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Board: Sexual Health - General 02-21-2017, 08:09 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 177
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Major issues in our sex life.. Help..

that's not a good enough reason to stay in a relationship where your needs are not being met......think about it
Board: Sexual Health - General 02-21-2017, 07:58 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 177
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Major issues in our sex life.. Help..

if he's calling you names, it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. I would think about your options if I were you.....shutting down your sex drive doesn't sound like a reasonable one.
Board: Death & Dying 02-21-2017, 07:57 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 174
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Guilt about my Mum's death

I'm so sorry for your loss and also for your feelings of guilt. I'm sure your mom knew that you loved her. Guilt is one of the steps of grieving, it happens to everyone, so what you're feeling is...
Board: Sexual Health - General 02-21-2017, 07:49 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 177
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Major issues in our sex life.. Help..

are you sure you want to stay with him?
he seems rather controlling and selfish.....
Board: Depression 02-16-2017, 10:50 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 255
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Blah

I'm glad you have some cats and chickens that you enjoy! I understand what you mean about groups of people you don't know! I'm an introvert also and don't like to go outside my comfort zone. Could...
Board: Headaches & Migraines 02-16-2017, 10:05 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 178
Posted By rosequartz
Re: My mom is really suffering - please help.

sorry to hear your mom is suffering like this! Has she considered trying botox? I know someone who has had really good luck with botox! It gets rid of the migraines and as a perk it gets rid of...
Board: Depression 02-16-2017, 07:10 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 255
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Blah

no you are not right! you aren't old, unworthy or unloveable! I like the suggestion of a pet, they give unconditional love and give us a reason to get up in the morning, they want breakfast! How...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 02-15-2017, 12:45 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 419
Posted By rosequartz
Re: getting rid of a sociopath - how to do?

I will look into that book also, thanks!
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 02-15-2017, 11:25 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 419
Posted By rosequartz
Re: getting rid of a sociopath - how to do?

interesting book suggestion, I looked it up just now and see it is regarding narcissism, which I do have a little knowledge of.....I attract them for sure.
I read malignant self-love by Sam Vaknin...
Board: Depression 02-15-2017, 08:58 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 267
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Nowhere to put myself "out there"

maybe you can't afford the cruise, but singles dances are usually free or not that expensive
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 02-15-2017, 06:54 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 419
Posted By rosequartz
Re: getting rid of a sociopath - how to do?

I'm sure this is from my mom.....I read the book co-dependent no more and gave it to her to read. I know she is passive aggressive and sometimes I get so mad at her and yell at her to stand up for...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 02-14-2017, 09:06 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 419
Posted By rosequartz
Re: getting rid of a sociopath - how to do?

Seraph - I know that he will find someone to help him, you're right, these types always do. He uses people until he uses them up and then moves on to the next one. And you're probably right, I'm...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 02-13-2017, 02:20 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 419
Posted By rosequartz
Re: getting rid of a sociopath - how to do?

and no he hasn't given me any gas money......but he still owes me some money from January when his landlord was going to throw him out. I gave him some money for the rent he was behind. He pays me...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 02-13-2017, 02:17 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 419
Posted By rosequartz
Re: getting rid of a sociopath - how to do?

his answer was to call into work and ask for a leave of absence......for what? how is that going to help you get a car? If you don't have income you won't get the car and you will lose your job...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 02-13-2017, 12:49 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 419
Posted By rosequartz
Re: getting rid of a sociopath - how to do?

he absolutely has brought this on himself, all his problems, and he dug himself a good hole this time without having a car he will lose his job. I am willing to take him in the morning to work and...
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 02-13-2017, 10:36 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 419
Posted By rosequartz
getting rid of a sociopath - how to do?

in a relationship with a guy who fits the description of a sociopath. I'm not happy, but am having a hard time getting rid of him because I feel guilty that he is so pathetic and helpless. Also he...
Board: Eye & Vision 02-10-2017, 08:59 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 121
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Eyes swell after crying

do you rub your eyes? If you rub your eyes they may swell more. How about trying one of those eye masks that you can put in the freezer to chill?
Board: Family & Friends of Addicts and Alcoholics 02-10-2017, 07:20 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 285
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Has my boyfriend relapsed?

your gut is telling you something.....it's usually best to listen to it.
In my opinion your gut is right.....I believe he's hiding something, and that something is that he is using again. Maybe you...
Board: Lymphomas 02-09-2017, 08:21 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 234
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Leaking groin lump???

