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Old 11-06-2003, 10:53 PM   #1
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Question 1 night stand ??

Is it out of the ordinary for a man to ask the woman he is having sex with to tell him what and how she wants everything done to her the first time you have sex??
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Old 11-07-2003, 09:08 AM   #2
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No question!! Communication is so important for both parties.

Old 11-07-2003, 10:13 PM   #3
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"Is it out of the ordinary"? From my experience, yes.
So if a man does ask, consider yourself lucky. Of course, if he doesn't, and still get's it right, consider yourself EXTREMEly lucky

In a perfect world, we'd all instinctively know exactly what we have to do to please our new partners, til then, we'll have to rely on actually asking and telling. I think if a man's willing to ask, he's willing to please, so good for him.

Old 11-09-2003, 06:48 PM   #4
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I dont know if it's unusual but I think a woman would be pleased if her lover was concerned enough about pleasuring her in a way that she really enjoyed regardless of whether it was the first time they were having sex or sometime later in the relationship.

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You will know inmediately, according to hers reply. so ask kindly and gently and wait for hers reply, then act accordingly

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