Yes, conventional medicine does not seem to have an answer or rather a cure for this. While a cure implies a long term solution, urologists are offering ways to 'get by'. My doctor also advised a **** ring too....I've heard they are effective for people with classic venous leak, i.e. guys who get a full blooded erection but cannot hold it. I haven't tried it yet....
They guy who was doing my penile doppler test suggested the mind connection too. According to him high levels of anxiety will cause inadequate smooth muscle relaxation - If there is anxiety in your system which is acute in nature, it will 'add' to the problem. I doubt it if it can be the cause of it however. The was I see it....it will make a 4 into a 6.
However there is a lot of shooting in the dark with this issue....docs and patients alike don't know much about this problem.
I remember I never had a problem as a kid/teenager/young adult....In fact the problem was opposite....it was hiding the boners
Kind of ironical, isn't it.
My plan of action is this....
- I will have sex assisted by medicines (which unfortunately don't work that well right now because I have prostatitis.)
- Meanwhile find an 'alternative' solution to this damn thing. I've basically exhausted answers provided by Western medicine, i.e. Viagra etc. I don't intend to graduate to pumps etc. Since there is no cure or permanent answer to this in conventional medicine, I'd at least like to try other things - possibly chinese or Indian.
Keep in touch....let me know what you are thinking.