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Board: Relationship Health 07-21-2016, 10:42 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 330
Posted By Thisby
Re: Should I pay for estranged father's funeral?

I don't know where you live but where I live (Canada), the estate of the deceased person is responsible for paying for the funeral. If he didn't have a will and his 'partner' isn't being recognized...
Board: Pregnancy 04-15-2016, 08:43 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 453
Posted By Thisby
Re: Accuracy of Ultra Sound report in deduction of Fetus Age

It is extremely accurate.
The measurements they can take at that size are very precise and there isn't much variation in fetus size at that point. I would trust it.
Board: Women's Health 03-28-2016, 06:42 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 316
Posted By Thisby
Re: Plan b help worried.

Hi D1992,

Assuming she is regular, she would have ovulated 2 weeks before her due date, which means there wouldn't have been much risk at all. (Eggs are not viable right up until the period...
Board: Women's Health 01-12-2016, 09:46 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 610
Posted By Thisby
Re: Paint in vagina should I be concerned?

It was a year and a half ago? You have nothing to worry about. If any problems were to have developed, it would have happened ages ago. I'm sure the paint is long gone.
Board: Women's Health 01-12-2016, 09:35 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 406
Posted By Thisby
Re: Personal question

There could be a few things causing it. You say you masturbate sporadically, is it possible that you're doing it before you ovulate (it's normal to be more aroused around that time)? If so, what...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 12-16-2015, 09:46 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,028
Posted By Thisby
Re: My bf can't ejaculate inside me ...

Check into what kind of side effect his anti-depressants have. A very common one is 'inability to orgasm' or 'difficulty reaching orgasm'. They often just say "sexual disfunction" and people might...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-11-2015, 07:49 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,071
Posted By Thisby
Re: Arousal issue maybe pn problem

I'm not sure I follow. It's in your mind? Do you actually have an erection too? or are you having orgasms without an erection?

My questions would be: are you on any medication? Have you met...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-11-2015, 07:41 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 713
Posted By Thisby
Re: First time having sex concerns

Good comment, but I wouldn't go so far as to say the 2nd is the best. It's a learning curve as you get to know yourself and your partner. It could take quite a few times before you figure out what...
Board: Relationship Health 12-11-2015, 07:35 AM
Replies: 113
Views: 6,557
Posted By Thisby
Re: Well I shaved my head from balding, pretty sure I am not ever getting married.

I'm thinking that maybe to all the people who've known you with a full head of hair, seeing you bald is just too much of a change and it's a shock. They're not used to it. Give them time.

Board: Birth Control 12-11-2015, 07:18 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 368
Posted By Thisby
Re: Birth control issues

It's most likely the pill causing the lighter period. If you're really worried, take a test to ease your mind, but I doubt that's what's causing it.
Board: Birth Control 12-11-2015, 07:14 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 633
Posted By Thisby
Re: Overly worried?

You have nothing to worry about :)

A few hours is absolutely not going to pose any risk.
Board: Women's Health 10-13-2015, 11:20 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,801
Posted By Thisby
Re: Vaginal tear

Was this your first time having sex? If it was, are you sure it's an actual tear and not just your hymen?

If not, degrees of tears are usually referred to when you've just given birth so I imagine...
Board: Relationship Health 09-09-2015, 05:37 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 630
Posted By Thisby
Re: Toxic friendship?? Please need advice

This is a very toxic relationship for you. The woman is NOT your friend. I could list all the reasons why you should end this non-friendship but I'd basically be reading your post back to you.
Board: Sexual Health - General 09-08-2015, 11:52 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 526
Posted By Thisby
Re: Cannot ejaculate while awake

It doesn't sound like you've exhausted all your options. Trying a blow job once is a good start. And while I'm not encouraging you to have intercourse unless you and your gf are completely ready, you...
Board: Sexual Health - General 09-08-2015, 11:47 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 392
Posted By Thisby
Re: Should I warn any potential mates that my friend has an STD?

It sounds like you're a little too worried about this than you need to be. Everyone who is sexually active is going to get hpv at one point or another.
I think telling the guy is a completely...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 09-05-2015, 01:41 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 426
Posted By Thisby
Re: I'm terrified

Yup!! :)

You shouldn't be worrying AT ALL because:
• What you did can't get you pregnant;
• You've had negative pregnancy tests.

So relax, stop stressing, etc. etc.
Board: Women's Health 09-05-2015, 01:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 404
Posted By Thisby
Re: Yeast infection or std!?!?!?

You didn't indicate if you'd had a new partner or unprotected sex recently, which is usually helpful in figuring it out.

