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Old 11-09-2003, 05:37 AM   #1
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Widening?

What exactly makes the vaginal hole widen? Do hormones help this? I am worried I have low sex hormone levels, is there anyway to find out without going to a doctor? I always seem to be really tight no matter how relaxed I am

 
Old 11-09-2003, 02:26 PM   #2
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hi jemgaz, hormones will not help you to have a wider vagina Avbout you being low in hormones, you sholud care if you do not have well developed breasts, your periods extremely unregular, you have more hair in your shin whats is normal for a girl of your age, etc.

As you are a beginer in sex matter give time to your body to accomodate to the new activities you ar facing, and mainly be patient. In two or three month you will allow you partner all the way in with no pain. Sorry for being a bit crude, good luck

 
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Old 11-10-2003, 10:07 AM   #3
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I'm a male but it is a bessing to be tight that's a good thing but from now on start taking notice to what size fits comfortably don't get with guys that are too big cause some day you'll be getting a hystorectomy and wondering why am I having this so young but learn what's your size meaning everyone know the majority of penis's will fit and you will hear all the crap about a baby comes out of there but in reality child birth is a process that takes place with dialating certain cm then evetually going back to your normal vaginal size so just try some k-y jelly or some other kinda lubricant but if this guy is too big for youhe's just too big there is a such thing as a penis being too big but it depends on your vaigina size and what you like to fell but my wife tells me all the time if she was go to have sex with some and the guys was too big for her she would say know because it's no sense in something so wonderful turning into something so painful you understand what I'm saying your stuff[vagina] is your treasure don't just let a man be as rough as he wants to be stop him and let him know how it's going to be or it won't be at all you feel what I'm saying now but good luck ok and tell him to go in easy cause it sounds like he's too big for you but tell him to use the lube and go in eazy your vagina should open up slowy might take a few minutes but this is what he has to do to get in if he wants you seually ok bye

 
Old 11-10-2003, 08:50 PM   #4
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I'm a male but it is a bessing to be tight that's a good thing but from now on start taking notice to what size fits comfortably don't get with guys that are too big cause some day you'll be getting a hystorectomy and wondering why am I having this so young but learn what's your size meaning everyone know the majority of penis's will fit and you will hear all the crap about a baby comes out of there but in reality child birth is a process that takes place with dialating certain cm then evetually going back to your normal vaginal size so just try some k-y jelly or some other kinda lubricant but if this guy is too big for youhe's just too big there is a such thing as a penis being too big but it depends on your vaigina size and what you like to fell but my wife tells me all the time if she was go to have sex with some and the guys was too big for her she would say know because it's no sense in something so wonderful turning into something so painful you understand what I'm saying your stuff[vagina] is your treasure don't just let a man be as rough as he wants to be stop him and let him know how it's going to be or it won't be at all you feel what I'm saying now but good luck ok and tell him to go in easy cause it sounds like he's too big for you but tell him to use the lube and go in eazy your vagina should open up slowy might take a few minutes but this is what he has to do to get in if he wants you seually ok bye

just have to ask. who choses a partner by the size of his penis? ("don't get with guys that are too big"?. Also, what about a hyterectomy and being loose???

 
Old 11-11-2003, 12:14 AM   #5
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It definitely is a good thing that you're "tight." Us women do kegal exercises to become tighter. Like a former poster said, be concerned that you are hormonally imbalanced only if you are irregular, etc. since they were right in saying that vaginal tightness/looseness has nothing to do with hormones, but muscles instead. If it is uncomfortable having sex, lubricants are AMAZING for easing that problem. Good luck.

 
Old 11-14-2003, 06:43 AM   #6
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I'm a male but it is a bessing to be tight that's a good thing but from now on start taking notice to what size fits comfortably don't get with guys that are too big cause some day you'll be getting a hystorectomy and wondering why am I having this so young but learn what's your size meaning everyone know the majority of penis's will fit and you will hear all the crap about a baby comes out of there but in reality child birth is a process that takes place with dialating certain cm then evetually going back to your normal vaginal size so just try some k-y jelly or some other kinda lubricant but if this guy is too big for youhe's just too big there is a such thing as a penis being too big but it depends on your vaigina size and what you like to fell but my wife tells me all the time if she was go to have sex with some and the guys was too big for her she would say know because it's no sense in something so wonderful turning into something so painful you understand what I'm saying your stuff[vagina] is your treasure don't just let a man be as rough as he wants to be stop him and let him know how it's going to be or it won't be at all you feel what I'm saying now but good luck ok and tell him to go in easy cause it sounds like he's too big for you but tell him to use the lube and go in eazy your vagina should open up slowy might take a few minutes but this is what he has to do to get in if he wants you seually ok bye

off topic here, but what does a hysterectomy have to do with anything? do you know what a hysterectomy is? it has nothing to do with the vagina and its looseness or lack thereof, it has to do with the uterus.
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Old 11-14-2003, 02:17 PM   #7
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babygrant, for your knowledge an Hysterectomy is when surgically your utherus is removed, due to many illnes can affect that part of women's body. Usually hysterectomy is made at age of 40 to 60 y/o in women who suffer of tumors, cystes or have some risk of getting utheral cancer. When is removed women becomes steril for ever. In many cases ovaries are left in place to diminish problems with femenine hormeones This off topic in this board, is just for your knowledge.

 
Old 11-14-2003, 09:42 PM   #8
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babygrant, for your knowledge an Hysterectomy is when surgically your utherus is removed, due to many illnes can affect that part of women's body. Usually hysterectomy is made at age of 40 to 60 y/o in women who suffer of tumors, cystes or have some risk of getting utheral cancer. When is removed women becomes steril for ever. In many cases ovaries are left in place to diminish problems with femenine hormeones This off topic in this board, is just for your knowledge.
I KNOW what a hysterectomy is but was wondering what a hysterectomy had to do with looseness!

Angela

 
Old 11-15-2003, 11:33 AM   #9
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Sorry Angela. Idid'nt want to give you a lecture. Fortunately there is no relation with hysterctomy and widening. Oavoid widening women should try Kegel exercises

 
Old 11-15-2003, 02:38 PM   #10
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Being aroused helps your vagina to open a bit more to accommodate the penis. Maybe what you need is more foreplay to get the juices going and the vaginal walls to relax.

 
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