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Board: Parenting Issues 01-03-2010, 09:25 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 5,363
Posted By dolejaly
Re: My 14yr old girl hit me......

It's hard enough just being a parent and when you got pre-teen and teenagers it gets difficult. I know I look to a lot of my answers of problems remembering how I felt as a teenager back in the...
Board: Relationship Health 11-28-2009, 10:26 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,251
Posted By dolejaly
Re: How to beat guilt trips?

It is not so much that he would deny me the outing, just knowing he has a lot on his plate right now along with me, I don't feel its right nor fair for me to leave and leave him w/ the chaos and...
Board: Relationship Health 11-28-2009, 07:10 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,251
Posted By dolejaly
How to beat guilt trips?

It seems I always put others first especially the "how would they feel" situations.....
Christmas time has always been one that I look forward to w/ my children, but with the way the economy is and...
Board: Heart Disorders 11-25-2009, 06:12 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 35,860
Posted By dolejaly
Re: HELP!!! My heart is going to jump out of my chest...

Just a primary care dr. He didn't seem to concerned so I just kind of deal w/ it. Although heart conditions seem to run in my family more so w/ my mom and aunts/uncles, but due to my pain meds...
Board: Heart Disorders 11-23-2009, 05:53 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 35,860
Posted By dolejaly
Re: HELP!!! My heart is going to jump out of my chest...

Actually I didn't find out anything, I had an ultra sound of the heart and it seemed to come back fine, so they never done any further testing, I still go through the heart palpitations and all, but...
Board: Caregivers 11-22-2009, 09:51 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 8,266
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Behavior of mentaly retarded adults

My son is only 18, far from an adult, but he has behavioral issues along w/ mental retardation...Although it seems very hard right now, but until he feels some what of a bond w/ someone else as he...
Board: Relationship Health 11-22-2009, 09:37 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,690
Posted By dolejaly
Re: my daughter in law walked out on my grandchildren for drugs..what to do?

Yes, that is all I can do. Thanks.....I've tried to respect what ever my son wants to do w/ the whole situation. I don't really apply much advice to him as far as his marriage goes, but what I do...
Board: Relationship Health 11-22-2009, 09:26 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,690
Posted By dolejaly
Re: my daughter in law walked out on my grandchildren for drugs..what to do?

Oh yes definitely they will forgive her, most children do even w/ parents that do much worse to their children. Although I did see she finally made a call in to them yesterday, well my son now has...
Board: Relationship Health 11-22-2009, 09:12 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 9,269
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Getting fed up w/ gf's behaviour

Bottom line is you need to make a decision here and go w/ it....You see all these wrongs in the relationship and you see them keep resurfacing and yet you still ask the same question, what should you...
Board: Relationship Health 11-15-2009, 07:08 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,690
Posted By dolejaly
Re: my daughter in law walked out on my grandchildren for drugs..what to do?

I tried to write a letter to my daughter in law as a response from her initial letter this morning, but by the time I got to the second paragraph I found myself angry and thought it was best I not...
Board: Relationship Health 11-11-2009, 08:20 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,690
Posted By dolejaly
Re: my daughter in law walked out on my grandchildren for drugs..what to do?

I received the letter and so did her two children each one had one from her, well it looks as if she changed the initial letter she was sending to me because the wording was different than I was...
Board: Relationship Health 11-06-2009, 05:42 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,007
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Loving more than one person

I'm not a 100% sure, but to me if your heart belongs to someone else that there wouldn't be a way to possibly give your self fully to another. You may care deeply for that new person, but then you...
Board: Swine Flu (H1N1) 11-06-2009, 05:38 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 931
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Should I be on a antibiotic?

I called my doctor today and described the constant congested and coughing up flem along w/ the nose blowing(thank goodness for puffs plus)...he felt that there was an infection going on in addition...
Board: Relationship Health 11-06-2009, 07:02 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,007
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Loving more than one person

Yes, it can effect a new relationship if you still have deep feelings for the previous one. That is why some say that there should be a break from dating for awhile after you break up w/ someone,...
Board: Swine Flu (H1N1) 11-06-2009, 05:48 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 931
Posted By dolejaly
Should I be on a antibiotic?

I don't know what I have, but I do know since Oct 13 my house has been hit off and on and continuing..My 18 yr old severely disabled child is still down for the count, my 8 yr old daughter is finally...
Board: Relationship Health 11-05-2009, 06:56 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,097
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Dating is not like it use to be

I recently have watched my niece hitting the dating scene and her coming to me for advice for each one she meets, the problem I see her doing is she is going out meeting these men with the intentions...
Board: Relationship Health 11-05-2009, 05:17 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,690
Posted By dolejaly
Re: my daughter in law walked out on my grandchildren for drugs..what to do?

