samba22

Last nite I had my first experience with Viagra (V) and I must say I was pleasantly surprised. I am in a new relationship (we're crazy about each other) and last night was our first lovemaking session. I was quite apprehensive about the whole thing, since over most of my life (I'm 50) I've had pretty disappointing results during my first time with a new partner. (After the first time or so I was usually OK...Performance anxiety?)

Anyway, a few months ago I visited a Dr. about what I thought might be ED or severe performance anxiety. He prescribed V, but I never used it, since at the time I was in a very unhappy relationship that was rapidly phasing out. There was no sex at that point.

Well, a month ago I met an amazing woman and we are head over heels for each other. Last night turned out to be *the night*. I wasn't sure we were going to be intimate so I didn't just take the V, but I took it with me just in case. We went out to dinner about 8pm (drank some sake and ate some Japanese food), went back to her place (drank a few glasses of wine there)...and then things really got heated up. At that point I was kicking myself 'cuz knew if I took the V I was not giving it enough time to effectively get in my system, but I went for it anyway, taking about 75mg (chewed it up and let it melt under my tongue).

We proceeded to some very heavy foreplay (she's VERY passionate), and it was all I could do to keep those nagging self doubts of perfomance anxiety under control.

To make a long story short, we wound up making great love for a good long while, actually in 2 separate sessions (about an hr apart). There were a couple of periods in there where I was not as hard as I wanted to be, but I didn't panic, and lo and behold my erection came back, although not *steel hard* as many on this board have described.

I don't know whether the V was doin' it's thing or not, since I violated 2 of the taboos of V use: 1] I didn't take it on an empty stomach ,and, 2] I did not allow the 1/2 hr -1 hr for it to get in my system fully.

Nevertheless, I am VERY happy with the results and am eager to try it again...this time taking it on an empty stomach and also allowing V more time to act. I bet the results will be even better.

I've read repeatedly on this board that V will not help performance anxiety -- I have to disagree with that because I really don't think there's much wrong with my "plumbing"...I just occassionally need a jump start.

Is this the placebo effect?...maybe but if it's workin' I don't care. It's nice knowin' V is on my side if I need it.

If this scenario I described rings a bell with you I urge you to give V a try. You may be in for a nice surprise! Good luck all!