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Board: Relationship Health 08-26-2015, 10:27 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 185
Posted By Kszan
Re: Toxic friendship?? Please need advice

She sounds like a nightmare. Yikes. I was getting anxiety just reading about her shenanigans! If it were me, I'd probably not reply to her anymore. You said that she was MIA for most of August so I'm...
Board: Relationship Health 08-22-2015, 04:18 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 616
Posted By Kszan
Re: I feel like I'm not a grown-up woman

You can also get a dog to greet you at the door when you come home and it will be a lot less stressful and won't cost you your life savings like kids do. The bonus part about the dog is that it will...
Board: HIV Prevention 08-20-2015, 05:29 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 218
Posted By Kszan
Re: HIV Testing Rookies

You can't infect each other if neither of you has HIV. It doesn't just appear out of thin air. I don't understand why people think it would, because that makes no sense at all.
Board: Relationship Health 08-20-2015, 05:24 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 616
Posted By Kszan
Re: I feel like I'm not a grown-up woman

Life doesn't require marriage. I'm not married and I'm having a wonderful life filled with my family and friends. People who make those kinds of judgements about single people, implying that they are...
Board: HIV Prevention 08-19-2015, 01:03 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 175
Posted By Kszan
Re: PEP to a 7 year old child - Urgent help required.

This is not the kind of question that random people on the internet are qualified to answer. You need to speak to the doctor who prescribed it and take up your concerns with him. And call your kid's...
Board: Birth Control 08-17-2015, 11:02 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 154
Posted By Kszan
Re: Should my girlfriend take emergency contraceptives?

I was always told by my doctor to never take plan b on top of my bc pills because it's an overdose and could cause severe side effects. That's why I always tell people that they should not take plan...
Board: Relationship Health 08-17-2015, 10:52 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 616
Posted By Kszan
Re: I feel like I'm not a grown-up woman

And another thing, it may be impossible for you to continue any kind of personal growth and/or maturity if you stay with him. He is literally holding you back from reaching your potential. It's like...
Board: Relationship Health 08-16-2015, 09:32 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 616
Posted By Kszan
Re: I feel like I'm not a grown-up woman

I told you this in your last post that he keeps treating you like a child and like he is your parent. That's not a marriage. What he said to you is totally irrelevant because the bottom line here is...
Board: Women's Health 08-15-2015, 07:21 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 192
Posted By Kszan
Re: Could I be Pregnant?

You're supposed to start the birth control pill for the first time either on the first day of your period or the first Sunday after your period starts. It sounds like you just started taking it on a...
Board: Women's Health 08-10-2015, 11:41 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 185
Posted By Kszan
Re: Myomectomy: Open or Laparocopic

I had a fibroid the size of a grapefruit and it was removed by open surgery (which they call a laprotomy?) The first question I asked in recovery when I was waking up is whether I still had my uterus...
Board: Birth Control 08-08-2015, 02:06 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 159
Posted By Kszan
Re: Spotting while on BC

It's not necessary to freak out. Spotting is a common and annoying side effect of using the pill. It has nothing to do with pregnancy. Taking your pill at the same time every day would help to avoid...
Board: Relationship Health 08-06-2015, 07:58 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 222
Posted By Kszan
Re: Insecure and worried all the time

Trust between 2 people in a relationship is one of the most basic and fundamental requirements for any healthy & successful relationship. But when something happens and one of the two loses that...
Board: Women's Health 08-06-2015, 04:49 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 151
Posted By Kszan
Re: Using estrogen for Depo induced bleeding.

This is one of the very unfortunate side effects that some women have after getting depo. Either they bleed the entire 3 months while the shot is working through the body, or they have some type of...
Board: Relationship Health 08-04-2015, 10:00 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 855
Posted By Kszan
Re: Could my controlling spouse be a cause of my social anxiety?

Look, he hit you and that's not ok. It's never ok for a husband to hit his wife. For that reason alone you should've left. But there are all of these other major reasons, like the fact thay he treats...
Board: Relationship Health 08-03-2015, 11:02 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 855
Posted By Kszan
Re: Could my controlling spouse be a cause of my social anxiety?

