I am a woman and I have a thing for spankings.
I have asked past lovers to do this but they never do it right. I tell them to slap harder, or put more sting into it but they don't. I can understand why they don't want to. They slow their hands even though they know I want it. I would never want to be hurt, and guys seem to like the idea of spankings but I think they think it is a little freaky once they are faced with it.
I am not dating masochistic bad boys, but pretty normal guys. Spankings are not so important to me as to seek someone out based on their spanking interests.
Any insight on getting my sweet average Joe into spank sessions?