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Old 11-18-2003, 01:11 AM   #1
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sex n love

Just curius..
Guys what's your take on sex with love and sex without love?

 
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Old 11-18-2003, 03:25 AM   #2
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In or out of a committed relationship?

I'm married and i love the slow, loving type of sex and on other occasions i love the fast, dirty, pure sex type of sex.

 
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Old 11-18-2003, 11:52 AM   #3
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Hi,

I think being in love with the person your sharing that with makes it so much greater then it could ever be.

I am in a wonderful loving relationship and the sex is unbelievable... It doesn't come close to anything!!

There is more of a comfort level there when your in love and you can share so much more... physically and imotionally!!

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So, in general, do you think sex is more satisfying if you are in a loving relationship with the person?

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I think there's a big difference in "having sex" and "making love", having sex is usually stimulate, penetrate, ejaculate. Making love is two people who love and care for each other, are concerned for each other's feelings, take their time for foreplay,and MOST important keep on communicating with each other.
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Old 11-19-2003, 02:10 PM   #6
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Hi,

YES, sex - or making love, is WAY better if you are in love with the person. It doesn't even come close to sex with someone you don't love!! There is just so much more, so much more trust, imotions, just so much better!!

Hope this helps....

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Old 11-19-2003, 05:20 PM   #7
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Great sex takes work and lots of practice with a partner who knows you and who you know, where each partner has learned all the tricks to get the other off that special way.

Sex with a new partner in a one time fling can be very exciting as this is a new person with a new way of doing things.

Both can be good, but love and caring is what can make it great.

 
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You are leaving out one other important issue here.

It can be great if you are in love...UNTIL you find out the other partner is cheating on you. It will bring into question if the other person really ever loved you at all or at what point did he/she stopped loving you. Sex can be great with someone you love but you run the risk of also falling hard and feeling like you insides are torn apart. It happens all the time. For every action, there is a reaction.

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Old 11-21-2003, 09:09 PM   #9
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Re: sex n love

i don't believe in sex without luv..
sex with someone you luv and someone you're completely comfortable with is infinitely better than casual hookups. to me@least..

 
Old 11-23-2003, 03:07 AM   #10
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Re: sex n love

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So, in general, do you think sex is more satisfying if you are in a loving relationship with the person?
Basically, yes, because by then you usually have established a bond amongst one another in which it can help allow you to more freely express which ever emotions you want to with each other while making love. I.e. sex with love, or simple sex without love... Because then either way if you are trying to fulfill the want of sex with love or simple sex, you can achieve either one and knowingly with the person that you care for and who cares for you.
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Re: sex n love

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You are leaving out one other important issue here.

It can be great if you are in love...UNTIL you find out the other partner is cheating on you. It will bring into question if the other person really ever loved you at all or at what point did he/she stopped loving you. Sex can be great with someone you love but you run the risk of also falling hard and feeling like you insides are torn apart. It happens all the time. For every action, there is a reaction.

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Okay no offense but I dont find that issue very important for this matter!! If you are both in love then why would they cheat on you? if hte sex was great then why go looking for it somewhere else? sorry to point out the obvious but that issue really is of no importance here.
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