Re: advice wanted
Chad - I am 36 and I have had venous Leakage all my life, I have never seen my Penis 100% errect at best I seen it 70%. I didnt know what was wrong untill 4 years ago I had an ultra sound and found I had Venous Leakage, full story here--.> http://www.healthboards.com/boards/showthread.php?t=716367
Here is what I suggest since you are young and know you have Venous Leakage.
Exhaust all you options, Vigra, Trimix, Vacum Pumps, **** rings, Hormone shots etc
Then take a serious look into Penis implant. I used all my options and when they all failed I got an AMS Implant. I'm currently @ my 2 Weeks Post OP 2day and I can say My mental state has Change Drastically. I had no idea how much weight I was carrying until I had my surgery. As a man this diseases affect you physically and mentally and affect you in life. You may also want to look into antidepressant Trazdone to help deal with ED and hoping the side effect Prolong erection would help with Leakage.
But the short answer is tell her you was Born with Venous Leakage and You hoping she can help you get threw it, explain to her what it is and how it works so she can have some understanding. Some women will understand and sympathies and work with you some will get frustrated or blame them selfs and will not help. In the end whats important is you working to solve your issue so you can have peace of mine. Because when they dont understand out there you have us, and we understand and relate.