Thank you for your kind words, I feel so bad for the children. The letter should be quite interesting. I am sure at one time or another there has been many moments for parents that just say " I wish...
Board: Death & Dying 11-04-2009, 05:08 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 8,858
Posted By dolejaly
Re: My mom is waiting for something....

Yes, I agree..I just hope for the best for my brother and she takes care of it all as mom wished...
Board: Relationship Health 11-04-2009, 04:55 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,690
Posted By dolejaly
Re: my daughter in law walked out on my grandchildren for drugs..what to do?

That's what I have been trying to do, but I just found out that she has a letter for me and one of the things that is in the letter that She hopes I take good care of her babies that she is done, so...
Board: Relationship Health 11-03-2009, 03:43 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,690
Posted By dolejaly
Re: my daughter in law walked out on my grandchildren for drugs..what to do?

Child welfare won't do anything, it's just a hear say and they said she is out of state. But, my son has contacted the local social services and is pushing child support so he has something to...
Board: Relationship Health 11-01-2009, 08:04 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,690
Posted By dolejaly
my daughter in law walked out on my grandchildren for drugs..what to do?

My son and daughter in law just recently split up and I feel kind of caught in a catch 22 if I speak of what I truly feel to my daughter in law..I will try and make long story short..

My...
Board: Death & Dying 11-01-2009, 07:03 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 8,858
Posted By dolejaly
Re: My mom is waiting for something....

Thank you all for your kind words....I have had several letters from my brother since my mom's passing and he is very hurt he never got to say good bye to our mom. He also understands that some of my...
Board: Relationship Health 10-29-2009, 06:24 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,128
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Just hate my life but need to stay for my kids

Yes, I believe that it's worth trying to see what happens, You have already made some progress by your husband seeing there's a problem and willing to find a solution...So your one step closer than...
Board: Relationship Health 10-28-2009, 08:53 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,128
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Just hate my life but need to stay for my kids

When there is money and kids involved it is hard to make the right choice.

You seem to be asking your husband for permission to be happy by the sounds of it, he won't accept a divorce, he won't...
Board: Parenting Issues 10-28-2009, 06:30 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 1,454
Posted By dolejaly
grandkids and parents break up

My son and his wife recently split up and I have 2 beautiful grandchildren that are now staying w/ me along w/ my son. The kids are 3 & 5(boy & girl)..
When the parents split up they were staying...
Board: Relationship Health 10-26-2009, 08:07 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 9,269
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Getting fed up w/ gf's behaviour

Sometimes it takes more than once to stand up to someone so maybe after a few times she will start to respect some of your feelings as well. As you well know that there will always be disagreements...
Board: Relationship Health 10-25-2009, 09:31 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 9,269
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Getting fed up w/ gf's behaviour

Unfortunately as we all know that their is no picture perfect fairy tale in ANY relationship, regardless of what some might say they have. But, I do agree w/ the other posters here, if something...
Board: Parenting Issues 10-20-2009, 03:55 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 6,763
Posted By dolejaly
Re: teenage son problems!!Advice please!!

Try suggesting that it both of you doing counseling, sometimes we as parents forget that we place some of our stress on our children and react when we see things happening like this, so maybe if he...
Board: Addiction & Recovery 10-09-2009, 03:48 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,361
Posted By dolejaly
Getting clean and lying about it.

I have someone that is very close to me staying w/ relatives right now and is suppose to be getting them self clean, they have a issue w/ narcotic pain meds and anything to get a altercation feeling....
Board: Headaches & Migraines 10-02-2009, 03:42 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 982
Posted By dolejaly
Amerge for migraines????

I've had migraines for years and I finally found a medication that would help fight them off on the on-start, but my insurance won't cover it (go figure)..So the medication was replaced w/ a...
Board: General Health 10-01-2009, 02:23 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 35,906
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Constant aching feeling in the bone in my left arm?