I'm thinking cyst or ingrown hair
have you tried hot compresses or soaking in a tub with Epsom salts?
Board: Shoulder / Rotator Cuff Problems 02-08-2017, 06:38 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 191
Posted By rosequartz
injured from push-up

I was doing pushups, the kind where you put your elbows out (it's supposed to work your tricep better), last summer and something "twinged" in pain in my arm. Now I cannot bend my arms in that...
Board: Sleep Disorders 02-08-2017, 06:34 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 440
Posted By rosequartz
Re: I need help with my sleep ... I sleep way too much.

FYI diet coke has a lot of caffeine! I used to be able to drink regular coke any time and still sleep, but now I have to cut off in the afternoon or I have a hard time falling asleep. I think diet...
Board: Parenting Issues 02-06-2017, 12:49 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 275
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Needs constant cuddles at 10. Normal or not?

how can this not affect your relationship? she will get worse when she gets older. I knew a daddys girl who insisted on sitting on her dads lap up thru her late 20's.....it was very uncomfortable...
Board: Parenting Issues 02-06-2017, 10:42 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 275
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Needs constant cuddles at 10. Normal or not?

so now he's done his part and it goes on status quo......
I had a similar situation when I was dating a man with a daughter.....that relationship ended. The daughter is manipulating him.....so now...
Board: Parenting Issues 02-06-2017, 09:29 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 275
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Needs constant cuddles at 10. Normal or not?

I don't think you are over-thinking things.......I think this is just the beginning of a problem......I think it will get worse over time. Have you mentioned your feelings to your fiancé?
Board: Depression 02-06-2017, 08:14 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 245
Posted By rosequartz
Re: What are we doing wrong?

look up the characteristics of a sociopath. They are very charming and manipulative and sometimes irresponsible. I'm dealing with one now and I wish I would have known sooner......
Board: Relationship Health 02-02-2017, 09:52 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 561
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Beside myself with guilt and anxiety

I'm sorry you're dealing with either deadbeat family members, or just people who can't get out of their own mess......
It's best to stick to your guns, help when and if you can but don't take them...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 02-02-2017, 07:55 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 508
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Guys and girls oral sex

heres another thing to consider....regarding faking....
maybe regular sex doesn't bring her to orgasm and that's why the oral is even that much more important for her.....
stop holding back! you...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 02-01-2017, 03:54 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 508
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Guys and girls oral sex

interesting....you might not be on board for a relationship if you have to give more oral sex than you receive.....I have never heard that one before.....
A lot of guys love doing it.....maybe you...
Board: Sexual Health - Men 02-01-2017, 01:40 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 508
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Guys and girls oral sex

why can't you give as often as you get? What's your reasoning?
From what you wrote it sounds like you think you just "deserve" more because you pay the mortgage......
Board: Relationship Health 01-31-2017, 03:30 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 239
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Stay happily stagnant, or take a chance?

I really don't see where he lied.....he just didn't volunteer information that he was just getting out of a relationship, he just said he wasn't in a place to date, which was probably true. I'd give...
Board: Women's Health 01-30-2017, 06:55 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 351
Posted By rosequartz
Re: CIN 3 on ECC only. Twice

I know and they will probably want to do another one!
that's why I'm suggesting cryotherapy as an alternative
Board: Relationship Health 01-27-2017, 03:47 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 289
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Mixed Feelings and Confusion on YM flirting

he can sense that you are a kindred spirit......don't make too much out of it.....
Board: Women's Health 01-27-2017, 03:43 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 351
Posted By rosequartz
Re: CIN 3 on ECC only. Twice

ask your doctor about cryotherapy......I had it for CIN 3 over 30 years ago and it worked and it's much safer than the LEEP
Board: Death & Dying 01-25-2017, 07:21 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 682
Posted By rosequartz
Re: I can't let go of a love interest?