If it were me, I'd have been out the door already. He sounds like a total nightmare. I'd rather live in the most remote cave on a deserted island than to be in any kind of rationship with someone...
Board: Birth Control 07-30-2015, 10:45 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 277
Posted By Kszan
Re: No more birth control at age 50

Yes, tell your husband to get a vasectomy. Problem solved. This is the simplest solution to your problem.
Board: HIV Prevention 07-28-2015, 02:14 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 256
Posted By Kszan
Re: Need Some Guidance

Sure, do what you gotta do for piece of mind. All I'm saying is, try to use more logic and less emotion when dealing with your problems. It makes for less stress in the end.
Board: HIV Prevention 07-28-2015, 11:10 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 256
Posted By Kszan
Re: Need Some Guidance

You had no risk, so asking about test status is pretty silly. Might as well get an ebola test too while you're out there testing for stuff that you weren't exposed to?
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 07-28-2015, 05:58 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 266
Posted By Kszan
Re: unprotected touching

It's not possible to get pregnant just by touching. The ipill wasnt needed because you have zero chance of pregnancy.
Board: Relationship Health 07-28-2015, 05:50 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 493
Posted By Kszan
Re: Does my boyfriend still love his ex girlfriend?

Serena, the only reason why people use that particular app is for hookups. If my bf was using it, I'd kick him to the curb so fast that his head would spin. I don't know why he is still so hung up on...
Board: Birth Control 07-26-2015, 04:53 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 194
Posted By Kszan
Re: Should I stop the pill after 4 years of use?

That's one of the benefits of the pill is that you can stop anytime if you decide you're tired of it. But if you don't want to get pregnant then make sure you use something else for protection....
Board: Birth Control 07-26-2015, 08:34 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 170
Posted By Kszan
Re: Mirena IUD

I've had 3 Mirenas and I didn't notice any side effects. I still had a period every 28 days as usual but it was a lot lighter, thankfully, because that's why I got it. Maybe you'll get lucky and...
Board: Sexual Health - General 07-24-2015, 09:18 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 411
Posted By Kszan
Re: my fiance has low sex drive

I think it's possible he might have some type of impotence or some other sexual dysfunction, or he has low testosterone. Men who suffer from sexual dysfunction are often far too embarrassed to admit...
Board: Sexual Health - General 07-23-2015, 05:19 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 325
Posted By Kszan
Re: How does a girl know when she's least fertile?

Your ovulation pattern can vary from month to month depending on your hormones (stress has a huge impact on that). An unfertilized egg is only viable for about 12-24 hours after being released....
Board: Sexual Health - General 07-23-2015, 05:10 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 360
Posted By Kszan
Re: Jealous of my boyfriends "toy" collection

That's really unsanitary and gross. You should not be using toys that were used on other people. Why do you think they have a no return policy on all of that stuff?

Your boyfriend sounds totally...
Board: HIV Prevention 07-19-2015, 10:47 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 340
Posted By Kszan
Re: Shocked by an indeterminate western blot

I happen to know that the blood tests for Lyme disease also use ELISA, PCR and Western Blot for confirmation. Lyme disease is far more common and easy to be infected with, which is where I would be...
Board: HIV Prevention 07-19-2015, 08:12 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 340
Posted By Kszan
Re: Shocked by an indeterminate western blot

That is false and it could end up being very dangerous for you if you continue to pursue getting diagnosed with a disease for which you had ZERO EXPOSURE and meanwhile ignoring the many other more...
Board: Birth Control 07-19-2015, 07:59 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 348
Posted By Kszan
Re: Is it okay to take the pill with a family history of breast cancer?

I have heard about the link between using BC pills and breast cancer but I didn't do a lot of in depth research so I know about as much as you do. I wanted to mention that it's the estrogen in the...
Board: Birth Control 07-17-2015, 05:53 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 348
Posted By Kszan
Re: Is it okay to take the pill with a family history of breast cancer?

I don't understand why she won't tell you? That's kind of really important information for you to know for your own health management. What is her problem that she won't tell you?

Don't worry...
Board: Teen Health 07-15-2015, 04:15 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 276
Posted By Kszan
Re: Can I still grow taller at 15?

I remember going to my 10 year high school reunion when all of us were in our late 20s and it seemed to me like all of the boys had gotten much taller than I remembered them being when we graduated....
Board: Relationship Health 07-14-2015, 03:26 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 522
Posted By Kszan
Re: Boyfriend financially supports mother who refuses to work while making fun of my

Well I think in the long run for you that this breakup was for the best. You don't need to put up with a guy who is constantly putting you down cause of your job. I mean you're being a productive...
Board: Relationship Health 07-14-2015, 02:48 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 522
Posted By Kszan
Re: Boyfriend financially supports mother who refuses to work while making fun of my

This is going to be an ongoing problem for him in all of his future relationships. Therefore I wonder if it would be more helpful to him in the long run if you explained to him what the problem is....
Board: Relationship Health 07-07-2015, 04:21 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 384
Posted By Kszan
Re: Relationships of any kind are tougher than going to school

This whole situation sounds completely weird. I don't know why you're even pursuing this. Nine times out of ten, if something seems shady with a person who you encounter online, it turns out it's...
Board: Relationship Health 07-06-2015, 12:57 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 501
Posted By Kszan
Re: My girlfriend

