clear as you can,...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 08-12-2015, 05:16 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 164
Posted By Seraph
Re: Sex n late period..

Any unprotected penetrative intercourse can lead to pregnancy. It is less likely to happen on the day of your period, but certainly possible. If you miss your period entirely, you need to take a...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 08-11-2015, 05:57 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 189
Posted By Seraph
Re: No condom

Any unprotected penetration is a big risk for pregnancy. You are right to be concerned, it is not safe without a condom. Good luck anyway, Sera
Board: HIV Prevention 08-09-2015, 10:39 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 164
Posted By Seraph
Re: Hiv info help pls ??????

You can get DIY tests from a pharmacy. Testing is anyway very confidential and they do not judge. Get peace of mind and go test. Sera
Board: Teen Health 08-06-2015, 08:31 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 238
Posted By Seraph
Re: i don't know.

Sounds like a urinary tract infection. Go to the doctor, you need antibiotics. Also get some urinary alkalinizer, eg Ural from the pharmacy and take some. Drink lots of water and passing urine will...
Board: Relationship Health 08-04-2015, 08:04 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 223
Posted By Seraph
Re: Dating someone with a different lifestyle

Another artist could be good, but maybe you will be happiest with a "muse" who inspires and supports your creativity. There does not have to be artistic production for somebody to be a really...
Board: Relationship Health 08-04-2015, 01:56 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 844
Posted By Seraph
Re: Could my controlling spouse be a cause of my social anxiety?

Examples of verbal abuse include
*nonconstructive criticism (you are fat, you are useless, etc)
*dismissal of your point of view or opinions ("what would you know about such things", or "you are...
Board: Women's Health 08-04-2015, 01:31 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 213
Posted By Seraph
Re: Am i the father?

It is very possible. A pregnancy runs officially for 40 weeks from conception and your sex just fits in that time frame. The only way to know for sure is to have a paternity test after the baby is...
Board: Relationship Health 08-03-2015, 06:08 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 844
Posted By Seraph
Re: Could my controlling spouse be a cause of my social anxiety?

For your information, read up on "gaslighting". This is, I am sure, what has brought you to the place where you question everything about yourself. As far as your "problems" go, you gave only one...
Board: Relationship Health 08-03-2015, 05:54 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 183
Posted By Seraph
Re: Confused Girlfriend

Keep track of everything you spend on him and present him with the bill. Even food costs, bill him for his half. It is good that you are financially independent, and I think that this issue would...
Board: Relationship Health 08-02-2015, 01:40 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 844
Posted By Seraph
Re: Could my controlling spouse be a cause of my social anxiety?

Another result of abuse is to try to make yourself out to be somehow at fault - this view encouraged by the abuser of course. If he has already hit you once, then the next time is inevitable. If you...
Board: Relationship Health 08-01-2015, 08:20 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 844
Posted By Seraph
Re: Could my controlling spouse be a cause of my social anxiety?

It would be amazing if you DIDN'T have this anxiety! He is an abuser; a partner who controls and isolates you from your family and friends is a classic abuser. It is only a matter of time before it...
Board: Relationship Health 07-30-2015, 07:09 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 280
Posted By Seraph
Re: Am I too drastic?

I agree with you about the unfairness of this situation, and I think that "plans" like yours are not a good or effective way to deal with it and can blow up in your face. For a start, do you think...
Board: Miscarriage & Still Birth 07-29-2015, 01:44 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 222
Posted By Seraph
Re: What are the symptoms of a miscarrage?

They may still be able to detect changes that happen in your uterus once you have had a pregnancy. If you are having ongoing heavy periods, pain, discharge etc, you ought to have a complete ob/gyn...
Board: Miscarriage & Still Birth 07-28-2015, 07:11 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 222
Posted By Seraph
Re: What are the symptoms of a miscarrage?

There are often no symptoms for an early miscarriage, but you may experience bleeding, passing clots, pain (like severe period pain). How far along might you have been? Silent miscarriages in the...
Board: Relationship Health 07-28-2015, 12:13 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 492
Posted By Seraph
Re: Does my boyfriend still love his ex girlfriend?

Why do you still care about whether he loves his ex or not? Forget about this fool and move forward. Sera
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 07-25-2015, 01:50 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 563
Posted By Seraph
Re: Seeping through underwear?

No, sperm must be placed directly into the vagina to cause pregnancy. No one has ever gotten pregnant through clothes. Sera
Board: Parenting Issues 07-22-2015, 08:12 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 284
Posted By Seraph
Re: overprotecting, controlling parents and its consequences

People are right - it is up to you, but it is unrealistic to just take your life in your hands and turn it upside down. This situation calls for small changes. For example, defy your parents in small...
Board: Degenerative Diseases 07-21-2015, 03:50 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 178
Posted By Seraph
Re: advice needed

Try the injections. Yes, they can cause the pain to increase temporarily, but I have also seen a person get a new lease on life after starting them. You really have nothing to lose. Good luck, Sera
Board: Sexual Health - Men 07-19-2015, 11:43 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 358
Posted By Seraph
Re: Did I mess up my relationship?

Most guys do NOT ask about their partner's past. At least they do not give them the third degree about it. This is the dumbest thing you can do in a relationship! You will lose her, no question. What...
Board: Sexual Health - General 07-18-2015, 08:51 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 191
Posted By Seraph
Re: Pregnancy scare

The birth control should prevent pregnancy even without a condom. I am sure you have nothing to worry about. Sera
Board: Sexual Health - Men 07-14-2015, 08:02 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 223
Posted By Seraph
Re: Could sperm on condom be a risk?

The odd random sperm cannot survive in open air long enough for this scenario to be a risk. Sperm is actually quite delicate, and very easy to kill. I am sure you are safe. Cheers, Sera
Board: HIV Prevention 07-14-2015, 05:41 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 491
Posted By Seraph
Question Re: Worried about possible transmission.

Your symptoms point to alcohol poisoning. Expect your liver to be very unwell. Sera
Board: Relationship Health 07-14-2015, 09:29 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 522
Posted By Seraph
Re: Boyfriend financially supports mother who refuses to work while making fun of my

Don't walk away - run!! His mother will always come first; you don't have a hope of having a relationship without her well and truly in the middle of it. He is a mama's boy, and that will never...
Board: Relationship Health 07-13-2015, 09:17 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 257
Posted By Seraph
Re: Mother issues

Letting go is not the answer here. She is who she is, and like it or not this is the deepest relationship you can ever have. You can't just turn your back on it without a huge effort and a fair bit...
Board: Relationship Health 07-13-2015, 04:30 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 243
Posted By Seraph
Re: Do not want my mother involved in my personal life .

When you are ready to call your relationship permanent, give him a heads-up about your mother and what to expect. Annoying and nosy parents are pretty common and you can usually navigate your life...
Board: Relationship Health 07-13-2015, 04:16 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 257
Posted By Seraph
Re: Mother issues

It is really hard when you get this from the one person who should love you unconditionally. My mother was that way, and it hurts a lot. The thing to renember is that her attitude is not about you!...
Board: Sexual Health - General 07-11-2015, 07:28 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 197
Posted By Seraph
Re: Watery ejaculate with almost no semen

The whole ejaculate is semen. It can look watery and still contain large amounts of sperm. The range of "normal" semen varies quite a lot and you cannot really tell by just looking. If you are...
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