it almost seems to me that he may have been a little bit manipulative.....the comment about forgetting about him.....what do you think?
manipulative.....depressed......
Board: Death & Dying 01-24-2017, 07:31 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 682
Posted By rosequartz
Re: I can't let go of a love interest?

you're going thru the stages of grief.......guilt is one of them.....
don't beat yourself up.
Board: Shyness 01-24-2017, 07:28 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 477
Posted By rosequartz
Re: What's wrong with me?

introverts need time to themselves to recharge their batteries and when they are around too many people they get drained. They prefer one on one interactions

extroverts gain energy by being...
Board: Shyness 01-23-2017, 03:04 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 477
Posted By rosequartz
Re: What's wrong with me?

yes.....you are an introvert! There is nothing wrong with you!
Board: Death & Dying 01-23-2017, 08:32 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 682
Posted By rosequartz
Re: I can't let go of a love interest?

terribly sad......whatever pain he was in, he is out of now.....
that's a small bit of comfort....I'm sorry again.
Board: Death & Dying 01-23-2017, 08:23 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 682
Posted By rosequartz
Re: I can't let go of a love interest?

do you know what he died from? are you going to a service?
sharing your feelings with others who cared for him would help too
Board: Relationship Health 01-23-2017, 08:21 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 253
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Friend refuses to leave abusive partner

no you're no callous.....it's called self preservation.
When you start stressing and worrying about someone elses situation and trying to solve problems they aren't willing to, it takes a toll on...
Board: Death & Dying 01-23-2017, 08:18 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 682
Posted By rosequartz
Re: I can't let go of a love interest?

don't beat yourself up.....I'm sure he knew you cared
Board: Relationship Health 01-23-2017, 07:39 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 253
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Friend refuses to leave abusive partner

I'm sorry your friend won't make the right choices......he's beaten her down so badly she feels she just can't. It's sad, and I feel bad for her but at some point you start losing respect for them...
Board: Relationship Health 01-23-2017, 07:34 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 283
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Boyfriend wants me to pay him back?!

I'm wondering if either one of you is mature enough and responsible enough to be self-sufficient?
you feel entitled to be taken care of by a man who is in your words "using mommys credit cards"...
Board: Death & Dying 01-23-2017, 07:30 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 682
Posted By rosequartz
Re: I can't let go of a love interest?

I'm so sorry for your loss. Was his death sudden? Was he sick? Was it unexpected?
What might help you is to write a letter to him.....write down everything you wish you would have said to him and...
Board: Relationship Health 01-20-2017, 09:42 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 372
Posted By rosequartz
Re: My Boyfriend is lying to me. Advice?

first of all she was pursuing him.....it didn't sound like he took the bait....
he probably didn't tell you because he knew he didn't do anything wrong and wasn't going to pursue it any...
Board: Relationship Health 01-16-2017, 09:46 AM
Replies: 45
Views: 1,855
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Dating issue - need male and female opinions

just chalk it up and move on.....if you're out there dating, this won't be the first time that you run into someone disingenuous......
like the movie/book......"he's just not that into you"
don't...
Board: Relationship Health 01-12-2017, 02:21 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 253
Posted By rosequartz
Re: My sister's abusive marriage

as they say you can bring a horse to water........
if she's not willing to drink, what can you do?
Board: Relationship Health 01-10-2017, 11:19 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 601
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Is money a deal-breaker?

I think you're making the right choice......what does he have to say about it?
Board: Relationship Health 01-10-2017, 09:48 AM
Replies: 45
Views: 1,855
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Dating issue - need male and female opinions

I wouldn't respond at all, or if you do wait 10 days....;)
Board: Family & Friends of the Mentally Ill 12-28-2016, 03:33 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 246
Posted By rosequartz
Re: Help.

please reconsider getting her pregnant......
she has enough stress in her life as it is and that will complicate things immensely
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