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Old 09-30-2011, 06:52 PM   #16
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Re: help me i cant help me

my favrot class is geography no one there knows about the things i had meeting for a year with the school talk to person and she failed to pick up on anything school is good genraly and i can onaly talk to the voice not the things they are kind off sperat but joined the voice is the one that warned me about going to anyone but it also tells them about what im doing as well as telling me about what there doing but i have to trust the voice to find out what there doing

 
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Old 09-30-2011, 08:00 PM   #17
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Do you hear voices and have your "things" and they join one another? Is it calming at any time. My one voice is calming the other very loud and vulgar. Does your mom or dad know about this. It must be scary at times. I was bad at geography but good in biology and math. I loved school and loved reading but don't read anymore because I can't comprehend it. Only short things like this stuff and letters. Can you tell me more about your voices and thing you see. I wish you could get on medicine. You'd see a world of difference. Write back

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Old 10-01-2011, 03:14 AM   #18
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the voice is separate from the things but it helps them and me my mum and dad dont know but some people at school are beginning to think that something is wrong they have herd me sleep talking all i say is stay away from me over and over im talking to the things because i know there there but i have not told them this

 
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You really should try to tell your parents. This is too heavy of a burden to carry alone. And how long has this been going on? Along with the nightmares. It must be very scary for you. So you don't want to go to the doctors? I really want to help you all I can. Just tell me about yourself and about your things if you want. I'd like to hear your story.

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Old 10-01-2011, 11:16 AM   #20
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it started when i was 13 the nightmares started when i was 15 and i will ask the voice if my parents are helping the things if they are not then i will tell them but otherwise i wont as the things will hurt me if they find out that i have told someone who can do something to get rid of them

 
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Sorry it took so long to reply but I was out. So there is a possibability you can tell your mom and dad? Can you go to the doctor for the voices only and leave your things out of it? You do relize you need some help. right? I wish I can take it all away from you. But back to school. How are you doing in class? What is your least favorite subject? Who is your favorite teacher and what subject does she teach. Any Hobbies, sports? Tell me. Take care

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Old 10-02-2011, 02:08 AM   #22
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the voice has said that they are helping them i will ask it about the doctors but i think it will say no as it is my onaly way to find out what the things are doing i dont realy have a least favrout subject as im doing a levels but my grades have droped allot since the things found out i was trying to get rid of them my favrout teacher is called mr williams he dose enviromental studies

 
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I've been dealing with non-suicidal self injury for eight years now.

I have over two thousand cuts on my body, though I learned quickly to avoid the conversation and explanations by just cutting my legs.

I'm not a doctor or a councilor, though I can only help by asking you to please look inside and ask yourself if it is honestly a cry for help, or if the act of cutting itself is releasing a deeper pain you're experiencing emotionally. Sometimes a cut can really calm the body down from a heavy emotional experience, and I couldn't say it's any better or worse than a heavy night of drinking; though a deep enough cut on your arm could cause extreme irreparable damage.

Please don't cut as an act of vanity or attention, cutting yourself is not a tattoo, it's not a fashion statement, and I only say this because of how much you've cut in such a short time. If the underlying problem is serious enough you're cutting that quickly, the problem isn't an ongoing constant, it seems to be an extreme present.

Some who are new to non-suicidal self injury find a pleasure in having the world know they're troubled, but there is always going to be a way out.

Let your wounds heal before you cut again; and try to be that close friend to yourself, that you may not have in someone else.

See a friend, a parent, or best yet a psychologist, one who can focus on the root of the problem without an ulterior motive to sell you prescription drugs. A general doctor could help, though talk-therapy is not their specialty unless they're familiar with you and your family/history.

Then again, I've only ever learned from experience.

 
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Mind you, you're not entirely wrong in your paranoia. Whether voices or 'things' seek attention internally from you in order to prevent you from telling someone, it's likely yourself, you inner self, concerned over the expectations others have for you, as you may be letting them down, and it is a possiblity you could not be living up to expectations from your general audience. If you seek medical professionals, they will make a note of your case. They will try and put you on medications. You may even need those medications.

You may also just need a close friend you can talk to, a balanced diet, and a better understanding of yourself and how you're just a bit different from the others, and that's not always taught in boarding school.

Please just remember to take a deep breath before life gets so deep. Go for a walk, drink a glass of cold water.. write out your troubles and tear up the paper. there are thousands of ways to nurse yourself into a better mentality; and we're not all destined to live on prescription drugs.

I'm thinking good thoughts for ya babe

 
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i dont cut because i want to i cut because they make me when they touch me my skin burns i mean it litraly catches fire and the onaly way to stop it is with cutting this is how the things make me cut

 
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Comablack thanks on your replies. I am hoping Asteral will get just one thing out of you, I'd be happy. As you know he say his things will hurt him, killhim if he seeks help. I take most of this serious since I hear voices and know how frightening it is. Please post again.

 
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the voice can help me some times but it also can help them

 
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the voice has said that they are helping them i will ask it about the doctors but i think it will say no as it is my onaly way to find out what the things are doing i dont realy have a least favrout subject as im doing a levels but my grades have droped allot since the things found out i was trying to get rid of them my favrout teacher is called mr williams he dose enviromental studies
This is a weird request. You and your things can only exists with each other. Can you come to an understanding on how to get along with each other? By the way, what grrade are you in, and any hobbies?

 
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im in 6th form and i like hockey i will talk to the voice it may or may not decide to help me we will see

 
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I thought you were in the 9th or 10th grade. the 6th is good too. Be persusive on the help with the voices. Its important. It is so scary. Do you like card collecting or skateboarding? Hockey is cool I bet your good at it!

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