Keep trying to see a doctor because you need to be properly diagnosed. Is...
Board: Open to All Other Health Topics 09-02-2015, 12:08 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 582
Posted By Thisby
Re: how can I get a DNR for myself?

It sounds to me like you don't know what a DNR is used for. I think you should do some more research into exactly what a DNR provides, and remember that there are a range of injuries that you could...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 08-25-2015, 08:36 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 651
Posted By Thisby
Re: Little Confused

I can't say whether he's causing damage to his parts (it can't be good though) but I can definitely say it does not prevent pregnancy.
Board: Sexual Health - General 08-22-2015, 07:46 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,481
Posted By Thisby
Re: Need soo much help!

If your husband's penis was inside your vagina, then you are not a virgin. It has nothing to do with the condition of your hymen or whether you bled or not.

IF your hymen had still been intact...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 08-14-2015, 09:44 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 897
Posted By Thisby
Re: Is something wrong with me?

Hi DPrincess23. Are you saying you have actual orgasms randomly, with no stimulation? I'm also wondering how you would not notice if you are having an orgasm.

If this is correct, that is very...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 07-30-2015, 11:08 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 822
Posted By Thisby
Re: Is it schizophrenia?

I'm not sure he has schizophrenia but he definitely has a mental problem. Are you sure you want to continue dealing with him and his family?

Some of the things you wrote indicate that it isn't a...
Board: Teen Health 07-14-2015, 10:18 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 544
Posted By Thisby
Re: Can I still grow taller at 15?

At only 15, I don't think you are done growing yet, or at least it would be really surprising if you are!

How old was your brother when he stopped growing?
Board: Depression 07-14-2015, 08:33 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 708
Posted By Thisby
Re: Need Physical Touch

I'm sorry you're going through this.

Is it possible to volunteer at a Humane Society? Those little fellas would love the contact too.

I can't really think of anything else....
Board: Relationship Health 07-14-2015, 08:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 711
Posted By Thisby
Re: I am 27 and I am pretty much in sexless relationship

It sounds to me like maybe it's time to end the relationship. You two are not compatible on enough points that it doesn't like like there's much of a relationship worth saving.

You were already...
Board: Relationship Health 07-14-2015, 08:20 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 891
Posted By Thisby
Re: Boyfriend financially supports mother who refuses to work while making fun of my

I think you did the right thing by breaking up with him. It hurts now but in the long run you will be very thankful you did. It was only going to get worse, for sure.

It's possible what you've...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 07-14-2015, 08:08 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 385
Posted By Thisby
Re: Could sperm on condom be a risk?

Hi Ecozone,

It's actually not a stupid question at all. I'm sure you've read now that when that happens, you're supposed to throw out the condom and start again with a new one.

But since you...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 07-14-2015, 08:00 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 386
Posted By Thisby
Re: Herpes ?!?

Hi there,

Burning when you pee isn't a symptom of herpes. Is usually more associated with a urinary tract infection (UTI) or STIs like syphilis or chlamydia. But since you were given antibiotics,...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 07-04-2015, 10:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 548
Posted By Thisby
Re: pregnancy or period symptoms.Freaking out!!

You’re right, some of those facts are a little off. Condoms are very good at preventing pregnancy if they are used properly (98% effective), and it sounds like that’s what you were doing. And that...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 06-30-2015, 09:43 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 610
Posted By Thisby
Re: Frustrated beyond belief!

Sorry to hear about your problem...

You didn't say what the cause of the issue is (if you know).
If you don't know, are you on any kind of medication, anti-depressants?
Board: Relationship Health 06-23-2015, 09:47 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 567
Posted By Thisby
Re: My boyfriend thinks I am cheating, but I am not

I'm so sorry you're going through this.

I hate to say it but I this is actually evidence of a mental problem or a personality disorder and there isn't anything you can do about it. He will...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 06-23-2015, 12:41 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 486
Posted By Thisby
Re: I'm scared please help

Oh! So you had sex already after your period was late? Had you done anything prior to that that might have gotten you pregnant?

Are your periods usually very regular?
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 06-23-2015, 06:05 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 486
Posted By Thisby
Re: I'm scared please help

If the condom was used correctly, then the chances of you getting pregnant are very very slim. Try not to stress and just wait for your period. IF your period is late, then you can take a pregnancy...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 06-21-2015, 01:46 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 997
Posted By Thisby
Re: It hurts pretty bad!

Was the pain related to him breaking your hymen? That can be pretty painful for some women. If not, where was the pain?
Board: Sexual Health - Women 06-21-2015, 01:44 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,148
Posted By Thisby
Re: Can anyone tell?

