Re: new, 40+, lost
Good for you, get ******, use me as your person to be ****** at! I'll be that all freakin day if it'll get you where you need to be. I know how you feel cuz i've been there....tried to go to the wrong person, and I lost a really good friend and got burned in the process. So yeah, I don't pull this stuff out of the air....if it takes me making you mad to get you to look deep in, see what you know and act on it, no skin off my back, I'm good. You hold on to that anger, use it to fight off the panic and answer the phone when that pdoc calls you...and you keep your dr. friend for exactly what he is...a friend. If they were equipped to do it all it would be one thing, and alot of them think they are, but they just don't know what they're getting into...and they can't handle it 9 times out of 10....we lie, we hurt, we tell them to go screw themselves when they get to close to the truth (or I do) and we need a pdoc that can deal with that....that's what they do, it's their job and if they're any good at it, they help us and don't get their feelings hurt in the process...or panic because they don't have a clue what to do with us or how to get us to stop hurting ourselves.
So, I'm still here.....answer that phonecall girl...you are on the right track and you can do this....