Well my X Ray came back normal and no ruptured discs, so now he has suggested the MRI...So I have yet to set that test up, I just hate the thoughts of being in a closed in place...But, this pain is...
Board: Chronic Pain 10-01-2009, 02:19 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 5,462
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Chronic pain and antidepressants Effexor"

I still yet to try the medication beings I am afraid that I will feel to drugged up and not get my kids up for school in time in the morning, not to mention too far into a deep sleep to awake from...
Board: Chronic Pain 09-29-2009, 04:24 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 5,462
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Chronic pain and antidepressants Effexor"

Over the years my Dr. has tried several anti-depressants on me and I just don't have good luck w/ many of them. I go through total tiredness, can't get out of bed(too drugged up feeling), sickening...
Board: Foot & Ankle Problems 09-28-2009, 12:49 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,897
Posted By dolejaly
Re: anyone have a broken ankle with screws/plates

With my son, which is disabled and does have staff, so the help was there, but......I had to constantly remind them that he can not just jump back up and do things normal, such as walk. He had a...
Board: Foot & Ankle Problems 09-27-2009, 07:32 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,897
Posted By dolejaly
Re: anyone have a broken ankle with screws/plates

My son had a couple of screws and bolts placed into his ankle and feet bones due to reconstructive surgery and didn't have any problems other than the bones did not heal correctly and it had to be...
Board: Chronic Pain 09-27-2009, 07:25 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 5,462
Posted By dolejaly
Chronic pain and antidepressants Effexor"

I went to my doctor a couple of days ago and we discussed anti-depressants again beings we have tried several and the side effects off from each one was keeping me from taking care of my daily...
Board: Chronic Pain 09-27-2009, 07:18 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,269
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Hydrocodone....

When I first started taking vicodin I was on 5/500 and that didn't work so I was jumped up to 750mg and again still wasn't cutting it, so they tried a medication that some didn't know existed it was...
Board: Parenting Issues 09-26-2009, 09:21 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 7,803
Posted By dolejaly
Re: me and my mother have problems

Well beings I can honestly say I have been in your shoes(somewhat)..I moved out at 15 yrs of age. I learned real quick about the real world, luckily i was turning 16 in 3 months of leaving home. No...
Board: Relationship Health 09-26-2009, 08:42 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,566
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Life insurance and long-term relationships?

We had a brief conversation in regards to the life insurance yesterday which confused me, when I told him I am pushing to get the finances taken care of in case anything happens to him I know I can...
Board: General Health 09-26-2009, 08:09 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 35,906
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Constant aching feeling in the bone in my left arm?

Well I just went to the doctors yesterday and he is ordering a x ray on the neck and upper spine, and if he doesn't see much there, he wants a MRI, which was done several years ago and needs done...
Board: Relationship Health 09-24-2009, 06:32 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,566
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Life insurance and longterm relationships?

Yes, I see things very clear and I have not detoured away from my original plan as I wrote in another post. I think this time his actions of not worrying if the people he called his family(which is...
Board: Relationship Health 09-24-2009, 06:23 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,566
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Life insurance and longterm relationships?

Yes, I agree about never depending on someone else, my mom had that same theory. But, because of her theory of even when involved you only hold your own she also just recently died alone. But, I do...
Board: Relationship Health 09-23-2009, 07:18 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,566
Posted By dolejaly
Life insurance and longterm relationships?

I was wondering if this sounds like respect or real love in a long term relationship, but if a couple is together for 2 yrs and struggle through financially together, goes through all the ups and...
Board: Relationship Health 09-22-2009, 06:06 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 4,110
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Was I in the wrong for being upset w/ my partner?

I realize my partner needs his time away w/ friends just as I do and I have even suggested a weekend away w/ his friends from back in his area..Which I don't have a problem with at all, its just my...
Board: Relationship Health 09-21-2009, 07:00 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 4,110
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Was I in the wrong for being upset w/ my partner?

I asked a couple of other males if they thought I was in the wrong and they said the same thing "that I don't trust him"...only because someone else is or is even thinking of cheating does not give...
Board: Relationship Health 09-21-2009, 06:27 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 4,110
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Was I in the wrong for being upset w/ my partner?

My partner expressed to me that just because one person is a certain way doesn't mean that he is like that. That what our staff member does is his personal business and he feels that I don't trust...
Board: Relationship Health 09-20-2009, 08:24 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 4,110
Posted By dolejaly
Was I in the wrong for being upset w/ my partner?

I was wondering if I was in the wrong for getting upset over this situation so any input would be very helpful...

But about a week ago one of my staff members that works for me helping to care of...
Board: Relationship Health 09-17-2009, 08:08 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,371
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Depression!

I'm sorry to hear of your accident, but glad to know that your OK. I was thinking about you the other day beings haven't seen anything posted lately was wondering how your doing.

As far as the...
Board: Relationship Health 09-17-2009, 05:52 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,778
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Rumours about husband cheating...

I agree w/ the other posters here, although you may love your sister and don't want to see her hurt, it is best to just let it go. There are many out there that are able to put something like that...
Board: Relationship Health 09-12-2009, 06:32 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 598
Posted By dolejaly
Re: Past shaping present

Actually it is more common than most think. Both men and woman go through that. As it seems to be that there are some that consider woman and men as (stereotype) and because of actions that are...
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