Hi 123rose,

If you have thrush, you should probably get it treated. Scratching or rubbing it doesn't solve the actual problem, just temporarily relieves the itch.

As for damaging yourself of...
Board: Pregnancy-Teen 06-19-2015, 10:37 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 595
Posted By Thisby
Re: can i be pregnant or no? i need an answer ASAP

It's probably too late for emergency contraceptive pills then, they're usually only good up to about 72 hours after the event and then get less effective.

As for it being your first time, that...
Board: Sexual Health - Teens 06-16-2015, 05:56 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 601
Posted By Thisby
Re: severe burning after sex

Hi lejeunenatalie. It does sound like a UTI so you should see a doctor and have it treated asap. (If it's gotten that bad, it's not going to go away on its own, unfortunately).

To prevent them in...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 06-06-2015, 06:51 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 468
Posted By Thisby
Re: Trying to conceive

It doesn't matter what position you're in when you ejaculate, or if you are fully hard or not. What matters is that your semen ends up near her cervix and that she not sit or stand up for a while.
Board: Sexual Health - General 06-06-2015, 06:49 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 716
Posted By Thisby
Re: Husband won't believe me

Roxcyn asks a good question. Is it a matter of him being jealous? Masturbating is not the same as cheating but he may feel like it is so maybe he needs to understand that they are very different...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 05-27-2015, 10:22 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 494
Posted By Thisby
Re: Dating someone with dysthymia

I don't think it's a matter of 'throwing him aside' because he's 'broken' but rather of determining if you two are compatible for the long term and I'm not sure it sounds like you are. This...
Board: Relationship Health 05-25-2015, 05:26 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 648
Posted By Thisby
Re: I resent my boyfriend

Staying with someone because you've already invested so much into them is not a good reason to stay. It's like that saying 'throwing good money after bad'.

Cut your losses and move on. You'll...
Board: Relationship Health 05-25-2015, 05:13 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 680
Posted By Thisby
Re: Boyfriend "needs" to have sex with other women

He does know how to masturbate, doesn't he? Why does he think he has to use other women for release when he has perfectly good hands?

I'm glad to hear he's going to try to be faithful, but I get...
Board: Women's Health 05-25-2015, 05:04 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 791
Posted By Thisby
Re: Skin Growths on Vagina

If they are even and regular in size and distribution, then they are probably normal bumps. Could they Fordyce spots? Warts are hard and sit on top of the skin.

As for the skin, could it be a...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 05-20-2015, 10:54 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,877
Posted By Thisby
Re: Masturbation anxiety

I would say yes, you are over reacting. Of course, if the dish towel was filthy, then it's possible, but I wouldn't be too worried about it.

I would be more worried that you're using something...
Board: Sexually Transmitted Diseases 05-17-2015, 11:19 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 519
Posted By Thisby
Re: Penis bumps

Are they just under the skin and pop-able? If they are, then they are most likely whiteheads. But if they are on top of the skin, and more like little cauliflower heads and not at all pop-able, then...
Board: Relationship Health 05-17-2015, 11:09 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 622
Posted By Thisby
Re: I don't know how to deal with my extremely moody boyfriend

I imagine you were hoping people would suggest ways to deal with your boyfriend that would top is bad behavior, not just tell you to leave him.

The trouble is, when you're dealing with someone...
Board: Pregnancy 05-13-2015, 11:00 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 696
Posted By Thisby
Re: 5 hrs air travel during 9 week pregnancy stage

Hi Joosaf,

There are no doctors posting on these boards, just other members.

The best thing would be for your wife to see a doctor who can examine her and make sure she is safe for travel. No...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 05-01-2015, 12:56 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 697
Posted By Thisby
Re: I Get An Erection From Everything 20+ Daily?

HI Daniel4489,

I know nothing from personal experience, but I have read a lot and you actually sound pretty normal!

Bob's advice is good. The only other thing I can think of is that you didn't...
Board: Pregnancy 04-27-2015, 03:50 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,365
Posted By Thisby
Re: When did I conceive?

Ah. Based on the fact that you only said you had intercourse on Feb 21, the logical conclusion is that that's when you got pregnant. You never said you had intercourse since then. (We only know what...
Board: Sexual Health - Women 04-27-2015, 07:26 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,059
Posted By Thisby
Re: partner cant orgasm with me PLEASE HELP.

I agree that the issue is more likely hers than yours. I dug up your old thread it does sound like she has issues. A successful sex life depends on both partners being able to be honest with each...
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