Instead of blaming her for not getting any, you should ask her in more general terms overall about what you both can do to improve the relationship in such a way that both of you can be happy. Or...
Board: Relationship Health 07-06-2015, 12:47 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 224
Posted By Kszan
Re: Disinterested partner after 15 years of marriage

People get bored after being married a long time. It's not that unusual. What you can do is just keep up with your own interests and do fun things with your kids, your friends, your family members....
Board: Birth Control 07-06-2015, 08:37 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 219
Posted By Kszan
Re: weeks of spotting

Yes that's not a surprising outcome at all. I'm sure once your hormones settle down you'll be fine. But for whatever reason some woman can't skip at all or only occasionally but not more than once in...
Board: Relationship Health 06-30-2015, 09:02 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 237
Posted By Kszan
Re: Birth Control and a disinterested man

Long distance relationships never work out anyway, so if that's what this is, you might as well cut your losses. Find someone in your own zip code.
Board: Relationship Health 06-30-2015, 05:47 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 237
Posted By Kszan
Re: Birth Control and a disinterested man

I'm not clear of what your question is. Can you clarify?

Who is this woman to you and why are you concerned with her living situation and her roommate?
Board: Relationship Health 06-25-2015, 08:05 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 417
Posted By Kszan
Re: My boyfriend thinks I am cheating, but I am not

You seem to still think there is something you can do or say that will magically turn him into a loving boyfriend who would never hurt you. Unfortunately for you, that's never going to happen. He has...
Board: Relationship Health 06-23-2015, 08:19 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 417
Posted By Kszan
Re: My boyfriend thinks I am cheating, but I am not

Sounds like my worst nightmare. I'm sorry but I can't in good conscience help encourage you to stay because I think it's a terrible mistake for anyone to stay in an abusive relationship with someone...
Board: Grief & Loss 06-22-2015, 03:40 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 291
Posted By Kszan
Re: Intrusive Thoughts

I'm sorry for your loss. I think what you're going through is a normal situation for someone who is grieving. A similar thing happened to me when my dad passed away. We were all with him at the end...
Board: Relationship Health 06-21-2015, 06:10 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 353
Posted By Kszan
Re: I am 23 and have anxiety issues with realationships

My advice is the same as it was in your other, practically identical thread. If you want something serious, this guy is NOT going to be ready for that for a long time. Either accept the FWB...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 06-20-2015, 12:15 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 395
Posted By Kszan
Re: can i be pregnant or no? i need an answer ASAP

It doesn't matter if it's your first time. If sperm got INside you then pregnancy is possible. If it was only OUTside then you wouldn't get pregnant. I'm not sure where you heard that you can't get...
Board: Relationship Health 06-20-2015, 12:08 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 263
Posted By Kszan
Re: My boyfriend allows me to do anything I want to

You're not compatible. It happens. Instead of doing the wrong thing by continuing to try to provoke him and considering cheating on him, the right thing to do would be to break it off and find...
Board: Relationship Health 06-18-2015, 05:45 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 326
Posted By Kszan
Re: is 3 months too early to get attached to a potential partner

I'm not sure why this should be such a surprise to you. He's still a child who hasn't even had any kind of life experiences yet. Of course he doesn't want a family and kids like all of your older...
Board: Birth Control 06-13-2015, 05:49 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 184
Posted By Kszan
Re: Attempted to skip on Ortho TriCyclen

Whenever you're on a tricyclic birth control such as that one, it doesn't work so well to skip, as you now have learned. It's my understanding that the best way to proceed at this point is to just...
Board: Birth Control 06-13-2015, 01:28 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 164
Posted By Kszan
Re: Mirena IUD still working?

You're SO lucky that you didn't have a period the whole time. Unfortunately, I've had a period regularly the whole time I've had my Mirena. My gyne told me that you can still have a period or...
Board: Birth Control 06-13-2015, 01:25 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 289
Posted By Kszan
Re: Spotting While on Pill

Spotting and breakthrough bleeding are the top most common side effects while being on the pill. Sooner or later, everyone who is on the pill will experience this side effect. It has nothing to do...
Board: Women's Health 06-13-2015, 01:23 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 194
Posted By Kszan
Re: Pregnant

You likely have very little risk of pregnancy since the contact was so brief. However, just a word of caution that if you're going to take Plan B, it is necessary to take it as soon as possible...
Board: Relationship Health 06-12-2015, 06:23 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 461
Posted By Kszan
Re: Long distance relationship husband HANGS UP ON ME whenever something goes wrong

I don't understand why you're fighting so hard to keep this "marriage" going when he has demonstrated time and time again that he does not care. It's not important enough to him to work out a...
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